合理使用聊天表情
<p> <span word="The">The</span> <span word="battle">battle</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="over">over</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="emoticons">emoticons</span> <span word="have">have</span> <span word="won">won</span>. <span word="Whatever">Whatever</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="think">think</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="symbols">symbols</span>, <span word="theyre">theyre</span> <span word="absolutely">absolutely</span> <span word="everywhere">everywhere</span>, <span word="including">including</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="work">work</span> <span word="emails">emails</span>. <span word="But">But</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="etiquette">etiquette</span> <span word="over">over</span> <span word="emoticon">emoticon</span> <span word="usage">usage</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="still">still</span> <span word="fuzzy">fuzzy</span>, <span word="and">and</span> <span word="its">its</span> <span word="an">an</span> <span word="understandable">understandable</span> <span word="source">source</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="tension">tension</span>, <span word="especially">especially</span> <span word="considering">considering</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="people">people</span> <span word="may">may</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="judging">judging</span> <span word="us">us</span> <span word="based">based</span> <span word="on">on</span> <span word="our">our</span> <span word="smiley">smiley</span> <span word="deployment">deployment</span>. 斗争结束情感获胜。无论你怎么看待表情符号，它们真真无处不在，哪怕是工作的邮件。但如何使用这些表达感情的符号并没有明确的规则，也可看成是我们紧张情绪的舒缓，尤其是意识到别人可能会根据我们发出的表情符号对我们自身做出判断。 <span word="Luckily">Luckily</span>, <span word="researchers">researchers</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="starting">starting</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="better">better</span> <span word="understand">understand</span> <span word="how">how</span> <span word="people">people</span> <span word="perceive">perceive</span> <span word="emoticons">emoticons</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="various">various</span> <span word="contexts">contexts</span> . <span word="Their">Their</span> <span word="work">work</span> <span word="can">can</span> <span word="provide">provide</span> <span word="some">some</span> <span word="helpful">helpful</span> <span word="pointers">pointers</span> <span word="on">on</span> <span word="how">how</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="use">use</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="emoticons">emoticons</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="maximum">maximum</span> <span word="effect">effect</span>, <span word="whether">whether</span> <span word="dating">dating</span> <span word="online">online</span> <span word="or">or</span> <span word="responding">responding</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="professional">professional</span> <span word="email">email</span>. 好在，研究者们已经开始试图找到更好在不同文体中使用表情的方法他们的研究告诉我们如何在网上约会抑或回复专业邮件时充分利用表情符号。 <span word="Here">Here</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="five">five</span> <span word="ways">ways</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="smarter">smarter</span> <span word="emoticon">emoticon</span> <span word="user">user</span>: 下面五招教你做一个聪明的表情使用者： 1. <span word="If">If</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="want">want</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="popular">popular</span>, <span word="limit">limit</span> <span word="how">how</span> <span word="many">many</span> <span word="frownies">frownies</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="use">use</span>. 1.如果想增粉，就减少皱眉的表情吧。 <span word="Researchers">Researchers</span> <span word="from">from</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="University">University</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="Cambridge">Cambridge</span> <span word="Computer">Computer</span> <span word="Laboratory">Laboratory</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="Yahoo">Yahoo</span> <span word="Labs">Labs</span> <span word="analyzed">analyzed</span> <span word="more">more</span> <span word="than">than</span> 31 <span word="million">million</span> <span word="tweets">tweets</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="determine">determine</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="characteristics">characteristics</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="most">most</span> <span word="popular">popular</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="influential">influential</span> <span word="Twitter">Twitter</span> <span word="users">users</span>. <span word="They">They</span> <span word="found">found</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="Twitter">Twitter</span> <span word="users">users</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="lot">lot</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="social">social</span> <span word="capital">capital</span> <span word="sprinkled">sprinkled</span> <span word="smileys">smileys</span> <span word="liberally">liberally</span> <span word="throughout">throughout</span> <span word="their">their</span> <span word="missives">missives</span>, <span word="while">while</span> <span word="frownies">frownies</span> <span word="were">were</span> <span word="linked">linked</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="low">low</span> <span word="popularity">popularity</span>. <span word="Popular">Popular</span> <span word="users">users</span> <span word="still">still</span> <span word="expressed">expressed</span> <span word="negative">negative</span> <span word="opinions">opinions</span><span word="they">they</span> <span word="just">just</span> <span word="did">did</span> <span word="so">so</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="words">words</span>. 剑桥计算机研究室的调查者以及雅虎实验室分析3100多万推特旨在发现最受欢迎影响力最大推特用户的特征。他们发现这些推特红人们会在发送的信息中添加大量的微笑表情，而皱眉则是减粉的原因。推特红人们也会表达负面情绪-仅限于文字表达。 2. <span word="Be">Be</span> <span word="aware">aware</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="gender">gender</span> <span word="stereotypes">stereotypes</span>. 2.意识到性别模式。 <span word="Multiple">Multiple</span> <span word="studies">studies</span> <span word="over">over</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="past">past</span> 15 <span word="years">years</span> <span word="have">have</span> <span word="shown">shown</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="women">women</span> <span word="use">use</span> <span word="emoticons">emoticons</span> <span word="more">more</span> <span word="than">than</span> <span word="men">men</span>. <span word="Women">Women</span> <span word="also">also</span> <span word="smile">smile</span> <span word="more">more</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="real">real</span> <span word="life">life</span>, <span word="perhaps">perhaps</span> <span word="because">because</span> <span word="they">they</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="expected">expected</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="more">more</span> <span word="expressive">expressive</span> <span word="gender">gender</span>, <span word="says">says</span> <span word="Susan">Susan</span> <span word="Herring">Herring</span>, <span word="a">a</span> <span word="linguist">linguist</span> <span word="at">at</span> <span word="Indiana">Indiana</span> <span word="University">University</span> <span word="who">who</span> <span word="studies">studies</span> <span word="online">online</span> <span word="communication">communication</span>. <span word="In">In</span> <span word="a">a</span> 2009 <span word="analysis">analysis</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="messages">messages</span> <span word="featured">featured</span> <span word="on">on</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="texting">texting</span>-<span word="based">based</span> <span word="Italian">Italian</span> <span word="dating">dating</span> <span word="show">show</span>, <span word="she">she</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="her">her</span> <span word="colleagues">colleagues</span> <span word="argued">argued</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="men">men</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="women">women</span> <span word="used">used</span> <span word="their">their</span> <span word="texts">texts</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="project">project</span> <span word="different">different</span> <span word="identities">identities</span>. <span word="The">The</span> <span word="women">women</span> <span word="who">who</span> <span word="sent">sent</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="their">their</span> <span word="messages">messages</span> <span word="seemed">seemed</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="performing">performing</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="kind">kind</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="socially">socially</span> <span word="desirable">desirable</span> <span word="femininity">femininity</span> <span word="characterized">characterized</span> <span word="by">by</span> <span word="playfulness">playfulness</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="fun">fun</span>, <span word="while">while</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="men">men</span> <span word="acted">acted</span> <span word="more">more</span> <span word="serious">serious</span>. 超过15年的多项研究发现女人比男人更爱使用表情符号。研究网上交流印度大学的语言学家<span word="Susan">Susan</span> <span word="Herring">Herring</span>认为现实中女人也更爱笑，也许她们本身就被看成是更乐于表达，在09年对意大利文字约会的信息分析中，她和同事们认为男人女人用文字塑造出了不同的个性特征。女人们发送出的信息似乎是要成为有魅力的社交尤物，比如好玩有意思，而男人就会更加认真严肃一点。 <span word="Theres">Theres</span> <span word="this">this</span> <span word="new">new</span> <span word="norm">norm</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="women">women</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="expected">expected</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="show">show</span> <span word="more">more</span> <span word="happiness">happiness</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="excitement">excitement</span> <span word="than">than</span> <span word="men">men</span> <span word="do">do</span>, <span word="said">said</span> <span word="Herring">Herring</span>. <span word="If">If</span> <span word="youre">youre</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="woman">woman</span>, <span word="you">you</span> <span word="may">may</span> <span word="have">have</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="realize">realize</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="if">if</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="dont">dont</span> <span word="use">use</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="smiley">smiley</span> <span word="face">face</span> <span word="sometimes">sometimes</span>, <span word="you">you</span> <span word="may">may</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="misinterpreted">misinterpreted</span> <span word="as">as</span> <span word="being">being</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="bad">bad</span> <span word="mood">mood</span> <span word="or">or</span> <span word="unhappy">unhappy</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="person">person</span> <span word="youre">youre</span> <span word="talking">talking</span> <span word="to">to</span>. <span word="I">I</span> <span word="dont">dont</span> <span word="think">think</span> <span word="thats">thats</span> <span word="true">true</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="men">men</span>. 新的标准也指出似乎女人应该比男人表现的更快乐和兴奋，<span word="Herring">Herring</span>说如果你是女人，你也许会意识到如果有时候没有用笑脸的表情，就会被对方误认为是心情不好不开心。但这一点在男生身上却不适用。 3. <span word="If">If</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="want">want</span> <span word="someone">someone</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="like">like</span> <span word="you">you</span>, <span word="match">match</span> <span word="their">their</span> <span word="emoticon">emoticon</span> <span word="frequency">frequency</span>. 3.如果你想别人喜欢你，时常配合他们的情绪。 <span word="In">In</span> <span word="a">a</span> 2013 <span word="study">study</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="messages">messages</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="chat">chat</span> <span word="rooms">rooms</span> <span word="full">full</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="men">men</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="women">women</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="various">various</span> <span word="ages">ages</span>, <span word="Chris">Chris</span> <span word="Fullwood">Fullwood</span>, <span word="a">a</span> <span word="cyberpsychology">cyberpsychology</span> <span word="researcher">researcher</span> <span word="at">at</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="University">University</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="Wolverhampton">Wolverhampton</span>, <span word="and">and</span> <span word="his">his</span> <span word="colleagues">colleagues</span> <span word="found">found</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="although">although</span> <span word="men">men</span> <span word="typically">typically</span> <span word="use">use</span> <span word="fewer">fewer</span> <span word="emoticons">emoticons</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="general">general</span>, <span word="when">when</span> <span word="conversing">conversing</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="women">women</span> <span word="they">they</span> <span word="become">become</span> <span word="more">more</span> <span word="expressive">expressive</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="up">up</span> <span word="their">their</span> <span word="usage">usage</span>. 2013年充满各个年龄段的男女聊天室聊天信息的研究中，武尔夫普尔顿大学网瘾研究员<span word="Chris">Chris</span> <span word="Fullwood">Fullwood</span>以及他的同事发现，尽管男生普遍使用更少的表情，一旦和女人聊天，他们会更热衷于表达，增加使用次数。 <span word="That">That</span> <span word="could">could</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="direct">direct</span> <span word="attempt">attempt</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="minimize">minimize</span> <span word="social">social</span> <span word="differences">differences</span>, <span word="Fullwood">Fullwood</span> <span word="said">said</span>. <span word="Our">Our</span> <span word="communication">communication</span> <span word="styles">styles</span> <span word="become">become</span> <span word="more">more</span> <span word="similar">similar</span> <span word="if">if</span> <span word="we">we</span> <span word="want">want</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="show">show</span> <span word="we">we</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="similar">similar</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="another">another</span> <span word="person">person</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="get">get</span> <span word="them">them</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="like">like</span> <span word="us">us</span>. <span word="So">So</span> <span word="if">if</span> <span word="youre">youre</span> <span word="trying">trying</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="flirt">flirt</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="someone">someone</span> <span word="who">who</span> <span word="isnt">isnt</span> <span word="matching">matching</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="emoticon">emoticon</span> <span word="frequency">frequency</span>, <span word="that">that</span> <span word="may">may</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="sign">sign</span> <span word="theyre">theyre</span> <span word="not">not</span> <span word="into">into</span> <span word="it">it</span>. <span word="And">And</span> <span word="more">more</span> <span word="generally">generally</span>, <span word="its">its</span> <span word="best">best</span> <span word="not">not</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="overdo">overdo</span> <span word="it">it</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="emoticons">emoticons</span>, <span word="since">since</span> <span word="if">if</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="do">do</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="may">may</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="perceived">perceived</span> <span word="as">as</span> <span word="superficial">superficial</span> <span word="or">or</span> <span word="silly">silly</span>. <span word="If">If</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="use">use</span> <span word="one">one</span> <span word="after">after</span> <span word="every">every</span> <span word="utterance">utterance</span> <span word="youre">youre</span> <span word="not">not</span> <span word="going">going</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="taken">taken</span> <span word="seriously">seriously</span>, <span word="said">said</span> <span word="Herring">Herring</span>. <span word="Fullwood">Fullwood</span>说也有直接的途径来减少社交差异，当我们想表现出跟对方的相似性以取悦，我们的交流模式也会变得相似。所以如果你调情的那个人似乎跟你使用表情的频率不一致，那么也许说明他们不想配合你而已。一般来说，也不要过度使用表情，以免被认为肤浅或傻。如果你每句话之后都加一个表情，那么别人就会觉得你不太正经。 4. <span word="Wait">Wait</span> <span word="until">until</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="know">know</span> <span word="someone">someone</span>. 4.了解之后再说。 <span word="We">We</span> <span word="dont">dont</span> <span word="send">send</span> <span word="emoticons">emoticons</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="strangers">strangers</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="same">same</span> <span word="frequency">frequency</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="we">we</span> <span word="send">send</span> <span word="them">them</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="our">our</span> <span word="friends">friends</span>, <span word="according">according</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="a">a</span> 2008 <span word="study">study</span> <span word="by">by</span> <span word="Daantje">Daantje</span> <span word="Derks">Derks</span>, <span word="an">an</span> <span word="organizational">organizational</span> <span word="psychologist">psychologist</span> <span word="at">at</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="Erasmus">Erasmus</span> <span word="University">University</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="Rotterdam">Rotterdam</span>. <span word="If">If</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="receive">receive</span> <span word="an">an</span> <span word="emoticon">emoticon</span> <span word="from">from</span> <span word="someone">someone</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="don">don</span> <span word="t">t</span> <span word="know">know</span> <span word="very">very</span> <span word="well">well</span>, <span word="it">it</span> <span word="may">may</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="interpreted">interpreted</span> <span word="as">as</span> <span word="creepy">creepy</span>. <span word="Like">Like</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="face">face</span>-<span word="to">to</span>-<span word="face">face</span> <span word="interactions">interactions</span>, <span word="theres">theres</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="social">social</span> <span word="norm">norm</span> <span word="against">against</span> <span word="emoting">emoting</span> <span word="around">around</span> <span word="people">people</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="dont">dont</span> <span word="know">know</span> <span word="very">very</span> <span word="well">well</span>, <span word="Herring">Herring</span> <span word="said">said</span>. <span word="Going">Going</span> <span word="too">too</span> <span word="heavy">heavy</span>, <span word="too">too</span> <span word="early">early</span> <span word="on">on</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="emoticons">emoticons</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="bit">bit</span> <span word="like">like</span> <span word="laughing">laughing</span> <span word="too">too</span> <span word="loud">loud</span>, <span word="she">she</span> <span word="says">says</span>. 根据08年鹿特丹伊斯拉姆斯大学组织心理学家<span word="Daantje">Daantje</span> <span word="Derks">Derks</span>的研究表明，我们对陌生人使用表情的频率肯定不及对朋友。如果一个不熟悉的人给你发来表情，也许会被认为有点诡异呢。就好比面对面的交流，社交准则说不要对不熟悉的人有太多面部表情。<span word="Herring">Herring</span>说，过早过度使用表情就好比大声笑。 5. <span word="Avoid">Avoid</span> <span word="looking">looking</span> <span word="like">like</span> <span word="an">an</span> <span word="emoticon">emoticon</span> <span word="tourist">tourist</span>. 5.别看起来完全不懂使用表情符号。 <span word="Language">Language</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="culture">culture</span> <span word="have">have</span> <span word="been">been</span> <span word="shown">shown</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="color">color</span> <span word="how">how</span> <span word="emoticons">emoticons</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="used">used</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="interpreted">interpreted</span>, <span word="as">as</span> <span word="was">was</span> <span word="recently">recently</span> <span word="demonstrated">demonstrated</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="a">a</span> 2013 <span word="study">study</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="tweets">tweets</span> <span word="from">from</span> <span word="around">around</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="world">world</span>. <span word="In">In</span> <span word="Japan">Japan</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="South">South</span> <span word="Korea">Korea</span>, <span word="for">for</span> <span word="instance">instance</span>, <span word="emoticons">emoticons</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="more">more</span> <span word="likely">likely</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="horizontally">horizontally</span> <span word="oriented">oriented</span> ), <span word="as">as</span> <span word="opposed">opposed</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="standard">standard</span> <span word="American">American</span> :), <span word="which">which</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="vertically">vertically</span> <span word="oriented">oriented</span> <span word="unless">unless</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="mail">mail</span> <span word="program">program</span> <span word="or">or</span> <span word="phone">phone</span> <span word="turns">turns</span> <span word="it">it</span> <span word="into">into</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="graphic">graphic</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="you">you</span>. 在对2013年全球推特的研究中发现语言和文化会影响表情的使用和含义。比如日本韩国，表情更加倾向于横向，然而标准的美式表情：)，是纵向的。除非你的邮件系统或电话自动为你修改。 <span word="In">In</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="Philippines">Philippines</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="Indonesia">Indonesia</span>, <span word="however">however</span>, <span word="where">where</span> <span word="English">English</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="spoken">spoken</span> <span word="along">along</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="local">local</span> <span word="languages">languages</span>, <span word="emoticons">emoticons</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="just">just</span> <span word="as">as</span> <span word="likely">likely</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="vertically">vertically</span> <span word="oriented">oriented</span>. <span word="And">And</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="languages">languages</span> <span word="read">read</span> <span word="from">from</span> <span word="right">right</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="left">left</span>, <span word="such">such</span> <span word="as">as</span> <span word="Arabic">Arabic</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="Hebrew">Hebrew</span>, <span word="smileys">smileys</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="reversed">reversed</span>, <span word="like">like</span> (: . <span word="South">South</span> <span word="Americans">Americans</span> <span word="apparently">apparently</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="known">known</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="explore">explore</span> <span word="various">various</span> <span word="types">types</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="eyebrows">eyebrows</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="their">their</span> <span word="emoticons">emoticons</span>, <span word="according">according</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="study">study</span> <span word="authors">authors</span>. <span word="So">So</span> <span word="if">if</span> <span word="youre">youre</span> <span word="sending">sending</span> <span word="emoticons">emoticons</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="foreign">foreign</span> <span word="friends">friends</span>, <span word="a">a</span> <span word="bit">bit</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="research">research</span> <span word="can">can</span> <span word="help">help</span> <span word="bridge">bridge</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="communication">communication</span> <span word="gap">gap</span>. 然而在菲律宾和印度尼西亚，英语和当地语言混杂使用，表情符号也似乎偏纵向。而对于从右往左阅读的语言，比如阿拉伯语和希伯来语，笑脸也会反过来(：。研究发现南美显然被认为在表达情绪中更热衷于使用眉毛。所以如果你给国外的朋友发送表情，一点小调查能帮助你缩短交流代沟哦。</p>
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