职场英语：怎样管理难缠的老板
<p><span word="It">It</span>'<span word="s">s</span> <span word="easy">easy</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="blame">blame</span> <span word="technology">technology</span>， <span word="and">and</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="boss">boss</span>'<span word="s">s</span> <span word="lack">lack</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="boundaries">boundaries</span>， <span word="since">since</span> <span word="both">both</span> <span word="play">play</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="part">part</span>， <span word="for">for</span> <span word="sure">sure</span> -- <span word="but">but</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="unwittingly">unwittingly</span> <span word="encouraging">encouraging</span> <span word="these">these</span> <span word="intrusions">intrusions</span> <span word="by">by</span> <span word="answering">answering</span> <span word="them">them</span> <span word="right">right</span> <span word="away">away</span>？ “<span word="If">If</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="respond">respond</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="every">every</span> <span word="message">message</span> <span word="as">as</span> <span word="soon">soon</span> <span word="as">as</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="receive">receive</span> <span word="it">it</span>， <span word="you">you</span>'<span word="re">re</span> <span word="indicating">indicating</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="you">you</span>'<span word="re">re</span> <span word="available">available</span>，” <span word="says">says</span> <span word="Mattson">Mattson</span>. “<span word="Don">Don</span>'<span word="t">t</span> <span word="do">do</span> <span word="that">that</span>.”</p><p>人们很容易把原因推到科技身上，而且你上司缺乏界线感，这确实是两个方面的原因——但你是否总是立刻回复，进而不经意中助长了这种做法？马特森说：“如果你收到每一条信息后便马上回复，这其实是在暗示‘我有空。’所以，以后不要这样做。”</p><p><span word="Instead">Instead</span>， <span word="wait">wait</span> <span word="until">until</span> <span word="five">five</span> <span word="or">or</span> <span word="six">six</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="them">them</span> <span word="have">have</span> <span word="piled">piled</span> <span word="up">up</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="inbox">inbox</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="then">then</span> <span word="respond">respond</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="brief">brief</span> <span word="message">message</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="own">own</span>： “<span word="I">I</span> <span word="see">see</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="have">have</span> <span word="lots">lots</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="questions">questions</span> <span word="about">about</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="Ostrich">Ostrich</span> <span word="account">account</span>. <span word="Let">Let</span>'<span word="s">s</span> <span word="meet">meet</span> <span word="first">first</span> <span word="thing">thing</span> <span word="tomorrow">tomorrow</span> <span word="morning">morning</span> (<span word="or">or</span> <span word="Monday">Monday</span> <span word="morning">morning</span>)， <span word="when">when</span> <span word="I">I</span> <span word="can">can</span> <span word="give">give</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="all">all</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="details">details</span>， <span word="and">and</span> <span word="discuss">discuss</span> <span word="it">it</span>.” <span word="Then">Then</span> <span word="stop">stop</span> <span word="answering">answering</span>.</p><p>相反，要等到收件箱里积攒了五六封之后，再回复一条简短的信息：“我看到你有许多关于某某账户的问题。我们明天上午（或者周一上午）一早就来解决这个问题吧。我可以告诉你所有细节，然后我们可以讨论一下。”之后就不要再进行任何回复。</p><p>“<span word="When">When</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="do">do</span> <span word="meet">meet</span>， <span word="mention">mention</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="aren">aren</span>'<span word="t">t</span> <span word="always">always</span> <span word="available">available</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="reply">reply</span> <span word="right">right</span> <span word="away">away</span>，” <span word="Mattson">Mattson</span> <span word="suggests">suggests</span>. “<span word="Your">Your</span> <span word="boss">boss</span> <span word="may">may</span> <span word="not">not</span> <span word="even">even</span> <span word="expect">expect</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="to">to</span>. <span word="Rather">Rather</span> <span word="than">than</span> <span word="assuming">assuming</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="an">an</span> <span word="immediate">immediate</span> <span word="answer">answer</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="required">required</span>， <span word="clarify">clarify</span> <span word="what">what</span> <span word="it">it</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="he">he</span> <span word="actually">actually</span> <span word="wants">wants</span>.” <span word="There">There</span>'<span word="s">s</span> <span word="always">always</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="chance">chance</span> <span word="you">you</span>'<span word="ll">ll</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="pleasantly">pleasantly</span> <span word="surprised">surprised</span>. <span word="Even">Even</span> <span word="if">if</span> <span word="not">not</span>， <span word="by">by</span> <span word="declining">declining</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="answer">answer</span> <span word="every">every</span> <span word="time">time</span> <span word="he">he</span> <span word="pings">pings</span> <span word="you">you</span>， <span word="you">you</span>'<span word="ll">ll</span> <span word="have">have</span> <span word="politely">politely</span> <span word="but">but</span> <span word="firmly">firmly</span> <span word="established">established</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="boundaries">boundaries</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="boss">boss</span> <span word="seems">seems</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="lack">lack</span>.</p>
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