心灵鸡汤：在故事之外寻找真爱
<p>我们总喜欢在谈及某事时说一些让人觉得是命中注定的玄乎事儿，用来坚定自己的信心(同时麻痹自己的理性)，最终连自己都不得不信以为真也许正是这样的故事情结造就了不少情侣，也让很多人生活得更加幸福。其实如果你愿意相信，没有故事的故事也可以很动人在感情道路上更是如此，无论我们以怎样的方式相遇、相知、相爱，即便是平淡如水的爱情也能感人至深。<span word="For">For</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="most">most</span> <span word="part">part</span>, <span word="my">my</span> 1)<span word="aversion">aversion</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="online">online</span> <span word="dating">dating</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="about">about</span> <span word="vanity">vanity</span>. <span word="Simply">Simply</span> <span word="put">put</span>, <span word="I">I</span> <span word="think">think</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="Im">Im</span> <span word="too">too</span> <span word="attractive">attractive</span>, <span word="too">too</span> <span word="interesting">interesting</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="too">too</span> <span word="young">young</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="need">need</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="subject">subject</span> <span word="myself">myself</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="trauma">trauma</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="courting">courting</span> <span word="on">on</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="Internet">Internet</span>.</p><p>我讨厌网络相亲的最大原因在于其虚有其表。简而言之，我认为自己太有魅力、太有趣也太年轻了，根本没有必要去经历网络求爱这种精神创伤。</p><p><span word="But">But</span> <span word="theres">theres</span> <span word="another">another</span> <span word="reason">reason</span>, <span word="too">too</span> <span word="its">its</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="I">I</span> <span word="love">love</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="story">story</span>. <span word="One">One</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="my">my</span> <span word="favorite">favorite</span> <span word="parts">parts</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="dating">dating</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="charming">charming</span> <span word="how">how</span> <span word="we">we</span> <span word="met">met</span> <span word="anecdote">anecdote</span>. <span word="And">And</span> <span word="Im">Im</span> <span word="sorry">sorry</span>, <span word="but">but</span> <span word="theres">theres</span> <span word="nothing">nothing</span> <span word="charming">charming</span> <span word="about">about</span> <span word="Harmony">Harmony</span>. <span word="So">So</span> <span word="when">when</span> <span word="someone">someone</span> <span word="I">I</span> <span word="know">know</span> <span word="admitted">admitted</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="part">part</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="getting">getting</span> <span word="over">over</span> <span word="his">his</span> <span word="first">first</span> <span word="love">love</span> <span word="meant">meant</span> <span word="realizing">realizing</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="hed">hed</span> <span word="been">been</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="love">love</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="story">story</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="two">two</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="them">them</span> <span word="met">met</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="desert">desert</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="Israel">Israel</span> <span word="I">I</span> <span word="immediately">immediately</span> <span word="recognized">recognized</span> <span word="my">my</span> <span word="own">own</span> <span word="experience">experience</span>.</p><p>不过，这其中还有另外一个原因我喜欢有故事的爱情。对于约会，我最钟爱的部分便是我们如何相识这件迷人轶事。真抱歉，网络红娘根本跟迷人不沾边。因此，当我的一位朋友承认结束其初恋的部分原因是他明白到自己一直以来只是与那个故事相爱他们两人是在以色列的沙漠中相遇的我立刻想到了自己的经历。</p>
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