职场“乖乖女”是好还是坏？
<p><span word="Being">Being</span> <span word="the">the</span> "<span word="nice">nice</span> <span word="girl">girl</span>" <span word="at">at</span> <span word="work">work</span> <span word="has">has</span> <span word="its">its</span> <span word="perks">perks</span> —<span word="everyone">everyone</span> <span word="gravitates">gravitates</span> <span word="toward">toward</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="because">because</span> <span word="you">you</span>'<span word="re">re</span> <span word="always">always</span> <span word="trying">trying</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="please">please</span> <span word="other">other</span> <span word="people">people</span>. <span word="However">However</span>, <span word="in">in</span> <span word="terms">terms</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="getting">getting</span> <span word="what">what</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="want">want</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="career">career</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="having">having</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="career">career</span> <span word="progress">progress</span> <span word="at">at</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="rate">rate</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="want">want</span> <span word="it">it</span> <span word="to">to</span>, <span word="being">being</span> <span word="too">too</span> "<span word="nice">nice</span>" <span word="might">might</span> <span word="hinder">hinder</span> <span word="you">you</span>. <span word="Lois">Lois</span> <span word="Frankel">Frankel</span>, <span word="author">author</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="Nice">Nice</span> <span word="Girls">Girls</span> <span word="Just">Just</span> <span word="Don">Don</span>'<span word="t">t</span> <span word="Get">Get</span> <span word="It">It</span> <span word="advises">advises</span> <span word="to">to</span> "<span word="get">get</span> <span word="outside">outside</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="comfort">comfort</span> <span word="zone">zone</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="willing">willing</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="deal">deal</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="other">other</span> <span word="people">people</span>'<span word="s">s</span> <span word="discomfort">discomfort</span>, <span word="because">because</span> <span word="if">if</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="spend">spend</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="life">life</span> <span word="making">making</span> <span word="other">other</span> <span word="people">people</span> <span word="comfortable">comfortable</span>, <span word="you">you</span> <span word="may">may</span> <span word="feel">feel</span> <span word="good">good</span>, <span word="but">but</span> <span word="you">you</span>'<span word="re">re</span> <span word="not">not</span> <span word="going">going</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="get">get</span> <span word="what">what</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="really">really</span> <span word="want">want</span>."</p><p>在办公室里做个“乖乖女”有它的好处——每个人都会被你所吸引，因为你总是尽力取悦别人。然而，考虑到你对职业发展的期望和对职业发展速度的渴求，表现得太过<span word="nice">nice</span>恐怕反而会妨碍到你。《好女孩就是不明白》的作者路易斯·法兰克建议姑娘们“离开你们的舒适带，并愿意去处理他人的不适。因为假如你一辈子都花在如何让别人感到更舒适上，你或许会感觉很好，但你很难得到你真正想要的东西”。</p><p><span word="To">To</span> <span word="get">get</span> <span word="ahead">ahead</span> <span word="at">at</span> <span word="work">work</span>, <span word="you">you</span> <span word="need">need</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="more">more</span> <span word="assertive">assertive</span>, <span word="but">but</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="don">don</span>'<span word="t">t</span> <span word="have">have</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="too">too</span> <span word="aggressive">aggressive</span> <span word="about">about</span> <span word="it">it</span> —<span word="there">there</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="ways">ways</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="do">do</span> <span word="it">it</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="positive">positive</span> <span word="manner">manner</span>. <span word="Here">Here</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="some">some</span> <span word="tips">tips</span> <span word="Frankel">Frankel</span> <span word="has">has</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="women">women</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="drop">drop</span> <span word="the">the</span> "<span word="nice">nice</span>" <span word="act">act</span>:</p><p>想要在职场获得领先，你需要变得更自私一些，但你也没必要表现得太过咄咄逼人——有很多办法可以让你既能实现自己的利益，又显得不失礼节。以下就是弗兰克为那些为人太过<span word="nice">nice</span>的乖乖女们提出的建议：</p>
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