职场quot;好人quot;不易做（3）
<p>在工作中，太“善解人意“可不是什么好事，最后你会发现你会被自己的善心所带来的工作压死的。另外，自信也很重要，对自己有信心，别人才能对你有信心。</p><p><span word="Avoid">Avoid</span> <span word="being">being</span> <span word="overly">overly</span> <span word="empathetic">empathetic</span>.</p><p>不要过于善解人意</p><p><span word="There">There</span>'<span word="s">s</span> <span word="another">another</span> <span word="reason">reason</span> <span word="nice">nice</span> <span word="people">people</span> <span word="take">take</span> <span word="on">on</span> <span word="too">too</span> <span word="much">much</span> <span word="work">work</span>: <span word="They">They</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="overly">overly</span> <span word="empathetic">empathetic</span>. <span word="Perhaps">Perhaps</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="best">best</span> <span word="work">work</span> <span word="friend">friend</span> <span word="always">always</span> <span word="turns">turns</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="when">when</span> <span word="she">she</span>'<span word="s">s</span> <span word="overwhelmed">overwhelmed</span>. <span word="While">While</span> <span word="she">she</span> <span word="doesn">doesn</span>'<span word="t">t</span> <span word="directly">directly</span> <span word="ask">ask</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="help">help</span>, <span word="you">you</span> <span word="end">end</span> <span word="up">up</span> <span word="offering">offering</span> <span word="anyway">anyway</span>, <span word="even">even</span> <span word="when">when</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="already">already</span> <span word="have">have</span> <span word="several">several</span> <span word="balls">balls</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="air">air</span>. <span word="After">After</span> <span word="all">all</span>, <span word="you">you</span> <span word="hate">hate</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="see">see</span> <span word="her">her</span> <span word="so">so</span> <span word="stressed">stressed</span> <span word="out">out</span>. <span word="Next">Next</span> <span word="time">time</span> <span word="this">this</span> <span word="happens">happens</span>, <span word="pause">pause</span> <span word="before">before</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="offer">offer</span> <span word="assistance">assistance</span>. <span word="It">It</span>'<span word="s">s</span> <span word="often">often</span> <span word="enough">enough</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="lend">lend</span> <span word="an">an</span> <span word="ear">ear</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="offer">offer</span> <span word="encouragement">encouragement</span> <span word="without">without</span> <span word="jumping">jumping</span> <span word="into">into</span> <span word="action">action</span>. <span word="Practice">Practice</span> <span word="listening">listening</span> <span word="more">more</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="acting">acting</span> <span word="less">less</span>.</p><p>“大好人”会做太多的工作还有一个原因：他们过于善解人意了。也许你工作中最好的朋友总会在喘不过气的时候向你寻求帮助。虽然她不会直接要你帮忙，但是你最终还是帮了，即便这时候你也是忙得不可开交。毕竟你不愿意看到她顶着那么大的压力。下次出现这种情况时，在你要提供帮助的时候先停一停。通常情况下，倾听和鼓舞对方就足够了，不用自己采取行动。多倾听，少揽活。</p><p><span word="Exude">Exude</span> <span word="confidence">confidence</span>.</p><p>表现出自信</p><p><span word="Whether">Whether</span> <span word="you">you</span>'<span word="re">re</span> <span word="talking">talking</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="manager">manager</span> <span word="or">or</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="coworker">coworker</span>, <span word="be">be</span> <span word="succinct">succinct</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="direct">direct</span>. <span word="Nice">Nice</span> <span word="people">people</span> <span word="frequently">frequently</span> <span word="feel">feel</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="need">need</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="justify">justify</span> <span word="their">their</span> <span word="thought">thought</span> <span word="processes">processes</span> <span word="by">by</span> <span word="describing">describing</span> <span word="them">them</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="excruciating">excruciating</span> <span word="detail">detail</span>. <span word="But">But</span> <span word="no">no</span> <span word="one">one</span> <span word="wants">wants</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="sit">sit</span> <span word="through">through</span> <span word="a">a</span> 10-<span word="minute">minute</span> <span word="explanation">explanation</span> <span word="as">as</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="slowly">slowly</span> <span word="get">get</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="point">point</span>. <span word="The">The</span> <span word="truth">truth</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="there">there</span>'<span word="s">s</span> <span word="no">no</span> <span word="need">need</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="overexplain">overexplain</span>. <span word="The">The</span> <span word="person">person</span> <span word="you">you</span>'<span word="re">re</span> <span word="talking">talking</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="will">will</span> <span word="ask">ask</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="clarification">clarification</span> <span word="if">if</span> <span word="he">he</span> <span word="or">or</span> <span word="she">she</span> <span word="needs">needs</span> <span word="it">it</span>.</p>
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