测试异性关系的六个方法
<p> 测试异性关系的六个方法 <span word="You">You</span> <span word="re">re</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="smart">smart</span>, <span word="attractive">attractive</span> <span word="person">person</span>, <span word="so">so</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="wouldn">wouldn</span> <span word="t">t</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="surprised">surprised</span> <span word="if">if</span> <span word="one">one</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="friends">friends</span> <span word="got">got</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="hots">hots</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="then">then</span> <span word="started">started</span> <span word="acting">acting</span> <span word="all">all</span> <span word="kinds">kinds</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="crazy">crazy</span>. 你聪明，充满吸引力，所以如果你的一个朋友迷上了你，然后为你做出一系列疯狂的举动就不会令人奇怪了。 <span word="Your">Your</span> <span word="love">love</span>-<span word="struck">struck</span> <span word="friend">friend</span> <span word="will">will</span> <span word="wonder">wonder</span> <span word="if">if</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="feel">feel</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="same">same</span> <span word="way">way</span>, <span word="and">and</span> <span word="will">will</span> <span word="probably">probably</span> <span word="dream">dream</span> <span word="up">up</span> <span word="subtle">subtle</span> <span word="tests">tests</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="find">find</span> <span word="out">out</span>. <span word="They">They</span> <span word="could">could</span> <span word="save">save</span> <span word="themselves">themselves</span> <span word="some">some</span> <span word="effort">effort</span> <span word="by">by</span> <span word="quickly">quickly</span> <span word="surveying">surveying</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="scientific">scientific</span> <span word="literature">literature</span>, <span word="though">though</span>, <span word="because">because</span> <span word="they">they</span> <span word="will">will</span> <span word="almost">almost</span> <span word="certainly">certainly</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="following">following</span> <span word="one">one</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="six">six</span> <span word="well">well</span>-<span word="trodden">trodden</span> <span word="paths">paths</span>. 1. <span word="Endurance">Endurance</span> <span word="This">This</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="most">most</span> <span word="common">common</span> <span word="type">type</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="test">test</span>. <span word="In">In</span> <span word="this">this</span> <span word="category">category</span>, <span word="the">the</span> <span word="love">love</span>-<span word="struck">struck</span> <span word="friend">friend</span> <span word="does">does</span> <span word="their">their</span> <span word="best">best</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="test">test</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="other">other</span> <span word="person">person</span> <span word="s">s</span> <span word="feelings">feelings</span> <span word="by">by</span> <span word="fishing">fishing</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="compliments">compliments</span> <span word="or">or</span> <span word="demanding">demanding</span> <span word="help">help</span> <span word="especially">especially</span> <span word="if">if</span> <span word="it">it</span> <span word="comes">comes</span> <span word="at">at</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="cost">cost</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="other">other</span>. <span word="A">A</span> <span word="classic">classic</span> <span word="endurance">endurance</span> <span word="gambit">gambit</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="self">self</span>-<span word="put">put</span>-<span word="down">down</span>. <span word="As">As</span> <span word="one">one</span> <span word="respondent">respondent</span> <span word="recalled">recalled</span>: <span word="He">He</span> <span word="was">was</span> <span word="really">really</span> <span word="getting">getting</span> <span word="down">down</span> <span word="on">on</span> <span word="himself">himself</span>, <span word="saying">saying</span> <span word="he">he</span> <span word="wasn">wasn</span> <span word="t">t</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="very">very</span> <span word="capable">capable</span> <span word="or">or</span> <span word="nice">nice</span> <span word="person">person</span>. <span word="He">He</span> <span word="said">said</span> <span word="it">it</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="get">get</span> <span word="me">me</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="compliment">compliment</span> <span word="him">him</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="verbalise">verbalise</span> <span word="how">how</span> <span word="much">much</span> <span word="I">I</span> <span word="thought">thought</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="him">him</span>. <span word="Another">Another</span> <span word="type">type</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="endurance">endurance</span> <span word="test">test</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="called">called</span> <span word="forced">forced</span> <span word="choice">choice</span>, <span word="in">in</span> <span word="which">which</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="friend">friend</span> <span word="wants">wants</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="see">see</span> <span word="if">if</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="will">will</span> <span word="drop">drop</span> <span word="everything">everything</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="them">them</span>. <span word="She">She</span> <span word="came">came</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="where">where</span> <span word="I">I</span> <span word="work">work</span> <span word="out">out</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="said">said</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="she">she</span> <span word="was">was</span> <span word="really">really</span> <span word="depressed">depressed</span> <span word="but">but</span> <span word="didn">didn</span> <span word="t">t</span> <span word="want">want</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="bother">bother</span> <span word="me">me</span>, <span word="said">said</span> <span word="one">one</span> <span word="man">man</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="his">his</span> <span word="interview">interview</span>. <span word="She">She</span> <span word="really">really</span> <span word="wanted">wanted</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="see">see</span> <span word="if">if</span> <span word="I">I</span> <span word="would">would</span> <span word="stop">stop</span> <span word="what">what</span> <span word="I">I</span> <span word="was">was</span> <span word="doing">doing</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="show">show</span> <span word="my">my</span> <span word="concern">concern</span>, <span word="indicating">indicating</span> <span word="how">how</span> <span word="much">much</span> <span word="I">I</span> <span word="care">care</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="her">her</span>. <span word="Finally">Finally</span>, <span word="enamoured">enamoured</span> <span word="friends">friends</span> <span word="will">will</span> <span word="behave">behave</span> <span word="like">like</span> <span word="spoiled">spoiled</span> <span word="brats">brats</span>, <span word="pushing">pushing</span> <span word="their">their</span> <span word="friend">friend</span> <span word="s">s</span> <span word="buttons">buttons</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="see">see</span> <span word="how">how</span> <span word="much">much</span> <span word="mistreatment">mistreatment</span> <span word="they">they</span> <span word="will">will</span> <span word="put">put</span> <span word="up">up</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="without">without</span> <span word="complaining">complaining</span>, <span word="will">will</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="still">still</span> <span word="like">like</span> <span word="them">them</span> <span word="even">even</span> <span word="when">when</span> <span word="they">they</span> <span word="re">re</span> <span word="being">being</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="pain">pain</span>? 2. <span word="Triangulation">Triangulation</span> <span word="The">The</span> <span word="second">second</span> <span word="most">most</span> <span word="popular">popular</span> <span word="type">type</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="test">test</span> <span word="was">was</span> <span word="dubbed">dubbed</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="triangle">triangle</span>, <span word="because">because</span> <span word="it">it</span> <span word="relies">relies</span> <span word="on">on</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="age">age</span>-<span word="old">old</span> <span word="saying">saying</span> <span word="three">three</span> <span word="s">s</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="crowd">crowd</span> . <span word="Some">Some</span> <span word="people">people</span> <span word="engineer">engineer</span> <span word="fidelity">fidelity</span> <span word="checks">checks</span> , <span word="especially">especially</span> <span word="if">if</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="relationship">relationship</span> <span word="has">has</span> <span word="already">already</span> <span word="strayed">strayed</span> <span word="beyond">beyond</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="platonic">platonic</span>. <span word="One">One</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="interviewees">interviewees</span> <span word="wanted">wanted</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="test">test</span> <span word="if">if</span> <span word="her">her</span> <span word="boyfriend">boyfriend</span> <span word="was">was</span> <span word="as">as</span> <span word="keen">keen</span> <span word="as">as</span> <span word="she">she</span> <span word="was">was</span>. <span word="I">I</span> <span word="would">would</span> <span word="intentionally">intentionally</span> <span word="leave">leave</span> <span word="him">him</span> <span word="alone">alone</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="my">my</span> <span word="room">room</span>-<span word="mate">mate</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="then">then</span> <span word="ask">ask</span> <span word="him">him</span> <span word="when">when</span> <span word="I">I</span> <span word="returned">returned</span> <span word="What">What</span> <span word="have">have</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="two">two</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="been">been</span> <span word="up">up</span> <span word="to">to</span>? <span word="If">If</span> <span word="he">he</span> <span word="acted">acted</span> <span word="uncomfortable">uncomfortable</span>, <span word="I">I</span> <span word="would">would</span> <span word="know">know</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="he">he</span> <span word="wasn">wasn</span> <span word="t">t</span> <span word="faithful">faithful</span> <span word="or">or</span> <span word="at">at</span> <span word="least">least</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="he">he</span> <span word="was">was</span> <span word="thinking">thinking</span> <span word="about">about</span> <span word="being">being</span> <span word="unfaithful">unfaithful</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="me">me</span>. <span word="Others">Others</span> <span word="employ">employ</span> <span word="jealousy">jealousy</span> <span word="tests">tests</span>: <span word="I">I</span> <span word="tested">tested</span> <span word="her">her</span> <span word="limits">limits</span> <span word="by">by</span> <span word="going">going</span> <span word="out">out</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="other">other</span> <span word="women">women</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="making">making</span> <span word="sure">sure</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="she">she</span> <span word="found">found</span> <span word="out">out</span> <span word="about">about</span> <span word="it">it</span>. <span word="I">I</span> <span word="wanted">wanted</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="know">know</span> <span word="what">what</span> <span word="kind">kind</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="relationship">relationship</span> <span word="commitment">commitment</span> <span word="she">she</span> <span word="wanted">wanted</span>, <span word="said">said</span> <span word="one">one</span> <span word="man">man</span>. 3. <span word="Hint">Hint</span>, <span word="hint">hint</span> <span word="Then">Then</span> <span word="there">there</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="indirect">indirect</span> <span word="suggestion">suggestion</span> <span word="tests">tests</span>: <span word="joking">joking</span> <span word="about">about</span> <span word="serious">serious</span> <span word="feelings">feelings</span>, <span word="hinting">hinting</span> <span word="or">or</span> <span word="getting">getting</span> <span word="increasingly">increasingly</span> <span word="intimate">intimate</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="bodily">bodily</span> <span word="contact">contact</span>. <span word="When">When</span> <span word="we">we</span> <span word="were">were</span> <span word="just">just</span> <span word="becoming">becoming</span> <span word="romantic">romantic</span>, <span word="he">he</span> <span word="kept">kept</span> <span word="getting">getting</span> <span word="more">more</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="more">more</span> <span word="bold">bold</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="his">his</span> <span word="touching">touching</span>, <span word="first">first</span> <span word="his">his</span> <span word="arm">arm</span> <span word="around">around</span> <span word="my">my</span> <span word="shoulder">shoulder</span>, <span word="then">then</span> <span word="moving">moving</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="real">real</span> <span word="close">close</span>, <span word="etc">etc</span>. <span word="He">He</span> <span word="was">was</span> <span word="waiting">waiting</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="see">see</span> <span word="if">if</span> <span word="I">I</span> <span word="would">would</span> <span word="tell">tell</span> <span word="him">him</span> <span word="when">when</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="stop">stop</span> <span word="as">as</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="sign">sign</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="how">how</span> <span word="much">much</span> <span word="I">I</span> <span word="liked">liked</span> <span word="him">him</span>, <span word="said">said</span> <span word="one">one</span> <span word="interviewee">interviewee</span>. 4. <span word="Miss">Miss</span> <span word="me">me</span>? <span word="Distance">Distance</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="supposed">supposed</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="make">make</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="heart">heart</span> <span word="grow">grow</span> <span word="fonder">fonder</span>, <span word="and">and</span> <span word="indeed">indeed</span> <span word="physical">physical</span> <span word="separation">separation</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="common">common</span> <span word="test">test</span>. <span word="One">One</span> <span word="respondent">respondent</span> <span word="admitted">admitted</span>: <span word="To">To</span> <span word="see">see</span> <span word="if">if</span> <span word="our">our</span> <span word="relationship">relationship</span> <span word="was">was</span> <span word="really">really</span> <span word="strong">strong</span> <span word="I">I</span> <span word="tested">tested</span> <span word="it">it</span> <span word="by">by</span> <span word="going">going</span> <span word="overseas">overseas</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="few">few</span> <span word="months">months</span>. <span word="If">If</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="have">have</span> <span word="felt">felt</span> <span word="like">like</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="didn">didn</span> <span word="t">t</span> <span word="want">want</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="first">first</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="call">call</span>, <span word="you">you</span> <span word="could">could</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="using">using</span> <span word="another">another</span> <span word="separation">separation</span> <span word="test">test</span> <span word="called">called</span> <span word="initiation">initiation</span> <span word="induction">induction</span>. <span word="When">When</span> <span word="I">I</span> <span word="returned">returned</span> <span word="from">from</span> <span word="Switzerland">Switzerland</span>, <span word="he">he</span> <span word="didn">didn</span> <span word="t">t</span> <span word="call">call</span> <span word="me">me</span> <span word="even">even</span> <span word="though">though</span> <span word="he">he</span> <span word="knew">knew</span> <span word="exactly">exactly</span> <span word="when">when</span> <span word="I">I</span> <span word="was">was</span> <span word="returning">returning</span>. <span word="He">He</span> <span word="wanted">wanted</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="see">see</span> <span word="if">if</span> <span word="I">I</span> <span word="still">still</span> <span word="felt">felt</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="same">same</span> <span word="way">way</span> <span word="about">about</span> <span word="him">him</span> <span word="by">by</span> <span word="calling">calling</span> <span word="him">him</span> <span word="first">first</span>, <span word="one">one</span> <span word="woman">woman</span> <span word="recalls">recalls</span>. 5. <span word="Heart">Heart</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="heart">heart</span> <span word="The">The</span> <span word="directness">directness</span> <span word="test">test</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="really">really</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="opposite">opposite</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="secret">secret</span> <span word="strategy">strategy</span>. <span word="Far">Far</span> <span word="more">more</span> <span word="popular">popular</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="men">men</span> <span word="than">than</span> <span word="women">women</span>, <span word="it">it</span> <span word="involves">involves</span> <span word="either">either</span> <span word="asking">asking</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="person">person</span> <span word="straight">straight</span> <span word="out">out</span> <span word="how">how</span> <span word="they">they</span> <span word="feel">feel</span>, <span word="or">or</span> <span word="speaking">speaking</span> <span word="openly">openly</span> <span word="about">about</span> <span word="yourself">yourself</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="hope">hope</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="love">love</span> <span word="interest">interest</span> <span word="will">will</span> <span word="too">too</span>. <span word="I">I</span> <span word="was">was</span> <span word="having">having</span> <span word="trouble">trouble</span> <span word="getting">getting</span> <span word="him">him</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="open">open</span> <span word="up">up</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="me">me</span> <span word="about">about</span> <span word="his">his</span> <span word="family">family</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="his">his</span> <span word="background">background</span>, <span word="one">one</span> <span word="woman">woman</span> <span word="said">said</span>, <span word="so">so</span> <span word="I">I</span> <span word="started">started</span> <span word="talking">talking</span> <span word="about">about</span> <span word="my">my</span> <span word="folks">folks</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="sisters">sisters</span>, <span word="hoping">hoping</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="he">he</span> <span word="would">would</span> <span word="reciprocate">reciprocate</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="tell">tell</span> <span word="me">me</span> <span word="about">about</span> <span word="himself">himself</span> <span word="as">as</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="sign">sign</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="he">he</span> <span word="trusted">trusted</span> <span word="me">me</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="wanted">wanted</span> <span word="me">me</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="know">know</span> <span word="more">more</span> <span word="about">about</span> <span word="him">him</span>. 6. <span word="Inside">Inside</span> <span word="information">information</span> <span word="Ever">Ever</span> <span word="tried">tried</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="find">find</span> <span word="out">out</span> <span word="from">from</span> <span word="someone">someone</span> <span word="s">s</span> <span word="friends">friends</span> <span word="whether">whether</span> <span word="they">they</span> <span word="might">might</span> <span word="have">have</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="crush">crush</span> <span word="on">on</span> <span word="you">you</span>? <span word="Then">Then</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="have">have</span> <span word="employed">employed</span> <span word="what">what</span> <span word="Baxter">Baxter</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="Wilmot">Wilmot</span> <span word="aptly">aptly</span> <span word="call">call</span> <span word="asking">asking</span> <span word="third">third</span> <span word="party">party</span> <span word="tests">tests</span>. <span word="It">It</span> <span word="might">might</span> <span word="sound">sound</span> <span word="like">like</span> <span word="playground">playground</span> <span word="behaviour">behaviour</span>, <span word="but">but</span> <span word="grown">grown</span>-<span word="ups">ups</span> <span word="do">do</span> <span word="it">it</span> <span word="too">too</span>.</p>
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