职场英语：10个小贴士做个健谈的人（双语）
<p><span word="Are">Are</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="good">good</span> <span word="conversationalist">conversationalist</span>? <span word="What">What</span> <span word="makes">makes</span> <span word="someone">someone</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="good">good</span> <span word="conversationalist">conversationalist</span>? <span word="Being">Being</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="good">good</span> <span word="conversationalist">conversationalist</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="important">important</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="every">every</span> <span word="context">context</span>, <span word="be">be</span> <span word="it">it</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="business">business</span>, <span word="social">social</span>, <span word="or">or</span> <span word="dating">dating</span>.</p><p>你是不是一名好的健谈者？什么能让你变得健谈呢？无论在何种情况下，作为一名好的健谈者都是非常重要的，无论是商业、还是社交或是约会。</p><p><span word="I">I</span> <span word="don">don</span>’<span word="t">t</span> <span word="think">think</span> <span word="there">there</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="any">any</span> “<span word="tricks">tricks</span>” <span word="or">or</span> <span word="shady">shady</span> <span word="techniques">techniques</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="have">have</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="apply">apply</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="great">great</span> <span word="conversationalist">conversationalist</span>. <span word="Below">Below</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="ten">ten</span> <span word="timeless">timeless</span> <span word="rules">rules</span> <span word="I">I</span> <span word="apply">apply</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="all">all</span> <span word="my">my</span> <span word="conversations">conversations</span>:</p><p>我认为要想成为好的健谈者，不需要任何的“招数”或不正当的手法。下面是我用到谈话中永不过时的10条原则：</p><p>1. <span word="Be">Be</span> <span word="genuinely">genuinely</span> <span word="interested">interested</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="person">person</span>.</p><p>对谈话的人真正感兴趣</p><p><span word="Who">Who</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="this">this</span> <span word="person">person</span>? <span word="What">What</span>’<span word="s">s</span> <span word="on">on</span> <span word="his">his</span>/<span word="her">her</span> <span word="mind">mind</span>? <span word="What">What</span> <span word="does">does</span> <span word="he">he</span>/<span word="she">she</span> <span word="enjoy">enjoy</span> <span word="doing">doing</span>? <span word="What">What</span> <span word="motivates">motivates</span> <span word="him">him</span>/<span word="her">her</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="life">life</span>? <span word="These">These</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="questions">questions</span> <span word="I">I</span> <span word="have">have</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="every">every</span> <span word="single">single</span> <span word="person">person</span> <span word="I">I</span> <span word="meet">meet</span>. <span word="Since">Since</span> <span word="people">people</span> <span word="form">form</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="core">core</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="my">my</span> <span word="life">life</span> <span word="purpose">purpose</span> (<span word="to">to</span> <span word="help">help</span> <span word="others">others</span> <span word="grow">grow</span>), <span word="my">my</span> <span word="genuine">genuine</span> <span word="interest">interest</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="people">people</span>, <span word="from">from</span> <span word="who">who</span> <span word="they">they</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="what">what</span> <span word="they">they</span> <span word="do">do</span>, <span word="comes">comes</span> <span word="naturally">naturally</span>.</p><p>这个人是谁？他/她在想什么？他/她喜欢做什么？什么激励着他/她的生活？我每遇见一个人，我都会想这样的问题。由于人们形成了我生活目标的核心（帮助他人成长）， 我对他人的兴趣，从他们是谁到他们做什么，就很自然地产生了。</p><p><span word="Such">Such</span> <span word="genuine">genuine</span> <span word="interest">interest</span>, <span word="not">not</span> <span word="an">an</span> <span word="artificial">artificial</span> <span word="one">one</span>, <span word="is">is</span> <span word="essential">essential</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="making">making</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="conversation">conversation</span> <span word="fly">fly</span>. <span word="If">If</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="not">not</span> <span word="interested">interested</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="other">other</span> <span word="person">person</span>, <span word="then">then</span> <span word="why">why</span> <span word="speak">speak</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="him">him</span>/<span word="her">her</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="begin">begin</span> <span word="with">with</span>? <span word="Move">Move</span> <span word="on">on</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="someone">someone</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="really">really</span> <span word="want">want</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="talk">talk</span> <span word="to">to</span>. <span word="Life">Life</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="too">too</span> <span word="short">short</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="spent">spent</span> <span word="doing">doing</span> <span word="things">things</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="don">don</span>’<span word="t">t</span> <span word="like">like</span>.</p>
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