职场quot;好人quot;不易做（1）
<p><span word="Creative">Creative</span>, <span word="talented">talented</span>, <span word="brilliant">brilliant</span>. <span word="You">You</span> <span word="would">would</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="thrilled">thrilled</span> <span word="if">if</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="boss">boss</span> <span word="used">used</span> <span word="any">any</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="these">these</span> <span word="words">words</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="describe">describe</span> <span word="you">you</span>. <span word="But">But</span> <span word="how">how</span> <span word="about">about</span> <span word="nice">nice</span>? <span word="Consider">Consider</span> <span word="it">it</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="moment">moment</span>: <span word="When">When</span> <span word="asked">asked</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="come">come</span> <span word="up">up</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="definitive">definitive</span> <span word="description">description</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="capabilities">capabilities</span>, <span word="your">your</span> <span word="manager">manager</span> <span word="says">says</span>, "<span word="She">She</span>'<span word="s">s</span> <span word="very">very</span> <span word="nice">nice</span>." <span word="True">True</span>, <span word="there">there</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="far">far</span> <span word="worse">worse</span> <span word="labels">labels</span>, <span word="but">but</span> <span word="if">if</span> <span word="someone">someone</span> <span word="used">used</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="description">description</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="following">following</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="first">first</span> <span word="date">date</span>, <span word="there">there</span> <span word="might">might</span> <span word="not">not</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="second">second</span> <span word="one">one</span>.</p><p>富有创造力、才华横溢、聪明绝顶。如果老板用这些词来形容你，你肯定会振奋不已。如果是说你“人好”呢? 稍稍想象一下：当你的经理被要求对你的能力做一个确切的评价时，他/她说：“她人挺好的。”的确，比这糟糕的评价还有很多，但是当你第一次约会时，如果对方用“人很好”来形容你，那也许就不会有第二次约会了。</p><p><span word="It">It</span>'<span word="s">s</span> <span word="not">not</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="pleasant">pleasant</span> <span word="demeanor">demeanor</span> <span word="isn">isn</span>'<span word="t">t</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="valuable">valuable</span> <span word="trait">trait</span> <span word="on">on</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="job">job</span>. <span word="After">After</span> <span word="all">all</span>, <span word="people">people</span> <span word="want">want</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="work">work</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="individuals">individuals</span> <span word="who">who</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="tactful">tactful</span>, <span word="responsive">responsive</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="quick">quick</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="offer">offer</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="helping">helping</span> <span word="hand">hand</span>.</p><p>不是说好性情在职场上没有价值。毕竟，人们都喜欢和那些体贴、响应积极、乐于助人的人一起工作。</p><p><span word="The">The</span> <span word="trouble">trouble</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="being">being</span> <span word="too">too</span> <span word="nice">nice</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="it">it</span> <span word="often">often</span> <span word="goes">goes</span> <span word="hand">hand</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="hand">hand</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="other">other</span> <span word="traits">traits</span>, <span word="such">such</span> <span word="as">as</span> <span word="being">being</span> <span word="too">too</span> <span word="accommodating">accommodating</span>, <span word="unwilling">unwilling</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="speak">speak</span> <span word="up">up</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="yourself">yourself</span>, <span word="or">or</span> <span word="hesitant">hesitant</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="offer">offer</span> <span word="constructive">constructive</span> <span word="criticism">criticism</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="colleagues">colleagues</span>. <span word="Following">Following</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="some">some</span> <span word="tips">tips</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="help">help</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="nice">nice</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="creative">creative</span>, <span word="talented">talented</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="brilliant">brilliant</span>:</p>
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