职场上拜访应礼尚往来
<p>中华民族是一个崇尚"礼尚往来"的民族。拜访长者，我们可以带去一些营养品；给新婚夫妇包红包，一句关系亲疏里面有几十元至几千元现金......有时送礼花太多钱是犯忌的，也有时候"一点儿小意思"又不够，但不论接收礼物的人是谁，在什么场合下送礼，多花些时间仔细挑选礼物都是不枉费的。</p><p>一个适当的礼物，如果送的方法不对，也可能让你惹上麻烦。了解不同文化的送礼礼节是很重要的。在下面的对话里，一个初来中国的外国朋友在送礼上就碰到了点"小麻烦。</p><p><span word="A">A</span>: <span word="This">This</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="first">first</span> <span word="time">time</span> <span word="I">I</span>'<span word="ve">ve</span> <span word="been">been</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="China">China</span>, <span word="and">and</span> <span word="everything">everything</span> <span word="here">here</span> <span word="fascinated">fascinated</span> <span word="me">me</span>. <span word="But">But</span> <span word="there">there</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="something">something</span> <span word="I">I</span> <span word="can">can</span> <span word="never">never</span> <span word="figure">figure</span> <span word="out">out</span>!</p><p><span word="B">B</span>: <span word="What">What</span>'<span word="s">s</span> <span word="wrong">wrong</span>? <span word="Did">Did</span> <span word="anything">anything</span> <span word="puzzle">puzzle</span> <span word="you">you</span>, <span word="speak">speak</span> <span word="it">it</span> <span word="up">up</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="see">see</span> <span word="if">if</span> <span word="I">I</span> <span word="can">can</span> <span word="help">help</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="out">out</span>.</p><p><span word="A">A</span>: <span word="Good">Good</span>! <span word="You">You</span> <span word="turn">turn</span> <span word="up">up</span> <span word="so">so</span> <span word="timely">timely</span>! <span word="I">I</span> <span word="am">am</span> <span word="just">just</span> <span word="expecting">expecting</span> <span word="some">some</span> <span word="good">good</span> <span word="explanation">explanation</span>. <span word="You">You</span> <span word="know">know</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="other">other</span> <span word="day">day</span> <span word="one">one</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="my">my</span> <span word="Chinese">Chinese</span> <span word="friends">friends</span> <span word="was">was</span> <span word="celebrating">celebrating</span> <span word="his">his</span> <span word="birthday">birthday</span> <span word="so">so</span> <span word="I">I</span> <span word="asked">asked</span> <span word="him">him</span> <span word="what">what</span> <span word="he">he</span> <span word="would">would</span> <span word="like">like</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="birthday">birthday</span> <span word="present">present</span>. <span word="Do">Do</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="know">know</span> <span word="what">what</span> <span word="he">he</span> <span word="said">said</span>? "<span word="No">No</span>, <span word="no">no</span>! <span word="Don">Don</span>'<span word="t">t</span> <span word="give">give</span> <span word="me">me</span> <span word="anything">anything</span>. <span word="Don">Don</span>'<span word="t">t</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="polite">polite</span>!" <span word="can">can</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="believe">believe</span> <span word="it">it</span>?</p><p><span word="B">B</span>: <span word="Actually">Actually</span>, <span word="I">I</span> <span word="can">can</span> <span word="well">well</span> <span word="believe">believe</span> <span word="it">it</span>. <span word="It">It</span>'<span word="s">s</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="Chinese">Chinese</span> <span word="way">way</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="expressing">expressing</span> <span word="his">his</span> <span word="being">being</span> <span word="humble">humble</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="reserved">reserved</span>. <span word="But">But</span> <span word="most">most</span> <span word="often">often</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="speaker">speaker</span> <span word="doesn">doesn</span>'<span word="t">t</span> <span word="really">really</span> <span word="mean">mean</span> <span word="refusal">refusal</span> <span word="unless">unless</span> <span word="he">he</span> <span word="firmly">firmly</span> <span word="insists">insists</span>. <span word="Chinese">Chinese</span> <span word="people">people</span> <span word="don">don</span>'<span word="t">t</span> <span word="easily">easily</span> <span word="accept">accept</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="given">given</span> <span word="things">things</span> <span word="only">only</span> <span word="when">when</span> <span word="he">he</span> <span word="has">has</span> <span word="contributed">contributed</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="giver">giver</span> <span word="or">or</span> <span word="there">there</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="an">an</span> <span word="intimacy">intimacy</span>. <span word="And">And</span> <span word="they">they</span> <span word="don">don</span>'<span word="t">t</span> <span word="want">want</span> <span word="their">their</span> <span word="friends">friends</span> "<span word="pofei">pofei</span>" <span word="which">which</span> <span word="means">means</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="spend">spend</span> <span word="money">money</span>.</p>
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