工作场合不该说的话
<p><span word="Don">Don</span>'<span word="t">t</span> <span word="say">say</span>: "<span word="That">That</span>'<span word="s">s</span> <span word="not">not</span> <span word="my">my</span> <span word="job">job</span>."</p><p><span word="Why">Why</span>: <span word="If">If</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="superior">superior</span> <span word="asks">asks</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="do">do</span> <span word="something">something</span>, <span word="it">it</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="job">job</span>.</p><p><span word="Instead">Instead</span> <span word="say">say</span>: "<span word="I">I</span>'<span word="m">m</span> <span word="not">not</span> <span word="sure">sure</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="should">should</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="my">my</span> <span word="priority">priority</span> <span word="right">right</span> <span word="now">now</span>." <span word="Then">Then</span> <span word="have">have</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="conversation">conversation</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="boss">boss</span> <span word="about">about</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="responsibilities">responsibilities</span>.</p><p>不要说"<span word="That">That</span>'<span word="s">s</span> <span word="not">not</span> <span word="my">my</span> <span word="job">job</span>."（这不是我分内的事。）只要你的上司让你做，那你就得做。我们可以说"<span word="I">I</span>'<span word="m">m</span> <span word="not">not</span> <span word="sure">sure</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="should">should</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="my">my</span> <span word="priority">priority</span> <span word="right">right</span> <span word="now">now</span>."（我不确定现在是否应该先做这事。）然后告诉老板你需要负责哪些。</p><p><span word="Don">Don</span>'<span word="t">t</span> <span word="say">say</span>: "<span word="This">This</span> <span word="might">might</span> <span word="sound">sound</span> <span word="stupid">stupid</span>, <span word="but">but</span>&<span word="hellip">hellip</span>;"</p><p><span word="Why">Why</span>: <span word="Never">Never</span> <span word="undermine">undermine</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="ideas">ideas</span> <span word="by">by</span> <span word="prefacing">prefacing</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="remarks">remarks</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="wishy">wishy</span>-<span word="washy">washy</span> <span word="language">language</span>.</p><p><span word="Instead">Instead</span> <span word="say">say</span>: "<span word="What">What</span>'<span word="s">s</span> <span word="on">on</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="mind">mind</span>?" <span word="It">It</span> <span word="reinforces">reinforces</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="credibility">credibility</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="present">present</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="ideas">ideas</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="confidence">confidence</span>.</p><p>不要说"<span word="This">This</span> <span word="might">might</span> <span word="sound">sound</span> <span word="stupid">stupid</span>, <span word="but">but</span>&<span word="hellip">hellip</span>;"（也许这听上去有点愚昧，但是&<span word="hellip">hellip</span>;&<span word="hellip">hellip</span>;）永远不要在发言前加上这种优柔寡断的前缀来削弱自己的观点。可以说"<span word="What">What</span>'<span word="s">s</span> <span word="on">on</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="mind">mind</span>?"（你怎么认为？）这样可以增强你的可信度，让你充满自信地发表意见。</p><p><span word="Don">Don</span>'<span word="t">t</span> <span word="say">say</span>: "<span word="I">I</span> <span word="don">don</span>'<span word="t">t</span> <span word="have">have</span> <span word="time">time</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="talk">talk</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="you">you</span>."</p><p><span word="Why">Why</span>: <span word="It">It</span>'<span word="s">s</span> <span word="plain">plain</span> <span word="rude">rude</span>, <span word="in">in</span> <span word="person">person</span> <span word="or">or</span> <span word="on">on</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="phone">phone</span>.</p><p><span word="Instead">Instead</span> <span word="say">say</span>: "<span word="I">I</span>'<span word="m">m</span> <span word="just">just</span> <span word="finishing">finishing</span> <span word="something">something</span> <span word="up">up</span> <span word="right">right</span> <span word="now">now</span>. <span word="Can">Can</span> <span word="I">I</span> <span word="come">come</span> <span word="by">by</span> <span word="when">when</span> <span word="I">I</span>'<span word="m">m</span> <span word="done">done</span>?" <span word="Graciously">Graciously</span> <span word="explain">explain</span> <span word="why">why</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="can">can</span>'<span word="t">t</span> <span word="talk">talk</span> <span word="now">now</span>, <span word="and">and</span> <span word="suggest">suggest</span> <span word="catching">catching</span> <span word="up">up</span> <span word="at">at</span> <span word="an">an</span> <span word="appointed">appointed</span> <span word="time">time</span> <span word="later">later</span>. <span word="Let">Let</span> <span word="phone">phone</span> <span word="calls">calls</span> <span word="go">go</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="voice">voice</span> <span word="mail">mail</span> <span word="until">until</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="can">can</span> <span word="give">give</span> <span word="callers">callers</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="undivided">undivided</span> <span word="attention">attention</span>.</p>
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