职场同事阻碍你的发展:你该怎么办?
<p><span word="If">If</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="suspect">suspect</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="colleague">colleague</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="trying">trying</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="sink">sink</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="career">career</span>, <span word="here">here</span>’<span word="s">s</span> <span word="what">what</span> <span word="you">you</span>’<span word="ll">ll</span> <span word="want">want</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="do">do</span>.</p><p>如果你怀疑同事正在背后破坏你的职业发展，就看看应该怎么做吧。</p><p><span word="Don">Don</span>'<span word="t">t</span> <span word="assume">assume</span> <span word="bad">bad</span> <span word="intentions">intentions</span>.</p><p>不要用恶意揣测别人</p><p>“<span word="I">I</span> <span word="believe">believe</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="we">we</span> <span word="should">should</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="extremely">extremely</span> <span word="careful">careful</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="never">never</span> <span word="assume">assume</span> <span word="bad">bad</span> <span word="intentions">intentions</span> <span word="from">from</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="start">start</span>,” <span word="says">says</span> <span word="Alexander">Alexander</span> <span word="Kjerulf">Kjerulf</span>, <span word="an">an</span> <span word="international">international</span> <span word="author">author</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="speaker">speaker</span> <span word="on">on</span> <span word="happiness">happiness</span> <span word="at">at</span> <span word="work">work</span>. “<span word="If">If</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="co">co</span>-<span word="worker">worker</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="ignoring">ignoring</span> <span word="you">you</span>, <span word="he">he</span> <span word="could">could</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="sabotaging">sabotaging</span> <span word="you">you</span>–<span word="or">or</span> <span word="maybe">maybe</span> <span word="he">he</span>’<span word="s">s</span> <span word="just">just</span> <span word="really">really</span> <span word="busy">busy</span> <span word="or">or</span> <span word="he">he</span>’<span word="s">s</span> <span word="having">having</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="bad">bad</span> <span word="day">day</span>”.</p><p>“我觉得一开始我们需要十分谨慎，不要用恶意揣测任何人。”研究工作中幸福的世界级作家演讲人<span word="Alexander">Alexander</span> <span word="Kjerulf">Kjerulf</span>如此说道。“如果那个同事忽视你，有可能是在怠慢你-或只是他正好很忙或者心情不好罢了。"</p><p><span word="Give">Give</span> <span word="people">people</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="benefit">benefit</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="doubt">doubt</span>. <span word="If">If</span> <span word="we">we</span> <span word="all">all</span> <span word="run">run</span> <span word="around">around</span> <span word="mistrusting">mistrusting</span> <span word="others">others</span>, <span word="we">we</span> <span word="end">end</span> <span word="up">up</span> <span word="creating">creating</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="miserably">miserably</span> <span word="unhappy">unhappy</span> <span word="business">business</span> <span word="culture">culture</span>. <span word="You">You</span>’<span word="ll">ll</span> <span word="want">want</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="absolutely">absolutely</span> <span word="sure">sure</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="colleague">colleague</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="trying">trying</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="hurt">hurt</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="career">career</span> <span word="before">before</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="go">go</span> <span word="any">any</span> <span word="further">further</span>.</p><p>给别人一些怀疑的空间。如果我们一味地不信任别人，就会制造一个恐怖难熬的工作环境。在你前进的时候，肯定也想知道到底你的同事会不会破坏你的职业吧。</p><p><span word="Be">Be</span> <span word="alert">alert</span>.</p><p>保持警惕。</p><p><span word="If">If</span> <span word="curious">curious</span> <span word="things">things</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="happening">happening</span> <span word="at">at</span> <span word="work">work</span>—<span word="like">like</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="didn">didn</span>’<span word="t">t</span> <span word="get">get</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="raise">raise</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="were">were</span> <span word="promised">promised</span> <span word="or">or</span> <span word="colleagues">colleagues</span> <span word="start">start</span> <span word="acting">acting</span> <span word="differently">differently</span> <span word="around">around</span> <span word="you">you</span>—<span word="you">you</span>’<span word="ll">ll</span> <span word="want">want</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="think">think</span> <span word="about">about</span> <span word="whether">whether</span> <span word="someone">someone</span> <span word="might">might</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="out">out</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="get">get</span> <span word="you">you</span> (<span word="or">or</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="job">job</span>).</p>
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