职场成功的几个要素
<p>你注意过自己的身体语言吗？注意过自己在别人交谈时的表情、手势吗？这些都是身体语言的一部分。身体语言是促进事业成功的一个强有力因素。遗憾的是，很多人并没有认识到这一点。</p><p><span word="Let">Let</span>'<span word="s">s</span> <span word="say">say</span> <span word="you">you</span>'<span word="re">re</span> <span word="all">all</span> <span word="set">set</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="big">big</span> <span word="interview">interview</span>-<span word="the">the</span> <span word="one">one</span> <span word="you">you</span>'<span word="re">re</span> <span word="confident">confident</span> <span word="will">will</span> <span word="change">change</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="career">career</span>. <span word="You">You</span> <span word="know">know</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="can">can</span> <span word="wow">wow</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="person">person</span> <span word="across">across</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="desk">desk</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="accomplishments">accomplishments</span>. <span word="Or">Or</span> <span word="you">you</span>'<span word="re">re</span> <span word="ready">ready</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="give">give</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="presentation">presentation</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="reflects">reflects</span> <span word="months">months</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="hard">hard</span> <span word="work">work</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="success">success</span>. <span word="But">But</span> <span word="before">before</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="even">even</span> <span word="open">open</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="mouth">mouth</span>, <span word="the">the</span> <span word="rest">rest</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="body">body</span> <span word="has">has</span> <span word="already">already</span> <span word="spoken">spoken</span> <span word="volumes">volumes</span>.</p><p><span word="What">What</span> <span word="does">does</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="body">body</span> <span word="language">language</span> <span word="say">say</span>? <span word="Does">Does</span> <span word="it">it</span> <span word="say">say</span> <span word="you">you</span>'<span word="re">re</span> <span word="confident">confident</span>, <span word="smart">smart</span>, <span word="and">and</span> <span word="enthusiastic">enthusiastic</span>-<span word="or">or</span> <span word="just">just</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="opposite">opposite</span>?</p><p><span word="Only">Only</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="small">small</span> <span word="percentage">percentage</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="communication">communication</span> <span word="involves">involves</span> <span word="actual">actual</span> <span word="words">words</span>: 7%, <span word="to">to</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="exact">exact</span>. <span word="In">In</span> <span word="fact">fact</span>, 55% <span word="of">of</span> <span word="communication">communication</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="visual">visual</span> (<span word="body">body</span> <span word="language">language</span>, <span word="eye">eye</span> <span word="contact">contact</span>) <span word="and">and</span> 38% <span word="is">is</span> <span word="vocal">vocal</span> (<span word="pitch">pitch</span>, <span word="speed">speed</span>, <span word="volume">volume</span>, <span word="tone">tone</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="voice">voice</span>). <span word="The">The</span> <span word="world">world</span>'<span word="s">s</span> <span word="best">best</span> <span word="business">business</span> <span word="communicators">communicators</span> <span word="have">have</span> <span word="strong">strong</span> <span word="body">body</span> <span word="language">language</span>: <span word="a">a</span> <span word="commanding">commanding</span> <span word="presence">presence</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="reflects">reflects</span> <span word="confidence">confidence</span>, <span word="competence">competence</span>, <span word="and">and</span> <span word="charisma">charisma</span>.</p><p><span word="More">More</span> <span word="Than">Than</span> <span word="Words">Words</span> 语言之外的因素</p><p><span word="One">One</span> <span word="problem">problem</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="body">body</span> <span word="language">language</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="it">it</span> <span word="may">may</span> <span word="not">not</span> <span word="convey">convey</span> <span word="what">what</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="really">really</span> <span word="feel">feel</span>. <span word="For">For</span> <span word="example">example</span>, <span word="keeping">keeping</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="hands">hands</span> <span word="stiffly">stiffly</span> <span word="by">by</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="side">side</span> <span word="or">or</span> <span word="stuck">stuck</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="pockets">pockets</span> <span word="can">can</span> <span word="give">give</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="impression">impression</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="you">you</span>'<span word="re">re</span> <span word="insecure">insecure</span>-<span word="whether">whether</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="or">or</span> <span word="not">not</span>.</p><p><span word="Avoiding">Avoiding</span> <span word="looking">looking</span> <span word="at">at</span> <span word="people">people</span>-<span word="maybe">maybe</span> <span word="simply">simply</span> <span word="because">because</span> <span word="you">you</span>'<span word="re">re</span> <span word="too">too</span> <span word="busy">busy</span> <span word="consulting">consulting</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="notes">notes</span> <span word="or">or</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="r">r</span>é<span word="sum">sum</span>é-<span word="can">can</span> <span word="lead">lead</span> <span word="people">people</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="think">think</span> <span word="you">you</span>'<span word="re">re</span> <span word="being">being</span> <span word="less">less</span> <span word="than">than</span> <span word="honest">honest</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="them">them</span>. <span word="You">You</span> <span word="may">may</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="slouching">slouching</span> <span word="because">because</span> <span word="you">you</span>'<span word="re">re</span> <span word="tired">tired</span>, <span word="but">but</span> <span word="people">people</span> <span word="may">may</span> <span word="read">read</span> <span word="it">it</span> <span word="as">as</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="sign">sign</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="you">you</span>'<span word="re">re</span> <span word="not">not</span> <span word="interested">interested</span>.</p>
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