对失恋或单身朋友不该说的话
<p><span word="Don">Don</span>'<span word="t">t</span> <span word="say">say</span>: "<span word="You">You</span> <span word="were">were</span> <span word="too">too</span> <span word="good">good</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="him">him</span>."</p><p><span word="Why">Why</span>: <span word="You">You</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="basically">basically</span> <span word="saying">saying</span> <span word="she">she</span> <span word="has">has</span> <span word="bad">bad</span> <span word="taste">taste</span>. <span word="And">And</span> <span word="you">you</span>'<span word="ll">ll</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="embarrassed">embarrassed</span> <span word="if">if</span> <span word="they">they</span> <span word="ever">ever</span> <span word="patch">patch</span> <span word="it">it</span> <span word="up">up</span>.</p><p><span word="Instead">Instead</span> <span word="say">say</span>: "<span word="His">His</span> <span word="loss">loss</span>!" <span word="It">It</span> <span word="gets">gets</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="same">same</span> <span word="point">point</span> <span word="across">across</span> <span word="without">without</span> <span word="disparaging">disparaging</span> <span word="her">her</span> <span word="judgment">judgment</span>.</p><p>不要说"<span word="You">You</span> <span word="were">were</span> <span word="too">too</span> <span word="good">good</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="him">him</span>."（他配不上你。）因为这样说的话你本质上是指她的品味太差，而且万一他们言归于好了你岂不是很尴尬？可以说"<span word="His">His</span> <span word="loss">loss</span>!"（那是他的损失！）这样既没有贬低她的判断能力，又达到了同样的效果。</p><p><span word="Don">Don</span>'<span word="t">t</span> <span word="say">say</span>: "<span word="I">I</span>'<span word="m">m</span> <span word="glad">glad</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="got">got</span> <span word="rid">rid</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="him">him</span>. <span word="I">I</span> <span word="never">never</span> <span word="liked">liked</span> <span word="him">him</span> <span word="anyway">anyway</span>."</p><p><span word="Why">Why</span>: <span word="She">She</span>'<span word="ll">ll</span> <span word="wonder">wonder</span> <span word="about">about</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="fake">fake</span> <span word="adoration">adoration</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="him">him</span> <span word="while">while</span> <span word="they">they</span> <span word="were">were</span> <span word="together">together</span>.</p><p><span word="Instead">Instead</span> <span word="say">say</span>: "<span word="I">I</span>'<span word="m">m</span> <span word="confident">confident</span> <span word="you">you</span>'<span word="ll">ll</span> <span word="find">find</span> <span word="someone">someone</span> <span word="who">who</span> <span word="will">will</span> <span word="give">give</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="exactly">exactly</span> <span word="what">what</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="want">want</span>." <span word="It">It</span> <span word="focuses">focuses</span> <span word="on">on</span> <span word="what">what</span>'<span word="s">s</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="come">come</span>, <span word="not">not</span> <span word="on">on</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="dud">dud</span> <span word="you">you</span>'<span word="re">re</span> <span word="glad">glad</span> <span word="she">she</span>'<span word="s">s</span> <span word="done">done</span> <span word="with">with</span>.</p><p>不要说"<span word="I">I</span>'<span word="m">m</span> <span word="glad">glad</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="got">got</span> <span word="rid">rid</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="him">him</span>. <span word="I">I</span> <span word="never">never</span> <span word="liked">liked</span> <span word="him">him</span> <span word="anyway">anyway</span>."（我真高兴你甩了他。我从来就没喜欢过他。）那样她会怀疑，他俩还在一起的时候你不过是假惺惺地称赞她男友。可以说"<span word="I">I</span>'<span word="m">m</span> <span word="confident">confident</span> <span word="you">you</span>'<span word="ll">ll</span> <span word="find">find</span> <span word="someone">someone</span> <span word="who">who</span> <span word="will">will</span> <span word="give">give</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="exactly">exactly</span> <span word="what">what</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="want">want</span>."（我相信你会找到称心如意之人的。）这话着重于将来会如何，而不是那段失意的过去。</p><p><span word="Don">Don</span>'<span word="t">t</span> <span word="say">say</span>: "<span word="How">How</span> <span word="could">could</span> <span word="someone">someone</span> <span word="as">as</span> <span word="perfect">perfect</span> <span word="as">as</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="still">still</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="single">single</span>?"</p><p><span word="Why">Why</span>: <span word="A">A</span> <span word="statement">statement</span> <span word="like">like</span> <span word="this">this</span> <span word="comes">comes</span> <span word="off">off</span> <span word="as">as</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="backhanded">backhanded</span> <span word="compliment">compliment</span>. <span word="What">What</span> <span word="she">she</span> <span word="hears">hears</span> <span word="is">is</span> "<span word="What">What</span>'<span word="s">s</span> <span word="wrong">wrong</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="you">you</span>?"</p>
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