职场英语：你是在与人沟通，还是在唱独角戏？
<p><span word="People">People</span> <span word="often">often</span> <span word="think">think</span> <span word="they">they</span>'<span word="re">re</span> <span word="talking">talking</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="each">each</span> <span word="other">other</span> <span word="when">when</span> <span word="they">they</span>'<span word="re">re</span> <span word="really">really</span> <span word="talking">talking</span> <span word="past">past</span> <span word="each">each</span> <span word="other">other</span>. <span word="They">They</span> <span word="carry">carry</span> <span word="on">on</span> <span word="monologues">monologues</span>, <span word="not">not</span> <span word="dialogues">dialogues</span>.</p><p>人们经常认为自己在和对方交流，但实际上他们并没有在沟通。他们在唱独角戏，而不是在对话。</p><p><span word="There">There</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="biologicalexplanation">biologicalexplanation</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="this">this</span>: <span word="when">when</span> <span word="we">we</span> <span word="express">express</span> <span word="ourselves">ourselves</span>, <span word="our">our</span> <span word="bodies">bodies</span> <span word="release">release</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="higher">higher</span> <span word="level">level</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="reward">reward</span> <span word="hormones">hormones</span>, <span word="and">and</span> <span word="we">we</span> <span word="feel">feel</span> <span word="great">great</span>. <span word="The">The</span> <span word="more">more</span> <span word="we">we</span> <span word="talk">talk</span>, <span word="the">the</span> <span word="better">better</span> <span word="we">we</span> <span word="feel">feel</span>. <span word="While">While</span> <span word="we">we</span>'<span word="re">re</span> <span word="being">being</span> <span word="rewarded">rewarded</span>, <span word="the">the</span> <span word="people">people</span> <span word="we">we</span>'<span word="re">re</span> <span word="talking">talking</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="might">might</span> <span word="consciouslyor">consciouslyor</span> <span word="subconsciouslyfeel">subconsciouslyfeel</span> <span word="cut">cut</span> <span word="off">off</span>, <span word="invisible">invisible</span>, <span word="unimportant">unimportant</span>, <span word="and">and</span> <span word="rejected">rejected</span>, <span word="which">which</span> <span word="releases">releases</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="same">same</span> <span word="neurochemicalsas">neurochemicalsas</span> <span word="physical">physical</span> <span word="pain">pain</span>.</p><p>这种情况在生物学上的解释是：当我们表达自己观点时，身体中期待回报的荷尔蒙就会更高，自我感觉就会很好。我们说得越多，这种感觉也会越强。当我们觉得自己在表达时得到了回报，和我们对话的人会有意识、或潜意识中觉得被隔绝、被忽视，被认为不重要和被拒绝，他们的体内会产生一种和身体疼痛一样的神经化学物质。</p><p><span word="Recognize">Recognize</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="blind">blind</span> <span word="spots">spots</span>.</p><p>请记住你以前没注意到的部分。</p><p><span word="Stop">Stop</span></p><p>停止做以下事</p><p>1. <span word="Assuming">Assuming</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="others">others</span> <span word="see">see</span> <span word="what">what</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="see">see</span>, <span word="feel">feel</span> <span word="what">what</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="feel">feel</span>, <span word="and">and</span> <span word="think">think</span> <span word="what">what</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="think">think</span>, <span word="since">since</span> <span word="that">that</span>'<span word="s">s</span> <span word="rarely">rarely</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="case">case</span>.</p><p>1. 假设别人见你所见、感你所感、想你所想，因为事实很少会这样。</p>
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