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<p><span word="Roy">Roy</span> <span word="Leighton">Leighton</span> <span word="asks">asks</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="imagine">imagine</span> <span word="yourself">yourself</span> <span word="at">at</span> <span word="work">work</span>. <span word="Everything">Everything</span>'<span word="s">s</span> <span word="going">going</span> <span word="well">well</span> <span word="until">until</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="certain">certain</span> <span word="person">person</span> <span word="comes">comes</span> <span word="in">in</span>. <span word="You">You</span> <span word="know">know</span> <span word="who">who</span> <span word="we">we</span>'<span word="re">re</span> <span word="talking">talking</span> <span word="about">about</span> -<span word="that">that</span> <span word="one">one</span>, <span word="the">the</span> <span word="energy">energy</span> <span word="taker">taker</span>. <span word="The">The</span> <span word="person">person</span> <span word="who">who</span> <span word="seems">seems</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="draw">draw</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="life">life</span> <span word="force">force</span> <span word="out">out</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="as">as</span> <span word="though">though</span> <span word="they">they</span> <span word="were">were</span> <span word="some">some</span> <span word="kind">kind</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="sponge">sponge</span>!</p><p><span word="Roy">Roy</span> <span word="Leighton">Leighton</span>请您想象一下工作中的自己。一切进展顺利,直到某个人的到来。你知道我们在说谁——就是那个人:精力吸食者。他们就像某种海绵一样吸食着你的能量。</p><p><span word="To">To</span> <span word="start">start</span> <span word="infecting">infecting</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="environment">environment</span></p><p>开始影响你的环境</p><p><span word="Where">Where</span> <span word="previously">previously</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="were">were</span> <span word="quite">quite</span> <span word="relaxed">relaxed</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="focused">focused</span>, <span word="you">you</span> <span word="now">now</span> <span word="tense">tense</span> <span word="up">up</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="question">question</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="ability">ability</span>. <span word="Your">Your</span> <span word="energy">energy</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="going">going</span> <span word="by">by</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="second">second</span>. <span word="This">This</span> <span word="certain">certain</span> <span word="person">person</span> <span word="chatters">chatters</span> <span word="on">on</span> <span word="at">at</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="about">about</span> <span word="something">something</span>, <span word="not">not</span> <span word="listening">listening</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="responses">responses</span>, <span word="while">while</span> <span word="only">only</span> <span word="seeking">seeking</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="talk">talk</span> <span word="about">about</span> <span word="their">their</span> <span word="issues">issues</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="how">how</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="can">can</span> <span word="help">help</span> <span word="them">them</span>. <span word="You">You</span> <span word="stammer">stammer</span> <span word="some">some</span> <span word="feeble">feeble</span> <span word="responses">responses</span> <span word="by">by</span> <span word="way">way</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="reply">reply</span>, <span word="feeling">feeling</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="strength">strength</span> <span word="ebb">ebb</span> <span word="away">away</span> <span word="until">until</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="find">find</span> <span word="an">an</span> <span word="excuse">excuse</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="leave">leave</span>.</p><p>之前你很放松、精力集中,现在却神经紧张、开始怀疑自己的能力。你的精力每秒钟都在流失。这个人对你喋喋不休,从不理会你的反应,只是谈论他们自己的事情,还有你怎么能够帮助他们。你结结巴巴地作出一个无力的回应,同时感觉自己的力量在消退,直到你找到一个借口离开。</p><p><span word="Sitting">Sitting</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="toilet">toilet</span> <span word="cubicle">cubicle</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="few">few</span> <span word="minutes">minutes</span> <span word="later">later</span>, <span word="you">you</span> <span word="reflect">reflect</span> <span word="on">on</span> <span word="what">what</span> <span word="has">has</span> <span word="just">just</span> <span word="happened">happened</span>. <span word="Why">Why</span> <span word="does">does</span> <span word="this">this</span> <span word="person">person</span> <span word="have">have</span> <span word="such">such</span> <span word="an">an</span> <span word="impact">impact</span> <span word="on">on</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="how">how</span> <span word="can">can</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="overcome">overcome</span> <span word="it">it</span> <span word="so">so</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="work">work</span> <span word="ceases">ceases</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="place">place</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="torture">torture</span>?</p>
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