提升自己技能和才华的7种方法
<p>1. <span word="Develop">Develop</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="critical">critical</span> <span word="decision">decision</span>-<span word="making">making</span> <span word="skills">skills</span>.<span word="Decision">Decision</span>-<span word="making">making</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="top">top</span> <span word="leadership">leadership</span> <span word="competency">competency</span> <span word="because">because</span> <span word="it">it</span> <span word="pops">pops</span> <span word="up">up</span> <span word="everywhere">everywhere</span>, <span word="from">from</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="simple">simple</span> <span word="choice">choice</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="where">where</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="hold">hold</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="staff">staff</span> <span word="meeting">meeting</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="strategic">strategic</span> <span word="options">options</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="where">where</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="spend">spend</span> <span word="marketing">marketing</span> <span word="dollars">dollars</span>. <span word="These">These</span> <span word="decisions">decisions</span> <span word="impact">impact</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="people">people</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="next">next</span> <span word="cubicle">cubicle</span>, <span word="but">but</span> <span word="they">they</span> <span word="may">may</span> <span word="also">also</span> <span word="affect">affect</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="subsidiary">subsidiary</span> <span word="halfway">halfway</span> <span word="across">across</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="globe">globe</span> <span word="or">or</span> <span word="an">an</span> <span word="entire">entire</span> <span word="country">country</span>.<span word="Decisiveness">Decisiveness</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="not">not</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="trait">trait</span> <span word="we">we</span>\'<span word="re">re</span> <span word="born">born</span> <span word="with">with</span> -- <span word="it">it</span>\'<span word="s">s</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="skill">skill</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="can">can</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="learned">learned</span>. <span word="To">To</span> <span word="master">master</span> <span word="it">it</span>, <span word="analyze">analyze</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="process">process</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="critical">critical</span> <span word="decision">decision</span>-<span word="making">making</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="spot">spot</span> <span word="weak">weak</span> <span word="links">links</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="reasoning">reasoning</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="recognize">recognize</span> <span word="unconscious">unconscious</span> <span word="biases">biases</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="or">or</span> <span word="against">against</span> <span word="something">something</span> <span word="or">or</span> <span word="someone">someone</span>. <span word="While">While</span> <span word="we">we</span> <span word="can">can</span>\'<span word="t">t</span> <span word="control">control</span> <span word="outcomes">outcomes</span>, <span word="we">we</span> <span word="can">can</span> <span word="shape">shape</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="process">process</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="sets">sets</span> <span word="them">them</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="motion">motion</span>.2. <span word="Learn">Learn</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="make">make</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="solid">solid</span> <span word="argument">argument</span>.<span word="You">You</span> <span word="may">may</span> <span word="never">never</span> <span word="address">address</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="United">United</span> <span word="Nations">Nations</span> <span word="Security">Security</span> <span word="Council">Council</span> <span word="or">or</span> <span word="testify">testify</span> <span word="before">before</span> <span word="Congress">Congress</span>, <span word="but">but</span> <span word="everyone">everyone</span> <span word="should">should</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="able">able</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="put">put</span> <span word="together">together</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="coherent">coherent</span> <span word="argument">argument</span>. <span word="That">That</span> <span word="skill">skill</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="critically">critically</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="frequently">frequently</span> <span word="useful">useful</span> -- <span word="in">in</span> <span word="high">high</span>-<span word="stakes">stakes</span> <span word="conversations">conversations</span>, <span word="in">in</span> <span word="presentations">presentations</span>, <span word="in">in</span> <span word="question">question</span>-<span word="and">and</span>-<span word="answer">answer</span> <span word="sessions">sessions</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="other">other</span> <span word="discussions">discussions</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="decision">decision</span>-<span word="makers">makers</span> <span word="or">or</span> <span word="anyone">anyone</span> <span word="else">else</span> <span word="who">who</span> <span word="represents">represents</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="certain">certain</span> <span word="viewpoint">viewpoint</span> <span word="or">or</span> <span word="asks">asks</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="explain">explain</span> <span word="yours">yours</span>.<span word="To">To</span> <span word="argue">argue</span> <span word="means">means</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="give">give</span> <span word="reasons">reasons</span>. <span word="It">It</span> <span word="means">means</span> <span word="defending">defending</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="promoting">promoting</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="choices">choices</span> <span word="against">against</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="contrary">contrary</span> <span word="arguments">arguments</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="equally">equally</span> <span word="adept">adept</span> <span word="influencers">influencers</span>. <span word="Take">Take</span> <span word="what">what</span> <span word="you">you</span>\'<span word="ve">ve</span> <span word="learned">learned</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="school">school</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="build">build</span> <span word="on">on</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="base">base</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="private">private</span> <span word="instruction">instruction</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="directed">directed</span> <span word="reading">reading</span> <span word="on">on</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="relevant">relevant</span> <span word="subject">subject</span>. <span word="You">You</span>\'<span word="ll">ll</span> <span word="find">find</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="ability">ability</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="think">think</span> <span word="critically">critically</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="analyze">analyze</span> <span word="others">others</span>\' <span word="arguments">arguments</span> <span word="will">will</span> <span word="dramatically">dramatically</span> <span word="increase">increase</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="influence">influence</span> <span word="on">on</span> <span word="their">their</span> <span word="choices">choices</span>.3. <span word="Become">Become</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="storyteller">storyteller</span>.<span word="Storytelling">Storytelling</span> <span word="has">has</span> <span word="been">been</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="premier">premier</span> <span word="tool">tool</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="influencing">influencing</span> <span word="people">people</span> <span word="across">across</span> <span word="cultures">cultures</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="eras">eras</span>. <span word="Influencers">Influencers</span> <span word="tell">tell</span> <span word="stories">stories</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="strategic">strategic</span> <span word="purposes">purposes</span>. <span word="From">From</span> <span word="motivating">motivating</span> <span word="people">people</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="act">act</span>, <span word="to">to</span> <span word="teaching">teaching</span>, <span word="to">to</span> <span word="reducing">reducing</span> <span word="resistance">resistance</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="changing">changing</span> <span word="minds">minds</span>, <span word="a">a</span> <span word="well">well</span>-<span word="told">told</span> <span word="narrative">narrative</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="formidable">formidable</span> <span word="force">force</span>, <span word="often">often</span> <span word="far">far</span> <span word="more">more</span> <span word="powerful">powerful</span> <span word="than">than</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="mere">mere</span> <span word="recitation">recitation</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="complex">complex</span> <span word="financial">financial</span> <span word="or">or</span> <span word="technical">technical</span> <span word="facts">facts</span>.<span word="Numbers">Numbers</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="figures">figures</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="important">important</span>, <span word="but">but</span> <span word="when">when</span> <span word="it">it</span> <span word="comes">comes</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="showing">showing</span> <span word="their">their</span> <span word="relationship">relationship</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="any">any</span> <span word="issue">issue</span>, <span word="large">large</span> <span word="or">or</span> <span word="small">small</span>, <span word="a">a</span> <span word="strategic">strategic</span> <span word="narrative">narrative</span> <span word="wrapped">wrapped</span> <span word="around">around</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="digits">digits</span> <span word="will">will</span> <span word="deliver">deliver</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="message">message</span> <span word="better">better</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="more">more</span> <span word="memorably">memorably</span> <span word="than">than</span> <span word="anything">anything</span> <span word="else">else</span>.<span word="After">After</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="master">master</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="data">data</span>, <span word="ask">ask</span> <span word="yourself">yourself</span>: <span word="Is">Is</span> <span word="there">there</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="way">way</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="put">put</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="human">human</span> <span word="face">face</span> <span word="on">on</span> <span word="my">my</span> <span word="message">message</span>? <span word="Are">Are</span> <span word="there">there</span> <span word="real">real</span>-<span word="life">life</span> <span word="examples">examples</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="will">will</span> <span word="help">help</span> <span word="me">me</span> <span word="make">make</span> <span word="my">my</span> <span word="point">point</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="way">way</span> <span word="others">others</span> <span word="can">can</span> <span word="relate">relate</span> <span word="to">to</span>?4. <span word="Hone">Hone</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="speaking">speaking</span> <span word="skills">skills</span>.<span word="When">When</span> <span word="many">many</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="us">us</span> <span word="think">think</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="influential">influential</span> <span word="people">people</span>, <span word="we">we</span> <span word="often">often</span> <span word="think">think</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="those">those</span> <span word="who">who</span> <span word="were">were</span> <span word="great">great</span> <span word="speakers">speakers</span>, <span word="such">such</span> <span word="as">as</span> <span word="John">John</span> <span word="F">F</span>. <span word="Kennedy">Kennedy</span>, <span word="Ronald">Ronald</span> <span word="Reagan">Reagan</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="Steve">Steve</span> <span word="Jobs">Jobs</span>, <span word="as">as</span> <span word="well">well</span> <span word="as">as</span> <span word="contemporaries">contemporaries</span> <span word="such">such</span> <span word="as">as</span> <span word="Michelle">Michelle</span> <span word="Obama">Obama</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="Sheryl">Sheryl</span> <span word="Sandberg">Sandberg</span>. <span word="While">While</span> <span word="many">many</span> <span word="influencers">influencers</span> <span word="operate">operate</span> <span word="effectively">effectively</span> <span word="behind">behind</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="scenes">scenes</span>, <span word="those">those</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="ability">ability</span>, <span word="the">the</span> <span word="drive">drive</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="courage">courage</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="speak">speak</span> <span word="persuasively">persuasively</span> <span word="have">have</span> <span word="an">an</span> <span word="additional">additional</span> <span word="source">source</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="powerful">powerful</span> <span word="leverage">leverage</span>.<span word="Like">Like</span> <span word="decision">decision</span>-<span word="making">making</span> <span word="skills">skills</span>, <span word="speaking">speaking</span> <span word="skills">skills</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="high">high</span> <span word="demand">demand</span>. <span word="Every">Every</span> <span word="day">day</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="myriad">myriad</span> <span word="organizations">organizations</span>, <span word="corporations">corporations</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="schools">schools</span>, <span word="vast">vast</span> <span word="numbers">numbers</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="presenters">presenters</span> <span word="strive">strive</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="capture">capture</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="imaginations">imaginations</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="workers">workers</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="executives">executives</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="students">students</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="order">order</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="drive">drive</span> <span word="an">an</span> <span word="agenda">agenda</span> <span word="forward">forward</span>. <span word="Yet">Yet</span> <span word="many">many</span> <span word="people">people</span> <span word="fear">fear</span> <span word="speaking">speaking</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="public">public</span>, <span word="giving">giving</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="panic">panic</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="closes">closes</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="heavy">heavy</span> <span word="door">door</span> <span word="on">on</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="fast">fast</span> <span word="track">track</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="success">success</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="influence">influence</span>.<span word="Do">Do</span> <span word="not">not</span> <span word="shy">shy</span> <span word="away">away</span> <span word="from">from</span> <span word="speaking">speaking</span> <span word="opportunities">opportunities</span>. <span word="Hone">Hone</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="message">message</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="delivery">delivery</span> <span word="skill">skill</span> <span word="by">by</span> <span word="repeatedly">repeatedly</span> <span word="putting">putting</span> <span word="yourself">yourself</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="front">front</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="an">an</span> <span word="audience">audience</span>, <span word="gather">gather</span> <span word="feedback">feedback</span>, <span word="make">make</span> <span word="adjustments">adjustments</span>, <span word="rinse">rinse</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="repeat">repeat</span>. <span word="Summon">Summon</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="courage">courage</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="speak">speak</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="accept">accept</span> <span word="discomfort">discomfort</span> <span word="as">as</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="natural">natural</span> <span word="part">part</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="learning">learning</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="growing">growing</span>. <span word="Start">Start</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="smaller">smaller</span> <span word="settings">settings</span> <span word="first">first</span>, <span word="and">and</span> <span word="then">then</span> <span word="build">build</span> <span word="up">up</span> <span word="from">from</span> <span word="there">there</span>. <span word="There">There</span>\'<span word="s">s</span> <span word="no">no</span> <span word="limit">limit</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="where">where</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="influence">influence</span> <span word="can">can</span> <span word="grow">grow</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="this">this</span> <span word="skill">skill</span>.5. <span word="Have">Have</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="basic">basic</span> <span word="understanding">understanding</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="current">current</span> <span word="events">events</span>.<span word="You">You</span> <span word="can">can</span>\'<span word="t">t</span> <span word="have">have</span> <span word="an">an</span> <span word="intelligent">intelligent</span> <span word="conversation">conversation</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="peers">peers</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="clients">clients</span> <span word="if">if</span> <span word="you">you</span>\'<span word="re">re</span> <span word="stumped">stumped</span> <span word="when">when</span> <span word="faced">faced</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="everyday">everyday</span> <span word="topics">topics</span> <span word="such">such</span> <span word="as">as</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="election">election</span>, <span word="taxes">taxes</span>, <span word="budget">budget</span> <span word="deficits">deficits</span>, <span word="interest">interest</span> <span word="rates">rates</span>, <span word="markets">markets</span>, <span word="unemployment">unemployment</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="meaning">meaning</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="all">all</span> <span word="these">these</span> <span word="things">things</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="average">average</span> <span word="citizen">citizen</span>. <span word="You">You</span> <span word="don">don</span>\'<span word="t">t</span> <span word="need">need</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="an">an</span> <span word="expert">expert</span> <span word="on">on</span> <span word="these">these</span> <span word="topics">topics</span>, <span word="but">but</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="do">do</span> <span word="need">need</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="basic">basic</span> <span word="understanding">understanding</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="them">them</span>.<span word="Influence">Influence</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="about">about</span> <span word="shaping">shaping</span> <span word="opinion">opinion</span>, <span word="and">and</span> <span word="embarrassing">embarrassing</span> <span word="holes">holes</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="everyday">everyday</span> <span word="knowledge">knowledge</span> -- <span word="the">the</span> <span word="kind">kind</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="force">force</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="awkwardly">awkwardly</span> <span word="steer">steer</span> <span word="conversations">conversations</span> <span word="into">into</span> <span word="friendlier">friendlier</span> <span word="waters">waters</span> -- <span word="can">can</span> <span word="significantly">significantly</span> <span word="dampen">dampen</span> <span word="your">your</span> 360-<span word="degree">degree</span> <span word="influencing">influencing</span> <span word="efforts">efforts</span>. <span word="To">To</span> <span word="fill">fill</span> <span word="these">these</span> <span word="gaps">gaps</span>, <span word="set">set</span> <span word="aside">aside</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="particular">particular</span> <span word="time">time</span> <span word="each">each</span> <span word="day">day</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="learn">learn</span> <span word="what">what</span>\'<span word="s">s</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="news">news</span>. <span word="Make">Make</span> <span word="it">it</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="daily">daily</span> <span word="habit">habit</span>. <span word="It">It</span> <span word="will">will</span> <span word="require">require</span> <span word="no">no</span> <span word="more">more</span> <span word="than">than</span> 20 <span word="minutes">minutes</span>.6. <span word="Think">Think</span> <span word="like">like</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="leader">leader</span>.<span word="Influence">Influence</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="most">most</span> <span word="obvious">obvious</span> <span word="when">when</span> <span word="it">it</span> <span word="happens">happens</span> <span word="at">at</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="front">front</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="pack">pack</span>. <span word="While">While</span> <span word="influence">influence</span> <span word="can">can</span> <span word="arise">arise</span> <span word="from">from</span> <span word="any">any</span> <span word="position">position</span>, <span word="it">it</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="also">also</span> <span word="from">from</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="position">position</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="leadership">leadership</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="it">it</span> <span word="can">can</span> <span word="make">make</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="most">most</span> <span word="impact">impact</span>.<span word="The">The</span> <span word="most">most</span> <span word="successful">successful</span> <span word="companies">companies</span> <span word="develop">develop</span> <span word="their">their</span> <span word="high">high</span>-<span word="potential">potential</span> <span word="leaders">leaders</span> <span word="from">from</span> <span word="within">within</span>. <span word="If">If</span> <span word="you">you</span>\'<span word="re">re</span> <span word="lucky">lucky</span> <span word="enough">enough</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="work">work</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="leadership">leadership</span>-<span word="development">development</span> <span word="powerhouse">powerhouse</span> <span word="such">such</span> <span word="as">as</span> <span word="GE">GE</span>, <span word="IBM">IBM</span> <span word="or">or</span> <span word="PG">PG</span>, <span word="you">you</span>\'<span word="ve">ve</span> <span word="got">got</span> <span word="it">it</span> <span word="made">made</span>, <span word="because">because</span> <span word="everyone">everyone</span> <span word="else">else</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="going">going</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="woo">woo</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="come">come</span> <span word="on">on</span> <span word="board">board</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="them">them</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="practice">practice</span> <span word="what">what</span> <span word="you">you</span>\'<span word="ve">ve</span> <span word="learned">learned</span>.7. <span word="Understand">Understand</span> <span word="communication">communication</span> <span word="technology">technology</span>.<span word="It">It</span>\'<span word="s">s</span> <span word="the">the</span> 21<span word="st">st</span> <span word="century">century</span>, <span word="and">and</span> <span word="even">even</span> 5 <span word="year">year</span> <span word="olds">olds</span> <span word="know">know</span> <span word="about">about</span> <span word="Twitter">Twitter</span>, <span word="Facebook">Facebook</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="latest">latest</span> <span word="multimedia">multimedia</span> <span word="platforms">platforms</span>. <span word="Social">Social</span> <span word="media">media</span> <span word="have">have</span> <span word="secured">secured</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="big">big</span> <span word="foothold">foothold</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="they">they</span>\'<span word="re">re</span> <span word="here">here</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="stay">stay</span>. <span word="If">If</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="don">don</span>\'<span word="t">t</span> <span word="have">have</span> <span word="an">an</span> <span word="ongoing">ongoing</span> <span word="online">online</span> <span word="dialogue">dialogue</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="customers">customers</span> <span word="or">or</span> <span word="if">if</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="need">need</span> <span word="a">a</span> 19 <span word="year">year</span> <span word="old">old</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="show">show</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="ropes">ropes</span> <span word="every">every</span> <span word="time">time</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="log">log</span> <span word="on">on</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="website">website</span>\'<span word="s">s</span> <span word="forum">forum</span>, <span word="you">you</span>\'<span word="re">re</span> <span word="behind">behind</span>. </p>
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