这三件事很残酷，对你却有很大的帮助
<p>“<span word="it">it</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="neither">neither</span> <span word="good">good</span> <span word="nor">nor</span> <span word="bad">bad</span>, <span word="but">but</span> <span word="thinking">thinking</span> <span word="makes">makes</span> <span word="it">it</span> <span word="so">so</span>.”</p><p><span word="william">william</span> <span word="shakespeare">shakespeare</span></p><p><span word="some">some</span> <span word="things">things</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="often">often</span> <span word="deemed">deemed</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="bad">bad</span>. <span word="some">some</span> <span word="things">things</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="often">often</span> <span word="deemed">deemed</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="good">good</span>.</p><p><span word="here">here</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="three">three</span> <span word="things">things</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="may">may</span> <span word="sound">sound</span> <span word="bad">bad</span> <span word="but">but</span> <span word="can">can</span> <span word="actually">actually</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="good">good</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="you">you</span>. <span word="three">three</span> <span word="things">things</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="i">i</span> <span word="have">have</span> <span word="learned">learned</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="make">make</span> <span word="better">better</span> <span word="use">use</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="or">or</span> <span word="strengthen">strengthen</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="bit">bit</span> <span word="since">since</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="would">would</span> <span word="help">help</span> <span word="me">me</span> <span word="out">out</span>. <span word="think">think</span> <span word="about">about</span> <span word="them">them</span>. <span word="then">then</span> <span word="add">add</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="subtract">subtract</span> <span word="as">as</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="see">see</span> <span word="useful">useful</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="life">life</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="situation">situation</span> <span word="right">right</span> <span word="now">now</span> <span word="while">while</span> <span word="using">using</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="own">own</span> <span word="common">common</span> <span word="sense">sense</span>.</p><p>“事情本无好坏之分，关键在于你怎么想”——莎士比亚</p><p>有些事总是被认为是好的，而有些事总是被认为是坏的。有三件事听起来很坏，却能真正帮助你。好好地利用这三件事给我带来了很多帮助。仔细想想，看看它们对你现在的处境是否有帮助。</p><p>1. <span word="selfishness">selfishness</span>.</p><p><span word="selfishness">selfishness</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="rarely">rarely</span> <span word="seen">seen</span> <span word="as">as</span> <span word="something">something</span> <span word="positive">positive</span>. <span word="the">the</span> <span word="word">word</span> <span word="may">may</span> <span word="fill">fill</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="head">head</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="images">images</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="greedy">greedy</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="soulless">soulless</span> <span word="montgomery">montgomery</span> <span word="burns">burns</span>-<span word="like">like</span> <span word="people">people</span>.</p><p><span word="however">however</span>, <span word="personal">personal</span> <span word="development">development</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="way">way</span> <span word="pretty">pretty</span> <span word="selfish">selfish</span>. <span word="you">you</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="trying">trying</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="make">make</span> <span word="yourself">yourself</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="life">life</span> <span word="better">better</span>. <span word="but">but</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="thing">thing</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="by">by</span> <span word="focusing">focusing</span> <span word="on">on</span> <span word="helping">helping</span> <span word="yourself">yourself</span> <span word="first">first</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="can">can</span> <span word="become">become</span> <span word="stronger">stronger</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="help">help</span> <span word="others">others</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="better">better</span> <span word="way">way</span> <span word="too">too</span>.</p><p><span word="if">if</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="just">just</span> <span word="focus">focus</span> <span word="on">on</span> <span word="other">other</span> <span word="people">people</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="not">not</span> <span word="on">on</span> <span word="yourself">yourself</span> <span word="then">then</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="risk">risk</span> <span word="burning">burning</span> <span word="out">out</span>. <span word="or">or</span> <span word="people">people</span> <span word="may">may</span> <span word="take">take</span> <span word="advantage">advantage</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="as">as</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="set">set</span> <span word="no">no</span> <span word="limits">limits</span> <span word="or">or</span> <span word="boundaries">boundaries</span>. <span word="you">you</span> <span word="become">become</span> <span word="the">the</span> “<span word="nice">nice</span> <span word="guy">guy</span>/<span word="girl">girl</span>” <span word="who">who</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="always">always</span> <span word="out">out</span> <span word="there">there</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="help">help</span> <span word="people">people</span> <span word="but">but</span> <span word="think">think</span> <span word="little">little</span> <span word="about">about</span> <span word="yourself">yourself</span> <span word="which">which</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="long">long</span> <span word="run">run</span> <span word="can">can</span> <span word="become">become</span> <span word="pretty">pretty</span> <span word="unhealthy">unhealthy</span>.</p>
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