学会认输 赢得美满婚姻
<p><span word="To">To</span> <span word="Win">Win</span> <span word="at">at</span> <span word="Marriage">Marriage</span>, <span word="Learn">Learn</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="lose">lose</span></p><p>赢得美满婚姻,要学会认输</p><p><span word="Having">Having</span> <span word="been">been</span> <span word="married">married</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="more">more</span> <span word="than">than</span> 40 <span word="years">years</span>, <span word="I">I</span> <span word="can">can</span> <span word="attest">attest</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="truth">truth</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="following">following</span> <span word="statement">statement</span>: <span word="to">to</span> <span word="excel">excel</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="art">art</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="domestic">domestic</span> <span word="argument">argument</span>, <span word="one">one</span> <span word="must">must</span> <span word="master">master</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="art">art</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="losing">losing</span>.</p><p>做为一个结婚40余年的人，我可以证明下面这个说法完全正确：想要在家庭争执中得满分，首先要掌握认输的艺术。</p><p><span word="Modern">Modern</span> <span word="psychologists">psychologists</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="taken">taken</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="win">win</span>-<span word="win">win</span> <span word="solution">solution</span>. <span word="But">But</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="marriage">marriage</span>, <span word="success">success</span> <span word="resides">resides</span> <span word="more">more</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="lose">lose</span>-<span word="lose">lose</span> <span word="solutions">solutions</span>. <span word="Out">Out</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="these">these</span>, <span word="both">both</span> <span word="parties">parties</span> <span word="can">can</span> <span word="win">win</span>. <span word="For">For</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="love">love</span> <span word="configuration">configuration</span>, <span word="losing">losing</span> <span word="gives">gives</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="gift">gift</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="always">always</span> <span word="returns">returns</span>.</p><p>现代心理学家们都醉心于一赢再赢的解决办法，而在婚姻里头，成功往往在于采取一输再输的策略。因为这样，双方都可以是赢家。在爱情的天地里，认输实际上永远是一份有回报的礼物。</p><p><span word="One">One</span> <span word="day">day</span> <span word="shortly">shortly</span> <span word="after">after</span> <span word="my">my</span> <span word="wife">wife</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="I">I</span> <span word="were">were</span> <span word="married">married</span>, <span word="we">we</span> <span word="set">set</span> <span word="about">about</span> <span word="picking">picking</span> <span word="new">new</span> <span word="living">living</span>-<span word="room">room</span> <span word="wallpaper">wallpaper</span> <span word="from">from</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="book">book</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="samples">samples</span>. <span word="My">My</span> <span word="taste">taste</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="hers">hers</span> <span word="were">were</span> <span word="at">at</span> <span word="odds">odds</span>.</p><p>婚后不久的一天，我和妻子着手从一本样品手册中挑选起居室的壁纸。我们的爱好有了矛盾。</p><p><span word="I">I</span> <span word="like">like</span> <span word="this">this</span> <span word="one">one</span>, <span word="she">she</span> <span word="said">said</span>. <span word="That">That</span> <span word="looks">looks</span> <span word="like">like</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="section">section</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="diseased">diseased</span> <span word="liver">liver</span>. <span word="How">How</span> <span word="can">can</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="say">say</span> <span word="that">that</span>? <span word="This">This</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="classical">classical</span> <span word="pattern">pattern</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="goes">goes</span> <span word="all">all</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="way">way</span> <span word="back">back</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="Venetian">Venetian</span>. <span word="The">The</span> <span word="Venetian">Venetian</span> <span word="were">were</span> <span word="blind">blind</span>. <span word="They">They</span> <span word="named">named</span> <span word="blinds">blinds</span> <span word="after">after</span> <span word="them">them</span>, <span word="remember">remember</span>? <span word="I">I</span> <span word="like">like</span> <span word="this">this</span> <span word="one">one</span>. <span word="I">I</span> <span word="wouldnt">wouldnt</span> <span word="hang">hang</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="hell">hell</span> <span word="if">if</span> <span word="I">I</span> <span word="were">were</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="devil">devil</span>.</p>
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