你会嫉妒同事吗?
<p><span word="If">If</span> <span word="there">there</span>'<span word="s">s</span> <span word="one">one</span> <span word="thing">thing</span> <span word="Johanna">Johanna</span> <span word="Rothman">Rothman</span> <span word="knows">knows</span>, <span word="it">it</span>'<span word="s">s</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="corrosive">corrosive</span> <span word="effects">effects</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="jealousy">jealousy</span>. <span word="At">At</span> 30, <span word="the">the</span> <span word="author">author</span> <span word="of">of</span> "<span word="Behind">Behind</span> <span word="Closed">Closed</span> <span word="Doors">Doors</span>: <span word="Secrets">Secrets</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="Great">Great</span> <span word="Management">Management</span>" <span word="was">was</span> <span word="incensed">incensed</span> <span word="when">when</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="coworker">coworker</span> <span word="got">got</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="job">job</span> <span word="she">she</span> <span word="wanted">wanted</span>. <span word="Later">Later</span>, <span word="when">when</span> <span word="she">she</span> <span word="took">took</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="job">job</span> <span word="managing">managing</span> <span word="former">former</span> <span word="peers">peers</span>, <span word="she">she</span> <span word="felt">felt</span> <span word="their">their</span> <span word="jealousy">jealousy</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="curt">curt</span>, <span word="backhanded">backhanded</span> <span word="compliments">compliments</span>.</p><p>如果说<span word="Johanna">Johanna</span> <span word="Rothman">Rothman</span>只懂得一件事，那就是嫉妒的破坏。她现年30岁，是《关闭的门后：伟大管理的秘密》一书的作者。她曾在一位同事得到她想要的工作后怒气冲天。后来，当她得到了管理同事的工作时，她感觉到了他们简单、拐弯抹角的恭维话内隐含的妒忌。</p><p>"<span word="If">If</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="can">can</span> <span word="admit">admit</span> <span word="you">you</span>'<span word="re">re</span> <span word="jealous">jealous</span>, <span word="you">you</span> <span word="can">can</span> <span word="start">start</span> <span word="dealing">dealing</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="it">it</span>," <span word="says">says</span> <span word="Rothman">Rothman</span>. "<span word="If">If</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="don">don</span>'<span word="t">t</span>, <span word="jealousy">jealousy</span> <span word="can">can</span> <span word="poison">poison</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="relationships">relationships</span>."</p><p><span word="Rothman">Rothman</span>说：“如果你承认自己妒忌，开始想想办法应对吧；如果你不承认，妒忌会毒害你们的关系。”</p><p><span word="Jealousy">Jealousy</span> <span word="can">can</span> <span word="also">also</span> <span word="poison">poison</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="career">career</span> <span word="by">by</span> <span word="distracting">distracting</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="from">from</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="job">job</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="forcing">forcing</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="into">into</span> <span word="constant">constant</span> <span word="comparisons">comparisons</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="leave">leave</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="demoralized">demoralized</span>, <span word="she">she</span> <span word="says">says</span>.</p><p>她说妒忌还会让你在工作中分心，迫使你不断地攀比，让你失去斗志。</p><p><span word="Want">Want</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="curb">curb</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="or">or</span> <span word="others">others</span>' <span word="jealousy">jealousy</span> <span word="while">while</span> <span word="keeping">keeping</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="eye">eye</span> <span word="on">on</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="goals">goals</span>? <span word="Consider">Consider</span> <span word="these">these</span> <span word="tips">tips</span>:</p><p>你希望专注于自己的目标，同时抑制住自己的或别人的妒忌吗？ 可以考虑以下方法：</p><p><span word="If">If</span> <span word="you">you</span>'<span word="re">re</span> <span word="jealous">jealous</span>:</p>
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