10招助你克服爱插嘴的坏毛病
<p><span word="We">We</span>'<span word="ve">ve</span> <span word="all">all</span> <span word="been">been</span> <span word="there">there</span> — <span word="an">an</span> <span word="amazing">amazing</span> <span word="idea">idea</span> <span word="pops">pops</span> <span word="into">into</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="head">head</span> <span word="and">and</span>, <span word="without">without</span> <span word="even">even</span> <span word="realizing">realizing</span> <span word="it">it</span>, <span word="you">you</span>'<span word="ve">ve</span> <span word="interrupted">interrupted</span> <span word="whomever">whomever</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="speaking">speaking</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="share">share</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="thought">thought</span>.</p><p>我们都有过这样的经历——当一个精彩的点子从我们脑子里蹦出来的时候，我们就会当即向别人分享自己的这一想法，甚至没有意识到我们正在打断别人。</p><p><span word="Talking">Talking</span> <span word="over">over</span> <span word="others">others</span> <span word="stops">stops</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="flow">flow</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="conversation">conversation</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="also">also</span> <span word="disrespectful">disrespectful</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="person">person</span> <span word="speaking">speaking</span>. <span word="This">This</span> <span word="faux">faux</span> <span word="pas">pas</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="forgivable">forgivable</span> <span word="from">from</span> <span word="time">time</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="time">time</span>, <span word="but">but</span> <span word="when">when</span> <span word="it">it</span> <span word="becomes">becomes</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="persistent">persistent</span> <span word="characteristic">characteristic</span>, <span word="interrupting">interrupting</span> <span word="may">may</span> <span word="cost">cost</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="job">job</span>. <span word="and">and</span> <span word="even">even</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="few">few</span> <span word="friends">friends</span>.</p><p>打断别人说话阻碍了谈话的顺利进行，并且显得对说话者不尊重。这种失礼的行为有时候会被对方原谅，但是如果演变为一种习惯就会使你丢掉自己的饭碗，甚至失去朋友。</p><p><span word="Along">Along</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="learning">learning</span> <span word="how">how</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="patient">patient</span>, <span word="retraining">retraining</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="brain">brain</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="change">change</span> <span word="how">how</span> <span word="it">it</span> <span word="responds">responds</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="instant">instant</span> <span word="ideas">ideas</span> <span word="can">can</span> <span word="curb">curb</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="interrupting">interrupting</span> <span word="ways">ways</span>. <span word="Here">Here</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="few">few</span> <span word="tips">tips</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="take">take</span> <span word="into">into</span> <span word="consideration">consideration</span>:</p><p>除了学习怎样使自己变得更有耐心，你还要重新训练自己的大脑，改变其对突发灵感的反应，这样你便能控制自己而不去打断别人。你可以考虑一下下面的几招。</p><p>1.<span word="Write">Write</span> <span word="it">it</span> <span word="down">down</span>: <span word="When">When</span> <span word="listening">listening</span>, <span word="if">if</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="great">great</span> <span word="thought">thought</span> <span word="comes">comes</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="mind">mind</span>, <span word="discretely">discretely</span> <span word="write">write</span> <span word="it">it</span> <span word="down">down</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="notebook">notebook</span> <span word="while">while</span> <span word="keeping">keeping</span> <span word="up">up</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="conversation">conversation</span>, <span word="especially">especially</span> <span word="when">when</span> <span word="meeting">meeting</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="senior">senior</span> <span word="managers">managers</span> <span word="or">or</span> <span word="important">important</span> <span word="clients">clients</span>. <span word="Wait">Wait</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="break">break</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="conversation">conversation</span> <span word="before">before</span> <span word="asserting">asserting</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="opinion">opinion</span> <span word="or">or</span> <span word="new">new</span> <span word="ideas">ideas</span>.</p>
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