新婚伊始，生活教会你的三堂课
<p><span word="I">I</span> <span word="believe">believe</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="my">my</span> <span word="first">first</span> 365 <span word="days">days</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="matrimony">matrimony</span> <span word="have">have</span> <span word="been">been</span> <span word="significant">significant</span>. <span word="I">I</span>’<span word="d">d</span> <span word="like">like</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="share">share</span> <span word="what">what</span> <span word="this">this</span> <span word="first">first</span> <span word="year">year</span> <span word="has">has</span> <span word="taught">taught</span> <span word="me">me</span> <span word="about">about</span> <span word="my">my</span> <span word="relationship">relationship</span>, <span word="myself">myself</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="marriage">marriage</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="general">general</span>.</p><p>我认为自己婚姻生活的第一年至关重要。我愿意和大家分享这一年我在夫妻关系、自我以及婚姻方面的心得。</p><p><span word="First">First</span>, <span word="I">I</span>'<span word="ve">ve</span> <span word="learned">learned</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="being">being</span> <span word="married">married</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="far">far</span> <span word="less">less</span> <span word="stressful">stressful</span> <span word="than">than</span> <span word="wedding">wedding</span> <span word="planning">planning</span> -- <span word="at">at</span> <span word="least">least</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="me">me</span>.<span word="The">The</span> <span word="process">process</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="making">making</span> <span word="decisions">decisions</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="huge">huge</span> <span word="event">event</span> <span word="was">was</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="little">little</span>... <span word="much">much</span> <span word="at">at</span> <span word="times">times</span>. <span word="Looking">Looking</span> <span word="back">back</span>, <span word="I">I</span>'<span word="ve">ve</span> <span word="realized">realized</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="I">I</span> <span word="didn">didn</span>'<span word="t">t</span> <span word="need">need</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="work">work</span> <span word="myself">myself</span> <span word="up">up</span> <span word="over">over</span> <span word="things">things</span> <span word="so">so</span> <span word="much">much</span>. <span word="Being">Being</span> <span word="married">married</span>, <span word="while">while</span> <span word="full">full</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="decisions">decisions</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="tasks">tasks</span>, <span word="is">is</span> <span word="much">much</span> <span word="more">more</span> <span word="mundane">mundane</span> <span word="than">than</span> <span word="planning">planning</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="get">get</span> <span word="married">married</span> <span word="ever">ever</span> <span word="was">was</span> -- <span word="and">and</span> <span word="thank">thank</span> <span word="goodness">goodness</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="that">that</span>.</p><p>首先，我明白了结婚后的生活远不及婚礼策划那般紧张，至少对我而言如此。有时候为婚礼这项大事做决定，程序有些繁杂。再回首，我便意识到我没有必要在策划婚礼上那么拼命。尽管结婚后少不了做各种决定，完成各种任务，过日子确实比筹办婚礼要更平淡得多。还多亏了这点啊。</p><p><span word="Another">Another</span> <span word="key">key</span> <span word="lesson">lesson</span> <span word="I">I</span> <span word="learned">learned</span> <span word="has">has</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="do">do</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="my">my</span> <span word="perception">perception</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="marriage">marriage</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="how">how</span> <span word="that">that</span>'<span word="s">s</span> <span word="changed">changed</span>.<span word="I">I</span> <span word="find">find</span> <span word="myself">myself</span> <span word="thinking">thinking</span> <span word="critically">critically</span> <span word="about">about</span> <span word="my">my</span> <span word="choices">choices</span> <span word="as">as</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="wife">wife</span> -- <span word="how">how</span> <span word="my">my</span> <span word="actionsaffect">actionsaffect</span> <span word="my">my</span> <span word="husband">husband</span>, <span word="how">how</span> <span word="I">I</span> <span word="can">can</span> <span word="communicate">communicate</span> <span word="better">better</span>, <span word="talk">talk</span> <span word="more">more</span> <span word="gently">gently</span>, <span word="be">be</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="person">person</span> <span word="I">I</span> <span word="want">want</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="be">be</span>. <span word="I">I</span> <span word="now">now</span> <span word="feel">feel</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="deeper">deeper</span> <span word="responsibility">responsibility</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="just">just</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="better">better</span>. <span word="Showing">Showing</span> <span word="up">up</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="my">my</span> <span word="partner">partner</span>, <span word="and">and</span> <span word="our">our</span> <span word="marriage">marriage</span>, <span word="as">as</span> <span word="my">my</span> <span word="best">best</span> <span word="self">self</span> <span word="matters">matters</span> <span word="far">far</span> <span word="more">more</span> <span word="now">now</span> <span word="than">than</span> <span word="it">it</span> <span word="ever">ever</span> <span word="did">did</span> <span word="before">before</span>. <span word="Since">Since</span>, <span word="of">of</span> <span word="course">course</span>, <span word="we">we</span>'<span word="re">re</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="this">this</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="life">life</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="all">all</span>.</p>
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