拒绝拖延症，今天你必须做出决定的十个原因
<p><span word="You">You</span> <span word="need">need</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="make">make</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="decision">decision</span> <span word="today">today</span>. <span word="You">You</span> <span word="know">know</span> <span word="it">it</span>. <span word="And">And</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="probably">probably</span> <span word="even">even</span> <span word="know">know</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="choice">choice</span>. <span word="Yet">Yet</span>, <span word="it">it</span> <span word="has">has</span> <span word="been">been</span> <span word="put">put</span> <span word="off">off</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="some">some</span> <span word="time">time</span>.</p><p>你今天需要做决定。你知道的，而且你知道你的选择。然而它已经被推迟了很久。</p><p><span word="Not">Not</span> <span word="Making">Making</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="Choice">Choice</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="Choice">Choice</span></p><p>不做选择也是一个选择</p><p><span word="Recently">Recently</span>, <span word="I">I</span> <span word="was">was</span> <span word="talking">talking</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="friend">friend</span> <span word="who">who</span> <span word="passed">passed</span> <span word="up">up</span> <span word="an">an</span> <span word="opportunity">opportunity</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="switch">switch</span> <span word="jobs">jobs</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="careers">careers</span>. <span word="He">He</span> <span word="was">was</span> <span word="not">not</span> <span word="looking">looking</span>, <span word="but">but</span> <span word="an">an</span> <span word="opportunity">opportunity</span> <span word="found">found</span> <span word="him">him</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="join">join</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="company">company</span> <span word="he">he</span> <span word="respected">respected</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="role">role</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="really">really</span> <span word="excited">excited</span> <span word="him">him</span>. <span word="Yet">Yet</span>, <span word="he">he</span> <span word="passed">passed</span>.</p><p>最近，我与一个刚刚错失了换工作和事业机会的朋友交谈。他没有在找机会，但是一个机会找到了他，希望他加入一个公司，这个公司他很欣赏，而且职位也很诱人。然而他拒绝了。</p><p><span word="Well">Well</span>, <span word="that">that</span>’<span word="s">s</span> <span word="not">not</span> <span word="entirely">entirely</span> <span word="accurate">accurate</span>. <span word="He">He</span> <span word="didn">didn</span>’<span word="t">t</span> <span word="pass">pass</span>… <span word="he">he</span> <span word="didn">didn</span>’<span word="t">t</span> <span word="choose">choose</span>. <span word="He">He</span> <span word="didn">didn</span>’<span word="t">t</span> <span word="make">make</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="decision">decision</span>. <span word="He">He</span> <span word="thought">thought</span> <span word="about">about</span> <span word="it">it</span>. <span word="He">He</span> <span word="worried">worried</span>, <span word="mulled">mulled</span>, <span word="pondered">pondered</span>, <span word="and">and</span> <span word="waited">waited</span>. <span word="He">He</span> <span word="could">could</span> <span word="not">not</span> <span word="bring">bring</span> <span word="himself">himself</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="an">an</span> <span word="answer">answer</span>. <span word="The">The</span> <span word="opportunity">opportunity</span> <span word="passed">passed</span>. <span word="The">The</span> <span word="job">job</span> <span word="went">went</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="someone">someone</span> <span word="else">else</span>.</p><p>好吧，这也不完全准确。他没有拒绝……他只是没有选择，他只是没有做决定。他思考了，他担心了，考虑了，衡量了，等待了。他没有给自己一个答案。机会错失了。这个工作给了别人。</p><p>“<span word="When">When</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="don">don</span>’<span word="t">t</span> <span word="make">make</span> <span word="decisions">decisions</span>, <span word="life">life</span> <span word="will">will</span> <span word="choose">choose</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="you">you</span>.” <span word="My">My</span> <span word="friend">friend</span> <span word="was">was</span> <span word="scared">scared</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="make">make</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="change">change</span>. <span word="He">He</span> <span word="was">was</span> <span word="afraid">afraid</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="making">making</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="wrong">wrong</span> <span word="choice">choice</span>. <span word="He">He</span> <span word="wasn">wasn</span>’<span word="t">t</span> <span word="sure">sure</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="himself">himself</span> <span word="or">or</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="opportunity">opportunity</span>. <span word="Now">Now</span>, <span word="he">he</span> <span word="will">will</span> <span word="not">not</span> <span word="know">know</span> <span word="what">what</span> <span word="could">could</span> <span word="have">have</span> <span word="happened">happened</span>. (<span word="Good">Good</span> <span word="or">or</span> <span word="bad">bad</span>…)</p>
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