怎样处理与别人意见不同
<p>在上一篇文章中我们谈到如何测定自己在工作中是否缺乏主张。我们从六个方面来剖析这个问题。现在我们来看看对第一个问题的解决办法：</p><p>1: <span word="I">I</span> <span word="have">have</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="hard">hard</span> <span word="time">time</span> <span word="disagreeing">disagreeing</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="people">people</span> <span word="whose">whose</span> <span word="views">views</span> <span word="I">I</span> <span word="think">think</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="wrong">wrong</span>.</p><p>对于认为持错误观点的人难以表示不认同</p><p><span word="Addresses">Addresses</span> <span word="disagreeing">disagreeing</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="others">others</span></p><p>如何解决自己和别人的意见不一致</p><p><span word="To">To</span> <span word="disagree">disagree</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="someone">someone</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="risk">risk</span> <span word="appearing">appearing</span> <span word="rude">rude</span>, <span word="argumentative">argumentative</span>, <span word="or">or</span> <span word="unlikable">unlikable</span>. <span word="This">This</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="why">why</span> <span word="it">it</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="easier">easier</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="passive">passive</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="keep">keep</span> <span word="quiet">quiet</span>. <span word="The">The</span> <span word="problem">problem</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="will">will</span> <span word="not">not</span> <span word="get">get</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="ideas">ideas</span> <span word="heard">heard</span> <span word="or">or</span> <span word="acted">acted</span> <span word="upon">upon</span>, <span word="which">which</span> <span word="can">can</span> <span word="limit">limit</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="effectiveness">effectiveness</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="status">status</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="organization">organization</span>. 要表示不同意见，就要冒着看上去粗鲁、好辩、不讨人喜欢的风险。 这就是保持沉默和被动要更容易做到的原因。 问题是这样你的观点就不会被听到或付诸实施。这就会限制你在组织中的效力和地位。</p><p><span word="Have">Have</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="ever">ever</span> <span word="experienced">experienced</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="horrible">horrible</span> <span word="feeling">feeling</span> <span word="when">when</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="don">don</span>’<span word="t">t</span> <span word="say">say</span> <span word="what">what</span>’<span word="s">s</span> <span word="on">on</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="mind">mind</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="someone">someone</span> <span word="else">else</span> <span word="does">does</span>, <span word="and">and</span> <span word="then">then</span> <span word="they">they</span> <span word="get">get</span> <span word="accolades">accolades</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="idea">idea</span>? <span word="Don">Don</span>’<span word="t">t</span> <span word="allow">allow</span> <span word="this">this</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="happen">happen</span>. <span word="Practice">Practice</span> <span word="disagreeing">disagreeing</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="less">less</span> <span word="high">high</span>-<span word="stakes">stakes</span> <span word="conversations">conversations</span>. <span word="When">When</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="disagree">disagree</span>, <span word="do">do</span> <span word="so">so</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="poise">poise</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="objectivity">objectivity</span>. <span word="Simply">Simply</span> <span word="state">state</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="view">view</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="facts">facts</span> <span word="supporting">supporting</span> <span word="it">it</span>. <span word="Once">Once</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="gain">gain</span> <span word="confidence">confidence</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="ability">ability</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="communicate">communicate</span> <span word="disagreement">disagreement</span>, <span word="take">take</span> <span word="some">some</span> <span word="more">more</span> <span word="risks">risks</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="challenging">challenging</span> <span word="situations">situations</span>.你是否曾有过自己不敢言，而别人却说出来，后来那人因为这个主意而获得奖赏的可憎经历呢？不要让这种事情再发生了。开始你可以在一些风险较低的对话中去表达自己的不同意见，把这当成是练习。表达自己的不同观点时要镇定和客观。只需要简单地阐述出自己观点和论据。从这种沟通中获得自信后，在具有挑战性的情形下，去冒一些更大的风险。</p>
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