心灵鸡汤：9个技巧让你学会倾听
<p><span word="Many">Many</span> <span word="people">people</span> <span word="neglect">neglect</span> <span word="this">this</span> <span word="most">most</span> <span word="important">important</span> <span word="communication">communication</span> <span word="skill">skill</span>.</p><p>许多人忽视了这一最为重要的沟通技巧。</p><p><span word="Do">Do</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="know">know</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="we">we</span> <span word="spend">spend</span> <span word="an">an</span> <span word="average">average</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="our">our</span> <span word="waking">waking</span> <span word="day">day</span> <span word="communicating">communicating</span>?</p><p>你是否积压物资我们醒着时有一半的时间是用来沟通的?</p><p><span word="Of">Of</span> <span word="this">this</span> <span word="communication">communication</span> <span word="time">time</span>, 9% <span word="is">is</span> <span word="spent">spent</span> <span word="writing">writing</span>, 16% <span word="reading">reading</span>, 30% <span word="talking">talking</span> <span word="and">and</span> 45% <span word="listening">listening</span>.</p><p>在这段时间里，9%是通过写，16%是读，30%是说而45%是用来听。</p><p><span word="Immediately">Immediately</span> <span word="after">after</span> <span word="hearing">hearing</span> <span word="something">something</span>, <span word="most">most</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="us">us</span> <span word="can">can</span> <span word="recall">recall</span> <span word="only">only</span> 50% <span word="of">of</span> <span word="what">what</span> <span word="we">we</span> <span word="hear">hear</span>. <span word="Within">Within</span> <span word="two">two</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="eight">eight</span> <span word="weeks">weeks</span>, <span word="we">we</span> <span word="can">can</span> <span word="recall">recall</span> <span word="only">only</span> 25% <span word="or">or</span> <span word="less">less</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="original">original</span> <span word="message">message</span>.<span word="Our">Our</span> <span word="mental">mental</span> <span word="attitudes">attitudes</span> <span word="reduce">reduce</span> <span word="our">our</span> <span word="ability">ability</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="retain">retain</span> <span word="what">what</span> <span word="we">we</span> <span word="hear">hear</span>.</p><p>一听完某件事，大多数人只能记住其中的50%，两至八个星期内，我们只能记得原信息的25%，甚至更少。我们的精神状态削弱了我们的记忆能力。</p><p><span word="Some">Some</span> <span word="suggestions">suggestions</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="being">being</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="good">good</span> <span word="listener">listener</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="mentioned">mentioned</span> <span word="below">below</span>.</p><p>以下是关于怎样做个好听众的建议:</p><p><span word="First">First</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="all">all</span>, <span word="stop">stop</span> <span word="talking">talking</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="cant">cant</span> <span word="listen">listen</span> <span word="while">while</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="talking">talking</span>.</p><p>首先，停止讲话你说话时是无法听。</p><p><span word="Ask">Ask</span> <span word="questions">questions</span> <span word="when">when</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="dont">dont</span> <span word="understand">understand</span>, <span word="when">when</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="need">need</span> <span word="further">further</span> <span word="clarification">clarification</span>, <span word="when">when</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="want">want</span> <span word="them">them</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="like">like</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="when">when</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="want">want</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="show">show</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="listening">listening</span>.</p><p>问问题 如你不甚理解，你需要进一步澄清，当你希望他们喜欢你并且想证明你正在听时。</p>
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