心灵鸡汤:初次约会必须注意的11个细节(1)
<p><span word="It">It</span> <span word="doesnt">doesnt</span> <span word="matter">matter</span> <span word="where">where</span> <span word="or">or</span> <span word="how">how</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="got">got</span> <span word="one">one</span>, <span word="first">first</span> <span word="dates">dates</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="awesome">awesome</span>. <span word="And">And</span> <span word="terrifying">terrifying</span>。 不论你在哪儿及怎样约会，初次约会感觉很棒。还有些吓人。 <span word="Whether">Whether</span> <span word="youre">youre</span> <span word="meeting">meeting</span> <span word="up">up</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="hairdressers">hairdressers</span> <span word="cousins">cousins</span> <span word="single">single</span> <span word="friend">friend</span>, <span word="or">or</span> <span word="youve">youve</span> <span word="decided">decided</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="choose">choose</span> <span word="an">an</span> <span word="unusual">unusual</span> <span word="date">date</span> <span word="on">on</span> <span word="HowAboutWe">HowAboutWe</span>, <span word="there">there</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="more">more</span> <span word="first">first</span> <span word="world">world</span> <span word="problems">problems</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="world">world</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="dating">dating</span> <span word="now">now</span> <span word="than">than</span> <span word="ever">ever</span>. <span word="On">On</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="first">first</span> <span word="date">date</span>, <span word="they">they</span> <span word="can">can</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="deal">deal</span>-<span word="breakers">breakers</span>, <span word="so">so</span> <span word="check">check</span> <span word="out">out</span> <span word="these">these</span> 11 <span word="first">first</span> <span word="date">date</span> <span word="tips">tips</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="modern">modern</span> <span word="love">love</span> <span word="lives">lives</span>。 不管你是要去见你理发师的堂兄弟的单身朋友，还是你决定在约会交友网站<span word="HowAboutWe">HowAboutWe</span>上选择一位不寻常的对象，如今约会是到的重大 问题比起以往要来得多。它们可能会成为初次约会的不速之客，因此看看这11条关于现代爱情生活的初次约会的建议吧。 1. <span word="Know">Know</span> <span word="when">when</span> <span word="its">its</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="date">date</span> (<span word="and">and</span> <span word="when">when</span> <span word="it">it</span> <span word="isnt">isnt</span>) 分清什么时候是在约会(什么时候不是约会) <span word="There">There</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="no">no</span> <span word="hard">hard</span> <span word="rules">rules</span> <span word="any">any</span> <span word="more">more</span> <span word="when">when</span> <span word="it">it</span> <span word="comes">comes</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="what">what</span> <span word="counts">counts</span> <span word="as">as</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="date">date</span>. <span word="You">You</span> <span word="could">could</span> <span word="go">go</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="nachos">nachos</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="several">several</span> <span word="friends">friends</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="still">still</span> <span word="make">make</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="first">first</span> <span word="date">date</span> <span word="if">if</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="both">both</span> <span word="want">want</span> <span word="to">to</span>. <span word="Or">Or</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="could">could</span> <span word="meet">meet</span> <span word="one">one</span>-<span word="on">on</span>-<span word="one">one</span>, <span word="have">have</span> <span word="dinner">dinner</span>, <span word="sleep">sleep</span> <span word="together">together</span>, <span word="and">and</span> <span word="call">call</span> <span word="it">it</span> <span word="friends">friends</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="benefits">benefits</span>. <span word="That">That</span> <span word="being">being</span> <span word="so">so</span>, <span word="your">your</span> <span word="safest">safest</span> <span word="bet">bet</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="clear">clear</span> <span word="by">by</span> <span word="calling">calling</span> <span word="it">it</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="date">date</span> <span word="when">when</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="agree">agree</span> <span word="where">where</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="when">when</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="meet">meet</span> <span word="up">up</span>。 关于怎么界定什么是约会已经没有很严格的规则了。你可以约几个朋友一起去吃烤干酪辣味玉米片，如果你们俩都愿意的话，这同样可以当成你们的初次约会。你也可以一对一见面、吃饭、睡觉，称之为炮友。也就是说，最稳妥的做法是，你要清楚你们如何界定在哪里及在什么时候见面算约会。 2. <span word="Talk">Talk</span>, <span word="dont">dont</span> <span word="text">text</span> 交谈，不要发短信 <span word="Asking">Asking</span> <span word="someone">someone</span> <span word="on">on</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="date">date</span> <span word="by">by</span> <span word="text">text</span> <span word="or">or</span> <span word="IM">IM</span> <span word="might">might</span> <span word="seem">seem</span> <span word="like">like</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="great">great</span> <span word="way">way</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="dodge">dodge</span> <span word="confidence">confidence</span> <span word="issues">issues</span>, <span word="but">but</span> <span word="it">it</span> <span word="loses">loses</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="lot">lot</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="message">message</span>. <span word="Instead">Instead</span>, <span word="make">make</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="arrangements">arrangements</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="old">old</span>-<span word="fashioned">fashioned</span> <span word="way">way</span> <span word="by">by</span> <span word="phone">phone</span> <span word="or">or</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="person">person</span> <span word="so">so</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="can">can</span> <span word="hear">hear</span> <span word="each">each</span> <span word="others">others</span> <span word="voices">voices</span>. <span word="And">And</span> <span word="if">if</span> <span word="youre">youre</span> <span word="invited">invited</span> <span word="on">on</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="date">date</span> <span word="via">via</span> <span word="SMS">SMS</span>, <span word="text">text</span> <span word="back">back</span>, <span word="Sounds">Sounds</span> <span word="good">good</span>. <span word="Give">Give</span> <span word="me">me</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="call">call</span> <span word="when">when</span> <span word="youre">youre</span> <span word="free">free</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="talk">talk</span> <span word="about">about</span> <span word="it">it</span>! 通过短信或<span word="IM">IM</span>(即时通讯软件)约会似乎是一种规避信心不足的非常好的方法，但它会丢失了很多信息。用传统的方式安排约会，那就是打电话，或面对面说，这样你可以听到彼此的声音。如果别人发短信邀约你，你就回复：听起来不错。如果你方便沟通的话，给我打个电话。 3. <span word="Dont">Dont</span> <span word="do">do</span> <span word="dinner">dinner</span> 不要选择吃饭时间 <span word="Dinner">Dinner</span> <span word="takes">takes</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="while">while</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="if">if</span> <span word="youre">youre</span> <span word="desperate">desperate</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="escape">escape</span> <span word="after">after</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="first">first</span> <span word="drink">drink</span>, <span word="youll">youll</span> <span word="wish">wish</span> <span word="youd">youd</span> <span word="arranged">arranged</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="shorter">shorter</span> <span word="date">date</span>! <span word="Go">Go</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="lunch">lunch</span> <span word="date">date</span> <span word="instead">instead</span>, <span word="or">or</span> <span word="choose">choose</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="non">non</span>-<span word="food">food</span> <span word="situation">situation</span> <span word="like">like</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="walk">walk</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="park">park</span>. <span word="That">That</span> <span word="way">way</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="can">can</span> <span word="leave">leave</span> <span word="early">early</span> <span word="if">if</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="want">want</span>, <span word="or">or</span> <span word="make">make</span> <span word="it">it</span> <span word="last">last</span> <span word="all">all</span> <span word="afternoon">afternoon</span> <span word="if">if</span> <span word="youre">youre</span> <span word="having">having</span> <span word="fun">fun</span>。 吃晚餐很花时间，如果在喝完第一杯酒以后你非常想离开，你会希望你安排了一次简短的约会。可以选择吃顿午饭，或是不要选择吃饭的时段，比如在公园里散个步。这样的话，如果你想早点结束约会，就可以早点走啦;或是你觉得很有趣，可以让它持续一整个下午。&<span word="nbsp">nbsp</span>;</p>
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