心灵鸡汤:友情与爱情的区别
<p>爱情和友情的界限是什么呢?当然,强烈的爱慕,震憾心弦的感情很容易区别出来。然而,淡淡的,细水长流的爱情与推心置腹、无所不谈的友情往往只差一线。那么怎样来区分呢?</p><p><span word="Both">Both</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="so">so</span> <span word="much">much</span> <span word="related">related</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="each">each</span> <span word="other">other</span>. <span word="And">And</span> <span word="both">both</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="so">so</span> <span word="dissimilar">dissimilar</span>! <span word="What">What</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="differences">differences</span> <span word="between">between</span> <span word="friendship">friendship</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="love">love</span>? <span word="Is">Is</span> <span word="platonic">platonic</span> <span word="friendship">friendship</span> <span word="possible">possible</span> <span word="between">between</span> <span word="persons">persons</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="opposite">opposite</span> <span word="sex">sex</span>? <span word="Let">Let</span> <span word="us">us</span> <span word="try">try</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="understand">understand</span>. 两者联系是如此密切,两者却又那么截然不同。友情和爱情有什么区别?异性朋友间的理想化的友谊真的存在吗?我们来试着理解下。</p><p><span word="What">What</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="friendship">friendship</span>? <span word="Why">Why</span> <span word="do">do</span> <span word="we">we</span> <span word="call">call</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="person">person</span> <span word="our">our</span> <span word="friend">friend</span>? <span word="When">When</span> <span word="do">do</span> <span word="we">we</span> <span word="call">call</span> <span word="someone">someone</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="very">very</span> <span word="good">good</span> <span word="friend">friend</span>? <span word="If">If</span> <span word="we">we</span> <span word="care">care</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="person">person</span>, <span word="if">if</span> <span word="we">we</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="always">always</span> <span word="ready">ready</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="help">help</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="person">person</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="if">if</span> <span word="we">we</span> <span word="share">share</span> <span word="most">most</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="our">our</span> <span word="thoughts">thoughts</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="person">person</span>, <span word="they">they</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="our">our</span> <span word="good">good</span> <span word="friends">friends</span>. <span word="We">We</span> <span word="can">can</span> <span word="always">always</span> <span word="count">count</span> <span word="upon">upon</span> <span word="our">our</span> <span word="good">good</span> <span word="friends">friends</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="an">an</span> <span word="emergency">emergency</span>. <span word="We">We</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="always">always</span> <span word="sure">sure</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="our">our</span> <span word="friend">friend</span> <span word="will">will</span> <span word="understand">understand</span> <span word="why">why</span> <span word="we">we</span> <span word="acted">acted</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="certain">certain</span> <span word="way">way</span>. <span word="We">We</span> <span word="need">need</span> <span word="not">not</span> <span word="explain">explain</span> <span word="anything">anything</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="our">our</span> <span word="very">very</span> <span word="good">good</span> <span word="friends">friends</span>. <span word="The">The</span> <span word="friendship">friendship</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="so">so</span> <span word="deep">deep</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="relationship">relationship</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="so">so</span> <span word="intimate">intimate</span>, <span word="that">that</span> <span word="most">most</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="things">things</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="automatically">automatically</span> <span word="understood">understood</span> <span word="by">by</span> <span word="our">our</span> <span word="friends">friends</span>. 什么是友情?为什么我们管一个人叫朋友?什么时候我们管一个人叫作好朋友?如果我们关心一个人,我们总是准备帮助那个人;如果我们和某个人分享大部分的想法,那个人一定是我们的好朋友。在紧急情况下我们总是依靠好朋友。我们总是确定好友会理解我们行事的方式。我们不需要向亲密的朋友解释什么。友情如此深,关系如此牢,以致于朋友间的事双方都会很自然地理解。</p>
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