如何委婉地批评人？
<p> 如何委婉地批评人？</p><p> <span word="Your">Your</span> <span word="boss">boss</span> <span word="tells">tells</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="did">did</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="bad">bad</span> <span word="job">job</span>. <span word="Your">Your</span> <span word="coworker">coworker</span> <span word="criticizes">criticizes</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="front">front</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="whole">whole</span> <span word="team">team</span>. <span word="Ouch">Ouch</span>! <span word="Its">Its</span> <span word="not">not</span> <span word="easy">easy</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="take">take</span> <span word="criticism">criticism</span>, <span word="no">no</span> <span word="matter">matter</span> <span word="who">who</span> <span word="it">it</span> <span word="comes">comes</span> <span word="from">from</span>. <span word="But">But</span>, <span word="it">it</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="easy">easy</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="soften">soften</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="blow">blow</span> <span word="when">when</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="offer">offer</span> <span word="criticism">criticism</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="someone">someone</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="English">English</span>. <span word="Merely">Merely</span> <span word="by">by</span> <span word="altering">altering</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="wording">wording</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="attitude">attitude</span>, <span word="you">you</span> <span word="can">can</span> <span word="help">help</span> <span word="someone">someone</span> <span word="grow">grow</span> <span word="as">as</span> <span word="opposed">opposed</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="making">making</span> <span word="them">them</span> <span word="feel">feel</span> <span word="defeated">defeated</span>.</p><p> 你的老板说你的工作表现不好。你的同时在你的团队面前批评你。噢，不管谁在批评，总是不容易接受的。但是，当你委婉使用英语来批评某人是较容易接受的。只需要改变一点点你说的话及态度，你能帮那些人成长而非是他们感到挫败。</p><p> <span word="Avoid">Avoid</span> <span word="direct">direct</span> <span word="accusations">accusations</span></p><p> <span word="Phrases">Phrases</span> <span word="like">like</span> <span word="Youre">Youre</span> <span word="wrong">wrong</span>! <span word="and">and</span> <span word="Your">Your</span> <span word="presentation">presentation</span> <span word="was">was</span> <span word="terrible">terrible</span>! <span word="have">have</span> <span word="no">no</span> <span word="place">place</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="effective">effective</span> <span word="criticism">criticism</span>. <span word="In">In</span> <span word="fact">fact</span>, <span word="its">its</span> <span word="best">best</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="leave">leave</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="word">word</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="out">out</span>, <span word="if">if</span> <span word="at">at</span> <span word="all">all</span> <span word="possible">possible</span>. <span word="Personal">Personal</span> <span word="attacks">attacks</span> <span word="make">make</span> <span word="people">people</span> <span word="feel">feel</span> <span word="defensive">defensive</span>, <span word="and">and</span> <span word="then">then</span> <span word="they">they</span> <span word="wont">wont</span> <span word="really">really</span> <span word="listen">listen</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="anything">anything</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="have">have</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="say">say</span>.</p><p> 避免正面指责</p><p> 一些表达的方式像是<span word="Youre">Youre</span> <span word="wrong">wrong</span>!及<span word="Your">Your</span> <span word="presentation">presentation</span> <span word="was">was</span> <span word="terrible">terrible</span>!皆不是有效的批评。事实上，如果可能的话，舍去你这个字。个人攻击将使人们会使人自我防御，然后他们将不会听进去你说的任何话。</p><p> <span word="Soften">Soften</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="compliments">compliments</span></p>
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