关于幸福的真谛
<p><span word="After">After</span> <span word="I">I</span> <span word="gave">gave</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="talk">talk</span> <span word="on">on</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="subject">subject</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="happiness">happiness</span>, <span word="a">a</span> <span word="woman">woman</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="audience">audience</span> <span word="stood">stood</span> <span word="up">up</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="said">said</span>, <span word="I">I</span> <span word="wish">wish</span> <span word="my">my</span> <span word="husband">husband</span> <span word="had">had</span> <span word="come">come</span>. <span word="Much">Much</span> <span word="as">as</span> <span word="I">I</span> <span word="loved">loved</span> <span word="him">him</span>, <span word="she">she</span> <span word="explained">explained</span>, <span word="it">it</span> <span word="wasnt">wasnt</span> <span word="easy">easy</span> <span word="being">being</span> <span word="married">married</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="someone">someone</span> <span word="so">so</span> <span word="unhappy">unhappy</span>. <span word="This">This</span> <span word="woman">woman</span> <span word="enabled">enabled</span> <span word="me">me</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="put">put</span> <span word="into">into</span> <span word="words">words</span> <span word="what">what</span> <span word="I">I</span> <span word="had">had</span> <span word="been">been</span> <span word="searching">searching</span> <span word="for">for</span> -- <span word="altruistic">altruistic</span>, <span word="as">as</span> <span word="well">well</span> <span word="as">as</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="personal">personal</span>, <span word="reasons">reasons</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="taking">taking</span> <span word="happiness">happiness</span> <span word="seriously">seriously</span>. <span word="I">I</span> <span word="told">told</span> <span word="her">her</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="each">each</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="us">us</span> <span word="owes">owes</span> <span word="it">it</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="our">our</span> <span word="spouse">spouse</span>, <span word="our">our</span> <span word="children">children</span>, <span word="our">our</span> <span word="friends">friends</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="as">as</span> <span word="happy">happy</span> <span word="as">as</span> <span word="we">we</span> <span word="can">can</span>.</p><p><span word="I">I</span> <span word="was">was</span> <span word="not">not</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="particularly">particularly</span> <span word="happy">happy</span> <span word="child">child</span>, <span word="and">and</span> <span word="like">like</span> <span word="most">most</span> <span word="teenagers">teenagers</span>, <span word="I">I</span> <span word="took">took</span> <span word="pleasure">pleasure</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="my">my</span> <span word="anguish">anguish</span>. <span word="One">One</span> <span word="day">day</span>, <span word="however">however</span>, <span word="it">it</span> <span word="occurred">occurred</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="me">me</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="I">I</span> <span word="was">was</span> <span word="taking">taking</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="easy">easy</span> <span word="way">way</span> <span word="out">out</span>. <span word="Anyone">Anyone</span> <span word="could">could</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="unhappy">unhappy</span>; <span word="it">it</span> <span word="took">took</span> <span word="no">no</span> <span word="courage">courage</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="effort">effort</span>. <span word="True">True</span> <span word="achievement">achievement</span> <span word="lay">lay</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="struggling">struggling</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="happy">happy</span>. <span word="The">The</span> <span word="notion">notion</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="we">we</span> <span word="have">have</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="work">work</span> <span word="at">at</span> <span word="happiness">happiness</span> <span word="comes">comes</span> <span word="as">as</span> <span word="news">news</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="many">many</span> <span word="people">people</span>. <span word="We">We</span> <span word="assume">assume</span> <span word="its">its</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="feeling">feeling</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="comes">comes</span> <span word="as">as</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="result">result</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="good">good</span> <span word="things">things</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="just">just</span> <span word="happen">happen</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="us">us</span>, <span word="things">things</span> <span word="over">over</span> <span word="which">which</span> <span word="we">we</span> <span word="have">have</span> <span word="little">little</span> <span word="or">or</span> <span word="no">no</span> <span word="control">control</span>. <span word="But">But</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="opposite">opposite</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="true">true</span>: <span word="happiness">happiness</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="largely">largely</span> <span word="under">under</span> <span word="our">our</span> <span word="control">control</span>. <span word="It">It</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="battle">battle</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="fought">fought</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="not">not</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="feeling">feeling</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="awaited">awaited</span>. <span word="To">To</span> <span word="achieve">achieve</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="happy">happy</span> <span word="life">life</span>, <span word="its">its</span> <span word="necessary">necessary</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="overcome">overcome</span> <span word="some">some</span> <span word="stumbling">stumbling</span> <span word="blocks">blocks</span>, <span word="three">three</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="which">which</span> <span word="are">are</span>:</p><p><span word="Comparison">Comparison</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="Others">Others</span></p><p><span word="Most">Most</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="us">us</span> <span word="compare">compare</span> <span word="ourselves">ourselves</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="anyone">anyone</span> <span word="we">we</span> <span word="think">think</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="happier">happier</span> -- <span word="a">a</span> <span word="relative">relative</span>, <span word="an">an</span> <span word="acquaintance">acquaintance</span> <span word="or">or</span>, <span word="often">often</span> <span word="someone">someone</span> <span word="we">we</span> <span word="barely">barely</span> <span word="know">know</span>. <span word="I">I</span> <span word="once">once</span> <span word="met">met</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="young">young</span> <span word="man">man</span> <span word="who">who</span> <span word="struck">struck</span> <span word="me">me</span> <span word="as">as</span> <span word="particularly">particularly</span> <span word="successful">successful</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="happy">happy</span>. <span word="He">He</span> <span word="spoke">spoke</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="his">his</span> <span word="love">love</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="his">his</span> <span word="beautiful">beautiful</span> <span word="wife">wife</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="their">their</span> <span word="three">three</span> <span word="daughters">daughters</span>, <span word="and">and</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="his">his</span> <span word="joy">joy</span> <span word="at">at</span> <span word="being">being</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="radio">radio</span> <span word="talk">talk</span>-<span word="show">show</span> <span word="host">host</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="city">city</span> <span word="he">he</span> <span word="loved">loved</span>. <span word="I">I</span> <span word="remember">remember</span> <span word="thinking">thinking</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="he">he</span> <span word="was">was</span> <span word="one">one</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="those">those</span> <span word="lucky">lucky</span> <span word="few">few</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="whom">whom</span> <span word="everything">everything</span> <span word="goes">goes</span> <span word="effortlessly">effortlessly</span> <span word="right">right</span>. <span word="Then">Then</span> <span word="we">we</span> <span word="started">started</span> <span word="talking">talking</span> <span word="about">about</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="Internet">Internet</span>. <span word="He">He</span> <span word="blessed">blessed</span> <span word="its">its</span> <span word="existence">existence</span>, <span word="he">he</span> <span word="told">told</span> <span word="me">me</span>, <span word="because">because</span> <span word="he">he</span> <span word="could">could</span> <span word="look">look</span> <span word="up">up</span> <span word="information">information</span> <span word="on">on</span> <span word="multiple">multiple</span> <span word="sclerosis">sclerosis</span> -- <span word="the">the</span> <span word="terrible">terrible</span> <span word="disease">disease</span> <span word="afflicting">afflicting</span> <span word="his">his</span> <span word="wife">wife</span>. <span word="I">I</span> <span word="felt">felt</span> <span word="like">like</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="fool">fool</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="assuming">assuming</span> <span word="nothing">nothing</span> <span word="unhappy">unhappy</span> <span word="existed">existed</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="his">his</span> <span word="life">life</span>.</p>
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