过去的，就过去了
<p>人家说两口子吵架最怕揭老底，可是很多女人却总是改不了这个毛病。本来已经过去的，当时已经处理完的事，一吵架又都一件一件翻出来说，很伤两个人的感情。所以，最好能宽容一些，告诉自己：过去的，就过去了。</p><p>英语中的“<span word="water">water</span> <span word="under">under</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="bridge">bridge</span>”就是这个意思。桥下的水一旦流过，就永远流过了。就像我们古语里说的“逝者如斯夫”。依此类推，过去的事情、过去的矛盾也要像河水一样，过去了就不要再纠缠。</p><p>看下面例句：</p><p>--<span word="Aren">Aren</span>'<span word="t">t</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="still">still</span> <span word="angry">angry</span> <span word="about">about</span> <span word="what">what</span> <span word="he">he</span> <span word="said">said</span>?</p><p>你还在为他说的话生气吗？</p><p>--<span word="No">No</span>, <span word="that">that</span> <span word="was">was</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="long">long</span> <span word="time">time</span> <span word="ago">ago</span>. <span word="It">It</span>'<span word="s">s</span> <span word="all">all</span> <span word="water">water</span> <span word="under">under</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="bridge">bridge</span>.</p><p>不生气了，那是很早以前的事了，已经过去了。</p>
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