你应该忘记的7堂人生课:往前走别回头
<p><span word="In">In</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="past">past</span> 10 <span word="years">years</span>, <span word="Ive">Ive</span> <span word="realized">realized</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="our">our</span> <span word="culture">culture</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="rife">rife</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="ideas">ideas</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="actually">actually</span> <span word="inhibit">inhibit</span> <span word="joy">joy</span>. <span word="Here">Here</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="some">some</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="things">things</span> <span word="Im">Im</span> <span word="most">most</span> <span word="grateful">grateful</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="have">have</span> <span word="unlearned">unlearned</span>: 过去十年里，我意识到我们的文化虽然充满了想法却也抑制了快乐。</p><p>下面是我更希望不要学习到的东西：</p><p>1. <span word="Problems">Problems</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="bad">bad</span>. 1. 难题都是坏事。</p><p><span word="You">You</span> <span word="spent">spent</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="school">school</span> <span word="years">years</span> <span word="solving">solving</span> <span word="arbitrary">arbitrary</span> <span word="problems">problems</span> <span word="imposed">imposed</span> <span word="by">by</span> <span word="boring">boring</span> <span word="authority">authority</span> <span word="figures">figures</span>. <span word="You">You</span> <span word="learned">learned</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="problems">problems</span> <span word="suck">suck</span>. <span word="Real">Real</span> <span word="problems">problems</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="wonderful">wonderful</span>, <span word="each">each</span> <span word="carrying">carrying</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="seeds">seeds</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="its">its</span> <span word="own">own</span> <span word="solution">solution</span>. <span word="Job">Job</span> <span word="burnout">burnout</span>? <span word="Its">Its</span> <span word="steering">steering</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="toward">toward</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="perfect">perfect</span> <span word="career">career</span>. <span word="An">An</span> <span word="awful">awful</span> <span word="relationship">relationship</span>? <span word="Its">Its</span> <span word="teaching">teaching</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="what">what</span> <span word="love">love</span> <span word="means">means</span>. <span word="Confusing">Confusing</span> <span word="tax">tax</span> <span word="forms">forms</span>? <span word="Theyre">Theyre</span> <span word="suggesting">suggesting</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="hire">hire</span> <span word="an">an</span> <span word="accountant">accountant</span>. <span word="Finding">Finding</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="solution">solution</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="each">each</span> <span word="problem">problem</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="what">what</span> <span word="gives">gives</span> <span word="life">life</span> <span word="its">its</span> <span word="gusto">gusto</span>. 在校期间，你总是被无聊的权威人士逼着去解决各式各样的难题。你开始觉得这些难题太糟糕了。真正的难题是很棒的，因为每个难题都需要你找到方法来解决它。工作倦怠?这是促使你朝着完美的事业方向迈进。人际关系糟糕?这是教你爱的真谛。各类税款让你发疯?这是在告诉你要请一个会计了。给每个难题找到解决方法也能给你的生活带来乐趣哦。</p><p>2. <span word="Its">Its</span> <span word="important">important</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="stay">stay</span> <span word="happy">happy</span>. 2. 保持快乐很重要。</p><p><span word="Solving">Solving</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="knotty">knotty</span> <span word="problem">problem</span> <span word="can">can</span> <span word="help">help</span> <span word="us">us</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="happy">happy</span>, <span word="but">but</span> <span word="we">we</span> <span word="dont">dont</span> <span word="have">have</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="happy">happy</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="feel">feel</span> <span word="good">good</span>. <span word="If">If</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="sounds">sounds</span> <span word="crazy">crazy</span>, <span word="try">try</span> <span word="this">this</span>: <span word="Focus">Focus</span> <span word="on">on</span> <span word="something">something</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="makes">makes</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="miserable">miserable</span>. <span word="Then">Then</span> <span word="think">think</span>, <span word="I">I</span> <span word="must">must</span> <span word="stay">stay</span> <span word="happy">happy</span>! <span word="Stressful">Stressful</span>, <span word="isnt">isnt</span> <span word="it">it</span>? <span word="Now">Now</span> <span word="say">say</span>, <span word="Its">Its</span> <span word="okay">okay</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="as">as</span> <span word="sad">sad</span> <span word="as">as</span> <span word="I">I</span> <span word="need">need</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="be">be</span>. <span word="This">This</span> <span word="kind">kind</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="permission">permission</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="feel">feel</span> <span word="as">as</span> <span word="we">we</span> <span word="feel">feel</span> <span word="not">not</span> <span word="continuous">continuous</span> <span word="happiness">happiness</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="foundation">foundation</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="well">well</span>-<span word="being">being</span>. 解决一个棘手的难题能让我们很开心，但我们可不能为了开心而开心。如果这听起来有点晕的话，那我换个表述：想想那些让你难过的事情，然后告诉自己我必须开心。是不是顿觉压力山大了?现在你不妨说该难过的时候就难过。让我们的心情顺其自然持久的快乐并不是幸福的基础。</p>
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