你比自己想象得更强大 别让自己只做个普通人
<p><span word="We">We</span> <span word="all">all</span> <span word="like">like</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="think">think</span> <span word="we">we</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="special">special</span>. <span word="Better">Better</span> <span word="than">than</span> <span word="others">others</span>. <span word="Doing">Doing</span> <span word="better">better</span> <span word="work">work</span>. <span word="Excelling">Excelling</span> <span word="beyond">beyond</span> <span word="our">our</span> <span word="peers">peers</span>.<span word="Yet">Yet</span>, <span word="by">by</span> <span word="definition">definition</span>, <span word="most">most</span> <span word="people">people</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="average">average</span>. 我们都希望自己是特别的，比别人优秀，做更好的工作，超越我们的同龄人。然而根据定义我们能看出，大多数人都是普通的。 <span word="Are">Are</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="choosing">choosing</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="average">average</span>? 你会选择成为普通的人吗?</p><p><span word="Average">Average</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="What">What</span> <span word="Everyone">Everyone</span> <span word="Else">Else</span> <span word="Does">Does</span> 普通人就是跟其他人做一样事情的那种人 <span word="I">I</span> <span word="was">was</span> <span word="chatting">chatting</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="business">business</span> <span word="colleague">colleague</span> <span word="recently">recently</span>. <span word="He">He</span> <span word="was">was</span> <span word="frustrated">frustrated</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="he">he</span> <span word="had">had</span> <span word="not">not</span> <span word="advanced">advanced</span> <span word="faster">faster</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="his">his</span> <span word="career">career</span>. <span word="There">There</span> <span word="was">was</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="sense">sense</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="entitlement">entitlement</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="much">much</span> <span word="complaining">complaining</span>. (<span word="I">I</span> <span word="wanted">wanted</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="tell">tell</span> <span word="him">him</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="no">no</span> <span word="one">one</span> <span word="was">was</span> <span word="going">going</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="give">give</span> <span word="him">him</span> <span word="his">his</span> <span word="dreams">dreams</span>.) <span word="Instead">Instead</span>, <span word="I">I</span> <span word="asked">asked</span> <span word="him">him</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="simple">simple</span> <span word="question">question</span> <span word="about">about</span> <span word="his">his</span> <span word="job">job</span>, <span word="What">What</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="doing">doing</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="above">above</span> <span word="average">average</span>? 我最近和一位业务伙伴聊天，他很沮丧因为他的事业并没有很快提升。他认为自己应该得到但事实上没有，所以有诸多抱怨。(我想要告诉他没有人可以帮他实现他的目标)然后，我只是问他了关于他工作方面的一个很简单的问题，你现在做的什么事情是普通人做不到的呢? <span word="In">In</span> <span word="other">other</span> <span word="words">words</span>, <span word="what">what</span> <span word="do">do</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="do">do</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="better">better</span> <span word="than">than</span> <span word="everyone">everyone</span> <span word="else">else</span>? 换句话说，你做的事情是不是比别人做得更好呢? <span word="There">There</span> <span word="was">was</span> <span word="more">more</span> <span word="complaining">complaining</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="statement">statement</span> <span word="about">about</span> <span word="putting">putting</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="more">more</span> <span word="time">time</span> <span word="than">than</span> <span word="his">his</span> <span word="peers">peers</span>. <span word="The">The</span> <span word="conversation">conversation</span> <span word="eventually">eventually</span> <span word="ended">ended</span>, <span word="but">but</span> <span word="I">I</span> <span word="ran">ran</span> <span word="into">into</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="same">same</span> <span word="individual">individual</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="few">few</span> <span word="days">days</span> <span word="later">later</span>. <span word="He">He</span> <span word="came">came</span> <span word="up">up</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="me">me</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="said">said</span>, <span word="I">I</span> <span word="thought">thought</span> <span word="about">about</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="question">question</span>. <span word="And">And</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="know">know</span> <span word="what">what</span>? <span word="I">I</span> <span word="dont">dont</span> <span word="do">do</span> <span word="anything">anything</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="everyone">everyone</span> <span word="else">else</span> <span word="doesnt">doesnt</span> <span word="do">do</span>. <span word="In">In</span> <span word="fact">fact</span>, <span word="there">there</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="several">several</span> <span word="people">people</span> <span word="who">who</span> <span word="could">could</span> <span word="do">do</span> <span word="my">my</span> <span word="job">job</span>. 他反而抱怨更多了，而且说自己比同龄人投入了更多的时间。谈话最终结束了，但我几天后又遇上了他。他走到我面前对我说，我考虑了下你的问题。但你知道吗?其他人不会做的任何事情我也不会做的。事实上，的确有一些人可以做我的工作。 <span word="He">He</span> <span word="finished">finished</span> <span word="with">with</span>, <span word="I">I</span> <span word="am">am</span> <span word="average">average</span> <span word="at">at</span> <span word="work">work</span>. 他最后说，在工作上，我只是个普通人。</p>
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