职场英语：和难相处的人打交道的4个秘密
<p><span word="We">We</span> <span word="all">all</span> <span word="have">have</span> <span word="difficult">difficult</span> <span word="people">people</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="our">our</span> <span word="lives">lives</span>. <span word="You">You</span> <span word="know">know</span>—<span word="the">the</span> <span word="ones">ones</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="dread">dread</span> <span word="talking">talking</span> <span word="to">to</span>; <span word="the">the</span> <span word="ones">ones</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="try">try</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="avoid">avoid</span> <span word="at">at</span> <span word="all">all</span> <span word="costs">costs</span>. <span word="They">They</span> <span word="may">may</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="ex">ex</span>-<span word="spouse">spouse</span>, <span word="a">a</span> <span word="co">co</span>-<span word="worker">worker</span>, <span word="or">or</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="family">family</span> <span word="member">member</span>; <span word="they">they</span> <span word="may">may</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="bully">bully</span>, <span word="a">a</span> <span word="control">control</span> <span word="freak">freak</span>, <span word="passive">passive</span>-<span word="aggressive">aggressive</span> <span word="or">or</span> <span word="someone">someone</span> <span word="who">who</span> <span word="loves">loves</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="play">play</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="role">role</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="victim">victim</span>.</p><p>人的一生中，难免会遇见一些很难打交道的人。你知道的，就是那种你竭尽所能想要避开的人。他们也许是你的前妻/夫、同事，亲戚，可能是专爱欺负别人的人、控制狂、消极对待者、或者受害妄想症资深患者。</p><p><span word="So">So</span>, <span word="how">how</span> <span word="do">do</span> <span word="we">we</span> <span word="deal">deal</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="these">these</span> <span word="people">people</span>? <span word="How">How</span> <span word="can">can</span> <span word="we">we</span> <span word="work">work</span> <span word="together">together</span> <span word="productively">productively</span>, <span word="whether">whether</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="parenting">parenting</span>, <span word="a">a</span> <span word="working">working</span>, <span word="or">or</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="family">family</span> <span word="relationship">relationship</span>?</p><p>那么，我们该如何跟这种人打交道呢？要怎样做，才能顺利地和他们共事、共同维护家庭、工作或保持良好的亲戚关系呢？</p><p><span word="Here">Here</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="few">few</span> <span word="secrets">secrets</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="being">being</span> <span word="able">able</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="keep">keep</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="cool">cool</span> <span word="when">when</span> <span word="dealing">dealing</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="difficult">difficult</span> <span word="person">person</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="life">life</span>:</p><p>以下几个小秘密，能帮助你在面对这类人时保持淡定。</p><p>1. <span word="Know">Know</span> <span word="Your">Your</span> <span word="Triggers">Triggers</span></p><p>知道自己的底线</p><p><span word="Self">Self</span>-<span word="knowledge">knowledge</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="powerful">powerful</span>.</p><p>自知之明是强大的武器。</p><p><span word="We">We</span> <span word="all">all</span> <span word="have">have</span> <span word="subjects">subjects</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="idiosyncrasiesthat">idiosyncrasiesthat</span> <span word="push">push</span> <span word="our">our</span> <span word="buttons">buttons</span>, <span word="and">and</span> <span word="I">I</span> <span word="can">can</span> <span word="almost">almost</span> <span word="guarantee">guarantee</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="difficult">difficult</span> <span word="person">person</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="life">life</span> <span word="knows">knows</span> <span word="what">what</span> <span word="those">those</span> <span word="are">are</span>—<span word="but">but</span> <span word="do">do</span> <span word="you">you</span>? <span word="Spend">Spend</span> <span word="some">some</span> <span word="time">time</span> <span word="exploring">exploring</span> <span word="what">what</span> <span word="really">really</span> <span word="ticks">ticks</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="off">off</span>. <span word="Is">Is</span> <span word="it">it</span> <span word="when">when</span> <span word="somebody">somebody</span> <span word="talks">talks</span> <span word="about">about</span> <span word="politics">politics</span>, <span word="money">money</span>, <span word="or">or</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="family">family</span>? <span word="Is">Is</span> <span word="it">it</span> <span word="when">when</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="ex">ex</span> <span word="takes">takes</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="kids">kids</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="McDonald">McDonald</span>’<span word="s">s</span> 3 <span word="days">days</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="row">row</span>?</p>
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