最重要的教养之道：坚定
<p><span word="Top">Top</span> <span word="Parenting">Parenting</span> <span word="Info">Info</span>: <span word="Be">Be</span> <span word="Consistent">Consistent</span></p><p><span word="A">A</span> <span word="consistent">consistent</span> <span word="approach">approach</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="pivotal">pivotal</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="successfully">successfully</span> <span word="teaching">teaching</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="son">son</span> <span word="or">or</span> <span word="daughter">daughter</span> <span word="right">right</span> <span word="from">from</span> <span word="wrong">wrong</span> <span word="when">when</span> <span word="punishing">punishing</span> <span word="them">them</span>. <span word="It">It</span> <span word="prevents">prevents</span> <span word="small">small</span> <span word="misdeeds">misdeeds</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="poor">poor</span> <span word="conduct">conduct</span> <span word="from">from</span> <span word="turning">turning</span> <span word="into">into</span> <span word="greater">greater</span> <span word="misdeeds">misdeeds</span>. <span word="You">You</span> <span word="have">have</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="remain">remain</span> <span word="unwavering">unwavering</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="mean">mean</span> <span word="it">it</span> <span word="when">when</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="ask">ask</span> <span word="them">them</span>, <span word="Switch">Switch</span> <span word="off">off</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="computer">computer</span> <span word="nowor">nowor</span> <span word="no">no</span> <span word="dessert">dessert</span> <span word="after">after</span> <span word="dinner">dinner</span> <span word="because">because</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="didnt">didnt</span> <span word="touch">touch</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="dinner">dinner</span>.</p><p><span word="A">A</span> <span word="consistent">consistent</span> <span word="approach">approach</span> <span word="shows">shows</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="son">son</span> <span word="or">or</span> <span word="daughter">daughter</span> <span word="there">there</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="express">express</span> <span word="effects">effects</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="misdeeds">misdeeds</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="improper">improper</span> <span word="or">or</span> <span word="unsatisfactory">unsatisfactory</span> <span word="deeds">deeds</span> <span word="or">or</span> <span word="manners">manners</span>.</p><p><span word="Displaying">Displaying</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="lack">lack</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="consistency">consistency</span> <span word="when">when</span> <span word="punishing">punishing</span> <span word="makes">makes</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="directly">directly</span> <span word="accountable">accountable</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="childrens">childrens</span> <span word="misdeeds">misdeeds</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="will">will</span> <span word="not">not</span> <span word="teach">teach</span> <span word="them">them</span> <span word="how">how</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="liable">liable</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="their">their</span> <span word="exploits">exploits</span>.</p><p><span word="Its">Its</span> <span word="also">also</span> <span word="necessary">necessary</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="each">each</span> <span word="partner">partner</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="consistent">consistent</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="discipline">discipline</span>. <span word="If">If</span> <span word="one">one</span> <span word="parent">parent</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="firm">firm</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="other">other</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="too">too</span> <span word="forgiving">forgiving</span>, <span word="the">the</span> <span word="son">son</span> <span word="or">or</span> <span word="daughter">daughter</span> <span word="will">will</span> <span word="key">key</span> <span word="into">into</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="attempt">attempt</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="manipulate">manipulate</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="position">position</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="his">his</span> <span word="or">or</span> <span word="her">her</span> <span word="advantage">advantage</span>. <span word="Parents">Parents</span> <span word="must">must</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="agreement">agreement</span> <span word="on">on</span> <span word="disciplinary">disciplinary</span> <span word="code">code</span> <span word="beforehand">beforehand</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="make">make</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="commitment">commitment</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="each">each</span> <span word="other">other</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="consistent">consistent</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="carrying">carrying</span> <span word="out">out</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="following">following</span> <span word="through">through</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="consequences">consequences</span>. <span word="This">This</span> <span word="can">can</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="especially">especially</span> <span word="difficult">difficult</span> <span word="if">if</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="childs">childs</span> <span word="parents">parents</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="divorced">divorced</span> <span word="or">or</span> <span word="separated">separated</span>. <span word="Though">Though</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="not">not</span> <span word="living">living</span> <span word="together">together</span>, <span word="its">its</span> <span word="crucial">crucial</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="both">both</span> <span word="parents">parents</span> <span word="have">have</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="united">united</span> <span word="ground">ground</span>. <span word="Openly">Openly</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="honestly">honestly</span> <span word="agree">agree</span> <span word="these">these</span> <span word="parameters">parameters</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="former">former</span> <span word="spouse">spouse</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="son">son</span> <span word="or">or</span> <span word="daughter">daughter</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="advance">advance</span>, <span word="so">so</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="if">if</span> <span word="any">any</span> <span word="disciplinary">disciplinary</span> <span word="action">action</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="called">called</span> <span word="for">for</span>, <span word="the">the</span> <span word="effect">effect</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="such">such</span> <span word="misdeeds">misdeeds</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="fully">fully</span> <span word="realized">realized</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="advance">advance</span>.</p>
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