关于他人外表不该说的话
<p><span word="Don">Don</span>'<span word="t">t</span> <span word="say">say</span>: "<span word="You">You</span> <span word="look">look</span> <span word="tired">tired</span>."</p><p><span word="Why">Why</span>: <span word="It">It</span> <span word="implies">implies</span> <span word="she">she</span> <span word="doesn">doesn</span>'<span word="t">t</span> <span word="look">look</span> <span word="good">good</span>.</p><p><span word="Instead">Instead</span> <span word="say">say</span>: "<span word="Is">Is</span> <span word="everything">everything</span> <span word="OK">OK</span>?" <span word="We">We</span> <span word="often">often</span> <span word="blurt">blurt</span> <span word="the">the</span> "<span word="tired">tired</span>" <span word="comment">comment</span> <span word="when">when</span> <span word="we">we</span> <span word="get">get</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="sense">sense</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="other">other</span> <span word="person">person</span> <span word="feels">feels</span> <span word="out">out</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="sorts">sorts</span>. <span word="So">So</span> <span word="just">just</span> <span word="ask">ask</span>.</p><p>不要说"<span word="You">You</span> <span word="look">look</span> <span word="tired">tired</span>."（你看上去很累。），这句话暗示了她看上去状况不佳。我们可以说"<span word="Is">Is</span> <span word="everything">everything</span> <span word="OK">OK</span>?"（你一切还好吗？）我们会脱口而出"<span word="tired">tired</span>"这个词是因为感觉到对方有些消沉，所以直接问原因吧。</p><p>*<span word="out">out</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="sorts">sorts</span> 身体不适，心情不佳</p><p><span word="Don">Don</span>'<span word="t">t</span> <span word="say">say</span>: "<span word="Wow">Wow</span>, <span word="you">you</span>'<span word="ve">ve</span> <span word="lost">lost</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="ton">ton</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="weight">weight</span>!"</p><p><span word="Why">Why</span>: <span word="To">To</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="newly">newly</span> <span word="trim">trim</span> <span word="person">person</span>, <span word="it">it</span> <span word="might">might</span> <span word="give">give</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="impression">impression</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="she">she</span> <span word="used">used</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="look">look</span> <span word="unattractive">unattractive</span>.</p><p><span word="Instead">Instead</span> <span word="say">say</span>: "<span word="You">You</span> <span word="look">look</span> <span word="fantastic">fantastic</span>." <span word="And">And</span> <span word="leave">leave</span> <span word="it">it</span> <span word="at">at</span> <span word="that">that</span>. <span word="If">If</span> <span word="you">you</span>'<span word="re">re</span> <span word="curious">curious</span> <span word="about">about</span> <span word="how">how</span> <span word="she">she</span> <span word="got">got</span> <span word="so">so</span> <span word="svelte">svelte</span>, <span word="add">add</span>, "<span word="What">What</span>'<span word="s">s</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="secret">secret</span>?"</p><p>不要说"<span word="Wow">Wow</span>, <span word="you">you</span>'<span word="ve">ve</span> <span word="lost">lost</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="ton">ton</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="weight">weight</span>!"（哇塞，你减掉了<span word="N">N</span>多斤啊！），对一个刚恢复苗条的人来说，这句话给她的感觉是自己从前看上去很糟糕。我们可以说"<span word="You">You</span> <span word="look">look</span> <span word="fantastic">fantastic</span>."（你看上去真棒。），并且就此打住。如果你想知道她是如何变苗条的，那就加上一句"<span word="What">What</span>'<span word="s">s</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="secret">secret</span>?"（有啥秘诀呀？）</p><p><span word="Don">Don</span>'<span word="t">t</span> <span word="say">say</span>: "<span word="You">You</span> <span word="look">look</span> <span word="good">good</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="age">age</span>."</p><p><span word="Why">Why</span>: <span word="Anything">Anything</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="caveat">caveat</span> <span word="like">like</span> <span word="this">this</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="rude">rude</span>. <span word="It">It</span>'<span word="s">s</span> <span word="saying">saying</span>, "<span word="You">You</span> <span word="look">look</span> <span word="great">great</span>―<span word="compared">compared</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="other">other</span> <span word="old">old</span> <span word="people">people</span>. <span word="It">It</span>'<span word="s">s</span> <span word="amazing">amazing</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="have">have</span> <span word="all">all</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="own">own</span> <span word="teeth">teeth</span>."</p>
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