学英语莫忘记配合西方肢体语言
<p> 学英语莫忘记配合西方肢体语言</p><p> 中国学生往往意识不 到，在用英语进行表达的同时，还伴随着体态语言。英语中有一句谚语是这样说的 ：<span word="Actions">Actions</span> <span word="speak">speak</span> <span word="louder">louder</span> <span word="than">than</span> <span word="words">words</span>。</p><p> 这句话的<span word="underlying">underlying</span> <span word="meaning">meaning</span>(内在含义)是事实胜于雄辩，我们不妨把它理解成<span word="Your">Your</span> <span word="body">body</span> <span word="movements">movements</span> <span word="speak">speak</span> <span word="louder">louder</span> <span word="than">than</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="words">words</span>。(你的体态动作比你的语言更有力量。)你站在那里什么也不用说，但实际上你的体态语言已经说明了一切。世界上最大的猎头公司 <span word="Korn">Korn</span>/<span word="Ferry">Ferry</span> <span word="International">International</span>的人力资源专家的统计结论也显示，<span word="In">In</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="job">job</span> <span word="interview">interview</span>，<span word="you">you</span> <span word="will">will</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="virtually">virtually</span> <span word="fully">fully</span> <span word="judged">judged</span> <span word="within">within</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="first">first</span> 30 <span word="seconds">seconds</span>, <span word="even">even</span> <span word="before">before</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="start">start</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="talk">talk</span>。(在工作面试中，你甚至还没有开始讲话，面试官实际上已经在30秒之内对你有了全面的评价。)这其中：<span word="visual">visual</span> (<span word="what">what</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="see">see</span>，你所看到的)占55%;<span word="audio">audio</span>(<span word="what">what</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="hear">hear</span>，你所听到的)占38%;<span word="content">content</span>(<span word="what">what</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="said">said</span>，你们真正的谈话内容)占7%。</p><p> 由此可见，体态语言在交流中扮演着重要的角色。而在体态语言的具体应用上要注意哪些方面呢?</p><p> 第一，在与西方人面对面 谈话的时候要注意保持一定的距离(<span word="keep">keep</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="certain">certain</span> <span word="distance">distance</span>)。当然，不同社会文化习俗的人保持的距离是不一样的。对英美人而言，这个距离是3英尺，如果是面对东欧人和南美人，这个距离还可以再近 些，但仍要在2英尺以上。第二，在跟英美人第一次见面相互握手的时候，一定要有点力度，如果握起手来有气无力，或者只伸出手指尖来给人握，就会给对方冷冰 冰的感觉，英文中管这种握手叫做<span word="wet">wet</span> <span word="handshake">handshake</span>。</p>
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