心灵鸡汤: 走在奔三的路上, 要干掉十大症状
<p><span word="If">If</span> <span word="youre">youre</span> <span word="approaching">approaching</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="big">big</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="feeling">feeling</span> <span word="suddenly">suddenly</span> <span word="aimless">aimless</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="insecure">insecure</span> <span word="about">about</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="career">career</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="relationships">relationships</span>, <span word="you">you</span> <span word="might">might</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="middle">middle</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="what">what</span> <span word="we">we</span> <span word="know">know</span> <span word="anecdotally">anecdotally</span> <span word="as">as</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="pre">pre</span> <span word="meltdown">meltdown</span>. <span word="Recognizing">Recognizing</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="symptoms">symptoms</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="late">late</span> <span word="identity">identity</span> <span word="crisis">crisis</span> <span word="can">can</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="first">first</span> <span word="step">step</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="making">making</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="start">start</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="third">third</span> <span word="decade">decade</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="lot">lot</span> <span word="less">less</span> <span word="stressful">stressful</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="realizing">realizing</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="youre">youre</span> <span word="probably">probably</span> <span word="right">right</span> <span word="where">where</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="need">need</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="be">be</span>, <span word="after">after</span> <span word="all">all</span>。 如果你正在奔三的道路上，突然觉得自己对于职业生涯和感情关系缺乏目标、又充满不安全感，也许你已经患上了30岁综合症。在25岁之后能意识到自己处于身份危机，这是减轻30岁后的焦虑的第一步。也许你会发现你只是在顺其自然而已。</p><p><span word="A">A</span> <span word="Sense">Sense</span> <span word="Of">Of</span> <span word="Not">Not</span> <span word="Measuring">Measuring</span> <span word="Up">Up</span> 症状一：什么都没搞定的挫败感</p><p><span word="Now">Now</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="adult">adult</span> <span word="life">life</span> <span word="seems">seems</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="have">have</span> <span word="officially">officially</span> <span word="arrived">arrived</span>, <span word="you">you</span> <span word="may">may</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="feeling">feeling</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="need">need</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="get">get</span> <span word="it">it</span> <span word="together">together</span>, <span word="fast">fast</span>. <span word="Suddenly">Suddenly</span>, <span word="it">it</span> <span word="might">might</span> <span word="seem">seem</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="if">if</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="want">want</span> <span word="marriage">marriage</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="children">children</span> <span word="things">things</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="mother">mother</span> <span word="may">may</span> <span word="have">have</span> <span word="had">had</span> <span word="at">at</span> 30 <span word="youd">youd</span> <span word="better">better</span> <span word="start">start</span> <span word="finding">finding</span> <span word="them">them</span> <span word="now">now</span>。 快步入30岁了，似乎意味着你的成年人生活正式到来，你或许有种迫切感要把一切该做好的事情尽快做好。突然，你就想像你母亲那样在30岁时把结婚生子都完成了，至少也要开始行动起来。</p><p><span word="Try">Try</span> <span word="not">not</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="stress">stress</span> <span word="about">about</span> <span word="getting">getting</span> <span word="all">all</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="ducks">ducks</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="row">row</span> <span word="by">by</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="time">time</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="hit">hit</span> 30 <span word="the">the</span> <span word="most">most</span> <span word="important">important</span> <span word="thing">thing</span> <span word="at">at</span> <span word="this">this</span> <span word="point">point</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="life">life</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="figure">figure</span> <span word="out">out</span> <span word="what">what</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="want">want</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="working">working</span> <span word="towards">towards</span> <span word="it">it</span>, <span word="not">not</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="already">already</span> <span word="have">have</span> <span word="it">it</span> <span word="all">all</span>。 试着不要给自己压力，让自己在30岁一到就把这些事都挨个地完成。你生活中最重要的事情是知道自己到底要什么，并且朝着自己的目标努力，而不是把一切做完。</p>
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