心灵鸡汤：心远地自偏守望内心深处的宁静
<p> 1. <span word="Dont">Dont</span> <span word="worry">worry</span> <span word="about">about</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="self">self</span>-<span word="image">image</span>.</p><p> 不要顾虑自我形象。</p><p> <span word="We">We</span> <span word="all">all</span> <span word="have">have</span> <span word="an">an</span> <span word="image">image</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="ourselves">ourselves</span>, <span word="how">how</span> <span word="we">we</span> <span word="think">think</span> <span word="we">we</span> <span word="appear">appear</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="others">others</span>. <span word="Its">Its</span> <span word="usually">usually</span> <span word="wrong">wrong</span> <span word="because">because</span> <span word="we">we</span> <span word="just">just</span> <span word="dont">dont</span> <span word="know">know</span> <span word="what">what</span> <span word="other">other</span> <span word="people">people</span> <span word="think">think</span> <span word="about">about</span> <span word="us">us</span>, <span word="and">and</span> <span word="so">so</span> <span word="its">its</span> <span word="not">not</span> <span word="worth">worth</span> <span word="worrying">worrying</span> <span word="about">about</span>.</p><p> 人人心中都有自我形象，也就是我们认为自己在别人眼中的样子。不过这个形象往往是错的，因为我们其实并不知道别人到底怎么看自己，所以很容易杞人忧天。</p><p> 2. <span word="Give">Give</span> <span word="up">up</span> <span word="trying">trying</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="find">find</span> <span word="yourself">yourself</span>.</p><p> 放弃自我寻找</p><p> <span word="A">A</span> <span word="lot">lot</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="people">people</span> <span word="say">say</span>, <span word="I">I</span> <span word="need">need</span> <span word="time">time</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="find">find</span> <span word="myself">myself</span>, <span word="to">to</span> <span word="work">work</span> <span word="out">out</span> <span word="who">who</span> <span word="I">I</span> <span word="am">am</span>. <span word="This">This</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="one">one</span> <span word="way">way</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="give">give</span> <span word="yourself">yourself</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="neurosis">neurosis</span> <span word="because">because</span> <span word="theres">theres</span> <span word="nothing">nothing</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="find">find</span>. <span word="You">You</span> <span word="have">have</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="capabilities">capabilities</span>; <span word="you">you</span> <span word="may">may</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="cook">cook</span> <span word="or">or</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="chemist">chemist</span> <span word="or">or</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="charity">charity</span> <span word="worker">worker</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="nothing">nothing</span> <span word="can">can</span> <span word="take">take</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="away">away</span>.</p><p> 很多人说，我需要时间寻找自我，来认清自己到底是谁。其实这只会让你变得神经兮兮，因为并没有什么好找的。你有你的技能，你是个厨师、化学家或者慈善工作者，没有什么能改变这个事实。</p><p> 3. <span word="Celebrate">Celebrate</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="uniqueness">uniqueness</span>.</p><p> 悦纳自己的与众不同</p><p> <span word="Every">Every</span> <span word="human">human</span> <span word="being">being</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="different">different</span>, <span word="unique">unique</span>. <span word="Nobody">Nobody</span> <span word="has">has</span> <span word="quite">quite</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="same">same</span> <span word="take">take</span> <span word="on">on</span> <span word="things">things</span> <span word="as">as</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="do">do</span>. <span word="This">This</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="marvellous">marvellous</span> <span word="feeling">feeling</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="enjoy">enjoy</span>. <span word="At">At</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="same">same</span> <span word="time">time</span> <span word="we">we</span> <span word="have">have</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="understand">understand</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="others">others</span> <span word="have">have</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="different">different</span> <span word="take">take</span> <span word="too">too</span>. <span word="It">It</span> <span word="means">means</span> <span word="were">were</span> <span word="not">not</span> <span word="necessarily">necessarily</span> <span word="right">right</span>, <span word="and">and</span> <span word="it">it</span> <span word="makes">makes</span> <span word="us">us</span> <span word="more">more</span> <span word="tolerant">tolerant</span>.</p>
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