依赖妈妈的“奶嘴男”
<p> 张口闭口“我妈说”，工资全部上交给妈妈，凡事都是妈妈说了算。这样的好儿子估计每个妈妈都喜欢吧？仿佛他们又回到了儿子叼着奶嘴的阶段，万事都要妈妈打理。难道这就是他们被称为“奶嘴男“的原因”？</p><p> </p><p> <span word="Mother">Mother</span>'<span word="s">s</span> <span word="boy">boy</span>, <span word="also">also</span> <span word="mummy">mummy</span>'<span word="s">s</span> <span word="boy">boy</span> <span word="or">or</span> <span word="mama">mama</span>'<span word="s">s</span> <span word="boy">boy</span>, <span word="is">is</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="term">term</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="man">man</span> <span word="who">who</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="excessively">excessively</span> <span word="attached">attached</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="his">his</span> <span word="mother">mother</span> <span word="at">at</span> <span word="an">an</span> <span word="age">age</span> <span word="when">when</span> <span word="men">men</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="expected">expected</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="independent">independent</span> (<span word="e">e</span>.<span word="g">g</span>. <span word="live">live</span> <span word="on">on</span> <span word="their">their</span> <span word="own">own</span>, <span word="be">be</span> <span word="economically">economically</span> <span word="independent">independent</span>).</p><p> <span word="Mother">Mother</span>’<span word="s">s</span> <span word="boy">boy</span>（或者<span word="mummy">mummy</span>’<span word="s">s</span> <span word="boy">boy</span>、<span word="mama">mama</span>’<span word="s">s</span> <span word="boy">boy</span>）就是我们俗称的“奶嘴男”，指到了应该独立生活的年纪还对母亲过度依赖的男人。</p><p> <span word="Being">Being</span> <span word="mother">mother</span>-<span word="bonded">bonded</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="sometimes">sometimes</span> <span word="seen">seen</span> <span word="as">as</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="sign">sign</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="weakness">weakness</span>, <span word="and">and</span> <span word="has">has</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="social">social</span> <span word="stigma">stigma</span> <span word="attached">attached</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="it">it</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="many">many</span> <span word="places">places</span>, <span word="although">although</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="other">other</span> <span word="places">places</span> <span word="it">it</span> <span word="may">may</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="more">more</span> <span word="acceptable">acceptable</span> <span word="or">or</span> <span word="perceived">perceived</span> <span word="as">as</span> <span word="normal">normal</span>. <span word="A">A</span> <span word="mother">mother</span>-<span word="bonded">bonded</span> <span word="man">man</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="seen">seen</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="give">give</span> <span word="control">control</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="his">his</span> <span word="own">own</span> <span word="life">life</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="his">his</span> <span word="mother">mother</span>, <span word="in">in</span> <span word="exchange">exchange</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="sense">sense</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="security">security</span>.</p><p> 这种“恋母”情节有时被视作软弱的标志，在很多场合都可能成为让男人丧失颜面的事情，虽然在别的一些场合，这样的情节可能没什么大不了。与母亲关系密切的男人其实是将自己的生活控制权完全交给母亲，来换取一份安全感。</p><p> <span word="Alternatively">Alternatively</span>, <span word="in">in</span> <span word="recent">recent</span> <span word="years">years</span>, <span word="some">some</span> <span word="have">have</span> <span word="begun">begun</span> <span word="using">using</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="term">term</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="milder">milder</span> <span word="sense">sense</span>, <span word="merely">merely</span> <span word="meaning">meaning</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="man">man</span> <span word="who">who</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="emotionally">emotionally</span> <span word="attached">attached</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="his">his</span> <span word="mother">mother</span>. <span word="Though">Though</span> <span word="this">this</span> <span word="sense">sense</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="phrase">phrase</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="still">still</span> <span word="uncommon">uncommon</span> <span word="compared">compared</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="original">original</span> <span word="pejorative">pejorative</span> <span word="intent">intent</span>, <span word="mothers">mothers</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="particular">particular</span> <span word="may">may</span> <span word="state">state</span> <span word="their">their</span> <span word="pride">pride</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="their">their</span> "<span word="mama">mama</span>'<span word="s">s</span> <span word="boy">boy</span>" <span word="sons">sons</span>.</p>
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