如何做一名好的倾听者？
<p><span word="It">It</span> <span word="hard">hard</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="have">have</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="conversation">conversation</span> <span word="these">these</span> <span word="days">days</span>. <span word="Everyone">Everyone</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="so">so</span> <span word="distracted">distracted</span>.</p><p>如今的社会想要安心交谈很难。大家都思想不集中。</p><p><span word="Interruptions">Interruptions</span>, <span word="multi">multi</span>-<span word="tasking">tasking</span>, <span word="and">and</span> <span word="technology">technology</span> <span word="distract">distract</span> <span word="us">us</span> <span word="from">from</span> <span word="having">having</span> <span word="even">even</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="simplest">simplest</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="conversations">conversations</span>. <span word="How">How</span> <span word="do">do</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="ensure">ensure</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="present">present</span> <span word="when">when</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="having">having</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="conversation">conversation</span>?</p><p>各种干扰、同时处理多项任务和一些科技产品让我们不能安心交谈，甚至最简短的交谈也不例外。你怎么能保证交谈时心无旁骛?</p><p><span word="I">I</span> <span word="once">once</span> <span word="worked">worked</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="boss">boss</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="wasn">wasn</span>’<span word="t">t</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="good">good</span> <span word="listener">listener</span>. <span word="One">One</span> <span word="day">day</span>, <span word="I">I</span> <span word="was">was</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="his">his</span> <span word="office">office</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="one">one</span>-<span word="on">on</span>-<span word="one">one</span> <span word="meeting">meeting</span>. <span word="Before">Before</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="meeting">meeting</span> <span word="even">even</span> <span word="got">got</span> <span word="started">started</span> <span word="his">his</span> <span word="phone">phone</span> <span word="rang">rang</span>, <span word="and">and</span> <span word="he">he</span> <span word="proceeded">proceeded</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="talk">talk</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="friend">friend</span> <span word="for">for</span> 10 <span word="minutes">minutes</span> <span word="while">while</span> <span word="I">I</span> <span word="sat">sat</span> <span word="there">there</span>. <span word="A">A</span> <span word="few">few</span> <span word="minutes">minutes</span> <span word="into">into</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="meeting">meeting</span> <span word="his">his</span> <span word="was">was</span> <span word="reading">reading</span> <span word="incoming">incoming</span> <span word="emails">emails</span> <span word="on">on</span> <span word="his">his</span> <span word="computer">computer</span> <span word="screen">screen</span>. <span word="Then">Then</span>, <span word="a">a</span> <span word="couple">couple</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="minutes">minutes</span> <span word="later">later</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="colleague">colleague</span> <span word="appeared">appeared</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="doorway">doorway</span>. <span word="Instead">Instead</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="saying">saying</span> <span word="he">he</span> <span word="was">was</span> <span word="busy">busy</span>, <span word="he">he</span> <span word="proceeded">proceeded</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="discuss">discuss</span> <span word="his">his</span> <span word="weekend">weekend</span> <span word="adventures">adventures</span>.</p><p>我以前的一个老板就不是一个善于倾听的人。有一天，我在他办公室与他一对一交谈。在交谈开始前他的电话就响了，他跟朋友一直聊了10分钟，而我坐在那儿等。交谈开始后的几分钟里，他一直盯着电脑屏幕，阅读接收到的邮件。又过了几分钟 一位同事出现在门口。他没有说他在忙，而是转入关于周末探险的讨论。</p><p><span word="How">How</span> <span word="would">would</span> <span word="this">this</span> <span word="situation">situation</span> <span word="make">make</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="feel">feel</span>? “<span word="Don">Don</span>’<span word="t">t</span> <span word="let">let</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="phone">phone</span>, <span word="interruptions">interruptions</span>, <span word="or">or</span> <span word="other">other</span> <span word="work">work</span> <span word="take">take</span> <span word="precedence">precedence</span> <span word="over">over</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="person">person</span> <span word="sitting">sitting</span> <span word="front">front</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="you">you</span>.”</p>
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