别人对你的话题不感兴趣的六大征兆
<p><span word="Like">Like</span> <span word="most">most</span> <span word="people">people</span>, <span word="I">I</span> <span word="have">have</span> <span word="several">several</span> <span word="pet">pet</span> <span word="subjects">subjects</span> – <span word="that">that</span> <span word="may">may</span> <span word="or">or</span> <span word="may">may</span> <span word="not">not</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="interesting">interesting</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="other">other</span> <span word="people">people</span>. <span word="Don">Don</span>’<span word="t">t</span> <span word="get">get</span> <span word="me">me</span> <span word="started">started</span> <span word="on">on</span> <span word="happiness">happiness</span>, <span word="or">or</span> <span word="habits">habits</span>, <span word="or">or</span> <span word="children">children</span>’<span word="s">s</span> <span word="literature">literature</span>, <span word="or">or</span> <span word="Winston">Winston</span> <span word="Churchill">Churchill</span>, <span word="unless">unless</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="really">really</span> <span word="want">want</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="talk">talk</span> <span word="about">about</span> <span word="it">it</span>.</p><p>和多数人一样，我有那么几种喜欢的聊天话题——而那对其他人而言或许不那么有趣。别和我谈论有关幸福、习惯、儿童文学或者温斯顿-丘吉尔的话题，除非你真的想谈论那些。</p><p><span word="By">By</span> <span word="noting">noting</span> <span word="how">how</span> <span word="I">I</span> <span word="behave">behave</span> <span word="when">when</span> <span word="I">I</span>’<span word="m">m</span> <span word="trying">trying</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="hide">hide</span> <span word="my">my</span> <span word="own">own</span> <span word="boredom">boredom</span>, <span word="I">I</span> <span word="came">came</span> <span word="up">up</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="list">list</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="indicators">indicators</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="I">I</span> <span word="might">might</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="boring">boring</span> <span word="someone">someone</span>:</p><p>通过注意我自己试图掩盖无聊时的动作，我想出了一些我可能令别人感到无聊了的征兆。</p><p>1. <span word="Repeated">Repeated</span>, <span word="perfunctory">perfunctory</span> <span word="responses">responses</span>. <span word="A">A</span> <span word="person">person</span> <span word="who">who</span> <span word="says">says</span>, “<span word="Oh">Oh</span> <span word="really">really</span>? <span word="Oh">Oh</span> <span word="really">really</span>? <span word="That">That</span>’<span word="s">s</span> <span word="interesting">interesting</span>. <span word="Oh">Oh</span> <span word="really">really</span>?” <span word="is">is</span> <span word="probably">probably</span> <span word="not">not</span> <span word="very">very</span> <span word="engaged">engaged</span>. <span word="Or">Or</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="person">person</span> <span word="who">who</span> <span word="keeps">keeps</span> <span word="saying">saying</span>, “<span word="That">That</span>’<span word="s">s</span> <span word="hilarious">hilarious</span>.”</p><p>1.重复、敷衍的回答。一个总是说“哦，是吗?哦，是吗?太有趣了。哦，是吗?”的人恐怕对谈话没什么兴趣。</p><p>2. <span word="Simple">Simple</span> <span word="questions">questions</span>. <span word="People">People</span> <span word="who">who</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="bored">bored</span> <span word="ask">ask</span> <span word="simple">simple</span> <span word="questions">questions</span>. “<span word="When">When</span> <span word="did">did</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="move">move</span>?” “<span word="Where">Where</span> <span word="did">did</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="go">go</span>?” <span word="People">People</span> <span word="who">who</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="interested">interested</span> <span word="ask">ask</span> <span word="more">more</span> <span word="complicated">complicated</span> <span word="questions">questions</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="show">show</span> <span word="curiosity">curiosity</span>, <span word="not">not</span> <span word="mere">mere</span> <span word="politeness">politeness</span>.</p><p>2.提简单的问题。人们感到无聊时会问简单的问题。“你什么时候搬家的?”“你去哪儿了?”真正感兴趣的人会问些更复杂的问题，那表现出了他们的好奇，而不仅仅是出于礼貌。</p>
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