性格内向者所遭受的十大误解
<p>1、<span word="Introverts">Introverts</span> <span word="don">don</span>’<span word="t">t</span> <span word="like">like</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="talk">talk</span>。</p><p>误解1： 内向者不喜欢说话</p><p><span word="This">This</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="not">not</span> <span word="true">true</span>. <span word="Introverts">Introverts</span> <span word="just">just</span> <span word="don">don</span>’<span word="t">t</span> <span word="talk">talk</span> <span word="unless">unless</span> <span word="they">they</span> <span word="have">have</span> <span word="something">something</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="say">say</span>. <span word="They">They</span> <span word="hate">hate</span> <span word="small">small</span> <span word="talk">talk</span>. <span word="Get">Get</span> <span word="an">an</span> <span word="introvert">introvert</span> <span word="talking">talking</span> <span word="about">about</span> <span word="something">something</span> <span word="they">they</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="interested">interested</span> <span word="in">in</span>, <span word="and">and</span> <span word="they">they</span> <span word="won">won</span>’<span word="t">t</span> <span word="shut">shut</span> <span word="up">up</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="days">days</span>。</p><p>并不是这样，内向者不说话只是因为他们觉得没什么好说，他们讨厌闲谈扯淡，如果你让一个内向者讲他感兴趣的事情，他可能连着几天几夜都讲不完。</p><p>2、<span word="Introverts">Introverts</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="shy">shy</span>。</p><p>误解2： 内向者都很害羞</p><p><span word="Shyness">Shyness</span> <span word="has">has</span> <span word="nothing">nothing</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="do">do</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="being">being</span> <span word="an">an</span> <span word="Introvert">Introvert</span>. <span word="Introverts">Introverts</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="not">not</span> <span word="necessarily">necessarily</span> <span word="afraid">afraid</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="people">people</span>. <span word="What">What</span> <span word="they">they</span> <span word="need">need</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="reason">reason</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="interact">interact</span>. <span word="They">They</span> <span word="don">don</span>’<span word="t">t</span> <span word="interact">interact</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="sake">sake</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="interacting">interacting</span>. <span word="If">If</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="want">want</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="talk">talk</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="an">an</span> <span word="Introvert">Introvert</span>, <span word="just">just</span> <span word="start">start</span> <span word="talking">talking</span>. <span word="Don">Don</span>’<span word="t">t</span> <span word="worry">worry</span> <span word="about">about</span> <span word="being">being</span> <span word="polite">polite</span>。</p><p>内向者没什么好害羞的，他们也不是害怕陌生人，他们只是需要一个理由去交际，他们不会为了交际而交际，如果你想和一个内向者交流，那就直接聊吧，不用担心礼貌问题。</p><p>3、<span word="Introverts">Introverts</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="rude">rude</span>。</p><p>误解3：内向者都很无礼</p><p><span word="Introverts">Introverts</span> <span word="often">often</span> <span word="don">don</span>’<span word="t">t</span> <span word="see">see</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="reason">reason</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="beating">beating</span> <span word="around">around</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="bush">bush</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="social">social</span> <span word="pleasantries">pleasantries</span>. <span word="They">They</span> <span word="want">want</span> <span word="everyone">everyone</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="just">just</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="real">real</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="honest">honest</span>. <span word="Unfortunately">Unfortunately</span>, <span word="this">this</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="not">not</span> <span word="acceptable">acceptable</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="most">most</span> <span word="settings">settings</span>, <span word="so">so</span> <span word="Introverts">Introverts</span> <span word="can">can</span> <span word="feel">feel</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="lot">lot</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="pressure">pressure</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="fit">fit</span> <span word="in">in</span>, <span word="which">which</span> <span word="they">they</span> <span word="find">find</span> <span word="exhausting">exhausting</span>。</p>
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