职场英语:成为“社交达人”必备的12个小技巧
<p>让我们面对这样一个现实：在跟对方不熟的情况下，还要努力去营造一个轻松愉悦的谈话氛围，实在是再尴尬不过。以下12个小技巧可让你快速走出尴尬境地。</p><p>1 <span word="Talk">Talk</span> <span word="about">about</span> <span word="who">who</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="know">know</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="what">what</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="have">have</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="common">common</span>. <span word="Mutual">Mutual</span> <span word="friends">friends</span>, <span word="bosses">bosses</span>, <span word="hometowns">hometowns</span>, <span word="etc">etc</span>.</p><p>聊一聊认识的人或者双方的共通之处。比如共同的朋友、上司，或者家乡等等。</p><p>2 <span word="Ask">Ask</span> <span word="relevant">relevant</span> <span word="questions">questions</span> <span word="about">about</span> <span word="life">life</span>, <span word="work">work</span>, <span word="hobbies">hobbies</span>, <span word="and">and</span> <span word="pop">pop</span>-<span word="culture">culture</span>. <span word="Keeping">Keeping</span> <span word="abreast">abreast</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="current">current</span> <span word="events">events</span> <span word="will">will</span> <span word="provide">provide</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="great">great</span> <span word="conversation">conversation</span> <span word="builders">builders</span>. <span word="Lead">Lead</span> <span word="with">with</span> “<span word="What">What</span> <span word="do">do</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="think">think</span> <span word="of">of</span>…?”, “<span word="Have">Have</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="heard">heard</span>…?”, “<span word="What">What</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="take">take</span> <span word="on">on</span>…?”, <span word="etc">etc</span>. <span word="Stay">Stay</span> <span word="away">away</span> <span word="from">from</span> <span word="negative">negative</span> <span word="or">or</span> <span word="controversial">controversial</span> <span word="topics">topics</span>, <span word="and">and</span> <span word="refrain">refrain</span> <span word="from">from</span> <span word="long">long</span>-<span word="winded">winded</span> <span word="stories">stories</span>.</p><p>询问对方关于生活、工作、爱好、流行文化等问题。密切关注时事，会让你有很多话题可以聊。用类似“你觉得……如何?”“你听说……了吗?”“你接受得了……吗?”这样的问句打开话匣子。避免谈论负面的或者争议性的话题，也别说太啰嗦的故事。</p><p>3 <span word="If">If</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="notice">notice</span> <span word="yourself">yourself</span> <span word="getting">getting</span> <span word="bored">bored</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="what">what</span> <span word="you">you</span>’<span word="re">re</span> <span word="saying">saying</span>, <span word="stop">stop</span> <span word="talking">talking</span>, <span word="acknowledge">acknowledge</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="situation">situation</span>, <span word="and">and</span> <span word="move">move</span> <span word="on">on</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="next">next</span> <span word="topic">topic</span>.</p><p>如果你突然意识到自己说的话很无聊，那就别硬撑啦。承认这个状况，然后果断换另一个话题。</p><p>4 <span word="Listen">Listen</span> <span word="more">more</span> <span word="than">than</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="talk">talk</span>.</p>
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