关于面子问题About Face
<p> <span word="There">There</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="an">an</span> <span word="old">old</span> <span word="saying">saying</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="China">China</span> <span word="people">people</span> <span word="need">need</span> <span word="face">face</span> <span word="while">while</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="trees">trees</span> <span word="need">need</span> <span word="skin">skin</span> ，<span word="the">the</span> <span word="meaning">meaning</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="Chinese">Chinese</span> <span word="people">people</span> <span word="pay">pay</span> <span word="special">special</span> <span word="attention">attention</span> <span word="on">on</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="dignity">dignity</span>. <span word="Loving">Loving</span> <span word="face">face</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="most">most</span> <span word="people">people</span> <span word="s">s</span> <span word="behavior">behavior</span>, <span word="so">so</span> <span word="they">they</span> <span word="like">like</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="brag">brag</span>, <span word="they">they</span> <span word="enjoy">enjoy</span> <span word="being">being</span> <span word="adored">adored</span> <span word="by">by</span> <span word="others">others</span>. <span word="About">About</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="face">face</span> <span word="problem">problem</span>, <span word="I">I</span> <span word="think">think</span> <span word="we">we</span> <span word="should">should</span> <span word="not">not</span> <span word="take">take</span> <span word="it">it</span> <span word="serious">serious</span>, <span word="we">we</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="not">not</span> <span word="living">living</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="other">other</span> <span word="people">people</span>, <span word="we">we</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="living">living</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="ourselves">ourselves</span>. <span word="The">The</span> <span word="real">real</span> <span word="self">self</span>-<span word="esteem">esteem</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="from">from</span> <span word="our">our</span> <span word="hearts">hearts</span>, <span word="not">not</span> <span word="from">from</span> <span word="other">other</span> <span word="people">people</span>. <span word="Chinese">Chinese</span> <span word="people">people</span> <span word="like">like</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="brag">brag</span>, <span word="they">they</span> <span word="brag">brag</span> <span word="about">about</span> <span word="their">their</span> <span word="property">property</span>, <span word="hoping">hoping</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="people">people</span> <span word="will">will</span> <span word="respect">respect</span> <span word="him">him</span>. <span word="The">The</span> <span word="funny">funny</span> <span word="thing">thing</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="only">only</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="fake">fake</span> <span word="successful">successful</span> <span word="people">people</span> <span word="will">will</span> <span word="brag">brag</span>, <span word="the">the</span> <span word="real">real</span> <span word="one">one</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="silent">silent</span>, <span word="they">they</span> <span word="keep">keep</span> <span word="working">working</span> <span word="hard">hard</span>, <span word="the">the</span> <span word="successful">successful</span> <span word="career">career</span> <span word="supports">supports</span> <span word="their">their</span> <span word="self">self</span>-<span word="esteem">esteem</span>. <span word="If">If</span> <span word="we">we</span> <span word="want">want</span> <span word="people">people</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="respect">respect</span> <span word="us">us</span>, <span word="we">we</span> <span word="should">should</span> <span word="show">show</span> <span word="our">our</span> <span word="reality">reality</span>, <span word="be">be</span> <span word="nice">nice</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="them">them</span>, <span word="never">never</span> <span word="brag">brag</span> <span word="about">about</span> <span word="ourselves">ourselves</span>.</p><p> 在中国有句老话 人要脸树要皮 ，意思是中国人很注重尊严问题。爱面子是大多数人的习惯，他们喜欢吹嘘，享受被人崇拜。关于面子问题，我认为我们不应该把它看得很重，我们不是为别人而活，是为自己而活。真正的自尊是出于我们的内心，不是看别人。中国人喜欢吹牛，他们夸大自己的财产，希望人们尊重他们。有趣的是只有不成功的人才会吹牛，真正成功的人是沉默的，他们努力工作，事业的成功支撑着他们的自尊。如果我们想要别人尊重我们，我们应该展示我们真实的一面，对人友好，不要吹牛。</p>
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