美式教养观
</p><p><span word="Raising">Raising</span> <span word="Children">Children</span> 美式教养观 </p><p><span word="The">The</span> <span word="job">job</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="raising">raising</span> <span word="children">children</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="tough">tough</span> <span word="one">one</span>. <span word="Children">Children</span> <span word="don">don</span>\'<span word="t">t</span> <span word="come">come</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="an">an</span> <span word="instruction">instruction</span> <span word="manual">manual</span>. <span word="And">And</span> <span word="each">each</span> <span word="child">child</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="different">different</span>. <span word="So">So</span> <span word="parents">parents</span> <span word="sometimes">sometimes</span> <span word="pull">pull</span> <span word="their">their</span> <span word="hair">hair</span> <span word="out">out</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="frustration">frustration</span>, <span word="not">not</span> <span word="knowing">knowing</span> <span word="what">what</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="do">do</span>. <span word="But">But</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="raising">raising</span> <span word="children">children</span>-<span word="as">as</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="all">all</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="life">life</span>-<span word="what">what</span> <span word="we">we</span> <span word="do">do</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="influenced">influenced</span> <span word="by">by</span> <span word="our">our</span> <span word="culture">culture</span>. <span word="Naturally">Naturally</span> <span word="then">then</span>, <span word="American">American</span> <span word="parents">parents</span> <span word="teach">teach</span> <span word="their">their</span> <span word="children">children</span> <span word="basic">basic</span> <span word="American">American</span> <span word="values">values</span>. </p><p> 养育孩子是件伤脑筋的差事，孩子们并不是生下来就附有说明书的，而每个孩子又都不尽相同，所以有时候父母们真是挫折地扯光了头发，还不知该怎幺办。然而以教养孩子而言，就像生活中所有的事一样，我们的行为都受文化的影响，因此，美国父母很自然地会教导他们的孩子基本的美国价值观。 </p><p> <span word="To">To</span> <span word="Americans">Americans</span>, <span word="the">the</span> <span word="goal">goal</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="parents">parents</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="help">help</span> <span word="children">children</span> <span word="stand">stand</span> <span word="on">on</span> <span word="their">their</span> <span word="own">own</span> <span word="two">two</span> <span word="feet">feet</span>. <span word="From">From</span> <span word="infancy">infancy</span>, <span word="each">each</span> <span word="child">child</span> <span word="may">may</span> <span word="get">get</span> <span word="his">his</span> <span word="or">or</span> <span word="her">her</span> <span word="own">own</span> <span word="room">room</span>. <span word="As">As</span> <span word="children">children</span> <span word="grow">grow</span>, <span word="they">they</span> <span word="gain">gain</span> <span word="more">more</span> <span word="freedom">freedom</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="make">make</span> <span word="their">their</span> <span word="own">own</span> <span word="choices">choices</span>. <span word="Teenagers">Teenagers</span> <span word="choose">choose</span> <span word="their">their</span> <span word="own">own</span> <span word="forms">forms</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="entertainment">entertainment</span>, <span word="as">as</span> <span word="well">well</span> <span word="as">as</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="friends">friends</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="share">share</span> <span word="them">them</span> <span word="with">with</span>. <span word="When">When</span> <span word="they">they</span> <span word="reach">reach</span> <span word="young">young</span> <span word="adulthood">adulthood</span>, <span word="they">they</span> <span word="choose">choose</span> <span word="their">their</span> <span word="own">own</span> <span word="careers">careers</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="marriage">marriage</span> <span word="partners">partners</span>. <span word="Of">Of</span> <span word="course">course</span>, <span word="many">many</span> <span word="young">young</span> <span word="adults">adults</span> <span word="still">still</span> <span word="seek">seek</span> <span word="their">their</span> <span word="parents">parents</span>\' <span word="advice">advice</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="approval">approval</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="choices">choices</span> <span word="they">they</span> <span word="make">make</span>. <span word="But">But</span> <span word="once">once</span> <span word="they">they</span> "<span word="leave">leave</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="nest">nest</span>" <span word="at">at</span> <span word="around">around</span> 18 <span word="to">to</span> 21 <span word="years">years</span> <span word="old">old</span>, <span word="they">they</span> <span word="want">want</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="on">on</span> <span word="their">their</span> <span word="own">own</span>, <span word="not">not</span> "<span word="tied">tied</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="their">their</span> <span word="mother">mother</span>\'<span word="s">s</span> <span word="apron">apron</span> <span word="strings">strings</span>." </p>
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