美国人写的100篇Nice的地道作文欣赏（17）
<p> 17.<span word="Layers">Layers</span> <span word="Of">Of</span> <span word="Feeling">Feeling</span></p><p> <span word="Coping">Coping</span> <span word="With">With</span> <span word="Passive">Passive</span> <span word="Aggression">Aggression</span></p><p> <span word="Many">Many</span> <span word="people">people</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="taught">taught</span> <span word="from">from</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="young">young</span> <span word="age">age</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="suppress">suppress</span> <span word="feelings">feelings</span> <span word="commonly">commonly</span> <span word="regarded">regarded</span> <span word="as">as</span> <span word="negative">negative</span>, <span word="such">such</span> <span word="as">as</span> <span word="anger">anger</span>, <span word="resentment">resentment</span>, <span word="fear">fear</span>, <span word="and">and</span> <span word="sorrow">sorrow</span>. <span word="Those">Those</span> <span word="who">who</span> <span word="cannot">cannot</span> <span word="or">or</span> <span word="will">will</span> <span word="not">not</span> <span word="express">express</span> <span word="these">these</span> <span word="emotions">emotions</span> <span word="tend">tend</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="engage">engage</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="passive">passive</span>-<span word="aggressive">aggressive</span> <span word="behaviors">behaviors</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="provide">provide</span> <span word="them">them</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="means">means</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="redirecting">redirecting</span> <span word="their">their</span> <span word="feelings">feelings</span>. <span word="Passive">Passive</span> <span word="aggression">aggression</span> <span word="can">can</span> <span word="take">take</span> <span word="many">many</span> <span word="forms">forms</span>: <span word="People">People</span> <span word="who">who</span> <span word="feel">feel</span> <span word="guilty">guilty</span> <span word="saying">saying</span> <span word="no">no</span> <span word="may">may</span> <span word="continually">continually</span> <span word="break">break</span> <span word="their">their</span> <span word="promises">promises</span> <span word="because">because</span> <span word="they">they</span> <span word="couldnt">couldnt</span> <span word="say">say</span> <span word="no">no</span> <span word="when">when</span> <span word="they">they</span> <span word="meant">meant</span> <span word="it">it</span>. <span word="Others">Others</span> <span word="will">will</span> <span word="substitute">substitute</span> <span word="snide">snide</span> <span word="praise">praise</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="slur">slur</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="distance">distance</span> <span word="themselves">themselves</span> <span word="from">from</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="intense">intense</span> <span word="emotions">emotions</span> <span word="they">they</span> <span word="feel">feel</span>. <span word="More">More</span> <span word="often">often</span> <span word="than">than</span> <span word="not">not</span>, <span word="such">such</span> <span word="behavior">behavior</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="cry">cry</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="help">help</span> <span word="uttered">uttered</span> <span word="by">by</span> <span word="those">those</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="need">need</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="compassion">compassion</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="gentle">gentle</span> <span word="guidance">guidance</span>.</p><p> <span word="When">When</span> <span word="we">we</span> <span word="recognize">recognize</span> <span word="passive">passive</span>-<span word="aggressive">aggressive</span> <span word="patterns">patterns</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="behavior">behavior</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="others">others</span>, <span word="we">we</span> <span word="should">should</span> <span word="never">never</span> <span word="allow">allow</span> <span word="ourselves">ourselves</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="drawn">drawn</span> <span word="into">into</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="struggle">struggle</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="power">power</span>. <span word="Passive">Passive</span> <span word="aggression">aggression</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="most">most</span> <span word="often">often</span> <span word="wielded">wielded</span> <span word="by">by</span> <span word="those">those</span> <span word="who">who</span> <span word="feel">feel</span> <span word="powerless">powerless</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="face">face</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="what">what</span> <span word="they">they</span> <span word="perceive">perceive</span> <span word="as">as</span> <span word="negative">negative</span> <span word="emotions">emotions</span> <span word="because">because</span> <span word="they">they</span> <span word="hope">hope</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="avoid">avoid</span> <span word="confronting">confronting</span> <span word="their">their</span> <span word="true">true</span> <span word="feelings">feelings</span>. <span word="They">They</span> <span word="feel">feel</span> <span word="they">they</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="control">control</span> <span word="because">because</span> <span word="they">they</span> <span word="do">do</span> <span word="not">not</span> <span word="display">display</span> <span word="overt">overt</span> <span word="emotion">emotion</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="often">often</span> <span word="cannot">cannot</span> <span word="understand">understand</span> <span word="how">how</span> <span word="they">they</span> <span word="have">have</span> <span word="alienated">alienated</span> <span word="their">their</span> <span word="peers">peers</span>. <span word="If">If</span> <span word="someone">someone</span> <span word="close">close</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="us">us</span> <span word="shows">shows</span> <span word="signs">signs</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="frustration">frustration</span> <span word="or">or</span> <span word="annoyance">annoyance</span> <span word="but">but</span> <span word="claims">claims</span> <span word="nothing">nothing</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="amiss">amiss</span>, <span word="we">we</span> <span word="can">can</span> <span word="point">point</span> <span word="out">out</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="their">their</span> <span word="tone">tone</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="voice">voice</span> <span word="or">or</span> <span word="gestures">gestures</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="communicating">communicating</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="different">different</span> <span word="message">message</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="invite">invite</span> <span word="them">them</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="confide">confide</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="us">us</span>. <span word="When">When</span> <span word="we">we</span> <span word="feel">feel</span> <span word="slighted">slighted</span> <span word="by">by</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="backhanded">backhanded</span> <span word="compliment">compliment</span>, <span word="it">it</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="important">important</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="we">we</span> <span word="calmly">calmly</span> <span word="explain">explain</span> <span word="how">how</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="jibe">jibe</span> <span word="made">made</span> <span word="us">us</span> <span word="feel">feel</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="why">why</span>. <span word="And">And</span> <span word="when">when</span> <span word="an">an</span> <span word="individual">individual</span> <span word="continually">continually</span> <span word="breaks">breaks</span> <span word="their">their</span> <span word="promises">promises</span>, <span word="we">we</span> <span word="can">can</span> <span word="help">help</span> <span word="them">them</span> <span word="understand">understand</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="they">they</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="free">free</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="say">say</span> <span word="no">no</span> <span word="if">if</span> <span word="they">they</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="unwilling">unwilling</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="service">service</span>.</p>
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