为什么雇主会拒绝聘你（4）
<p><span word="So">So</span> <span word="when">when</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="fruitless">fruitless</span> <span word="search">search</span> <span word="fills">fills</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="angst">angst</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="self">self</span>-<span word="doubt">doubt</span>, <span word="always">always</span> <span word="remember">remember</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="following">following</span> <span word="truths">truths</span> <span word="about">about</span> <span word="job">job</span> <span word="hunting">hunting</span>: 所以当你毫无结果的搜索让你充满焦虑和自我怀疑，一定得记住下面有关求职的事实:</p><p><span word="Employers">Employers</span> <span word="Have">Have</span> <span word="Prejudices">Prejudices</span> <span word="Too">Too</span></p><p>招聘者也会有偏见</p><p><span word="In">In</span> <span word="our">our</span> <span word="personal">personal</span> <span word="lives">lives</span>, <span word="we">we</span> <span word="often">often</span> <span word="make">make</span> <span word="assumptions">assumptions</span> <span word="about">about</span> <span word="others">others</span>. <span word="We">We</span> <span word="take">take</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="quirk">quirk</span>—<span word="a">a</span> <span word="moment">moment</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="weakness">weakness</span>—<span word="and">and</span> <span word="blow">blow</span> <span word="it">it</span> <span word="out">out</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="proportion">proportion</span>. <span word="We">We</span> <span word="collect">collect</span> <span word="puzzle">puzzle</span> <span word="pieces">pieces</span>, <span word="connect">connect</span> <span word="fragmented">fragmented</span> <span word="images">images</span>, <span word="and">and</span> <span word="formulate">formulate</span> <span word="the">the</span> "<span word="story">story</span>" <span word="behind">behind</span> <span word="someone">someone</span>, <span word="however">however</span> <span word="incomplete">incomplete</span>.</p><p>在个人生活里面，我们会经常对别人做出假设。我们会将一个古怪的行为——泄露弱点——极大地夸张。我们收集零碎的信息、将破碎的图像联系到一起，形成关于某个人的“故事”，尽管这故事很不完整。</p><p><span word="Employers">Employers</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="no">no</span> <span word="different">different</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="you">you</span>. <span word="In">In</span> <span word="some">some</span> <span word="interviews">interviews</span>, <span word="your">your</span> <span word="counterparts">counterparts</span> <span word="will">will</span> <span word="quickly">quickly</span> <span word="size">size</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="up">up</span>, <span word="right">right</span> <span word="or">or</span> <span word="wrong">wrong</span>. <span word="They">They</span> <span word="will">will</span> <span word="look">look</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="reinforce">reinforce</span> <span word="their">their</span> <span word="initial">initial</span> <span word="impressions">impressions</span>. <span word="They">They</span> <span word="will">will</span> <span word="make">make</span> <span word="assumptions">assumptions</span> <span word="about">about</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="experience">experience</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="expectations">expectations</span>.</p><p>招聘者和你没什么区别。在一些面试中，他们会迅速品评你一番，不管结论是对是错。他们会去寻找支持第一印象的东西，对你的经历和期望做出假设。</p><p><span word="It">It</span> <span word="can">can</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="any">any</span> <span word="factor">factor</span>. <span word="They">They</span> <span word="may">may</span> <span word="see">see</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="as">as</span> <span word="too">too</span> <span word="old">old</span>. <span word="Too">Too</span> <span word="young">young</span>. <span word="Too">Too</span> <span word="smart">smart</span>. <span word="Too">Too</span> <span word="expensive">expensive</span>. <span word="Too">Too</span> <span word="pretty">pretty</span>. <span word="Too">Too</span> <span word="plain">plain</span>. <span word="Too">Too</span> <span word="fat">fat</span>. <span word="Too">Too</span> <span word="short">short</span>. <span word="Too">Too</span> <span word="bald">bald</span>. <span word="Too">Too</span> <span word="flashy">flashy</span>. <span word="Too">Too</span> <span word="quiet">quiet</span>. <span word="Too">Too</span> <span word="female">female</span>. <span word="Too">Too</span> <span word="male">male</span>. <span word="And">And</span> <span word="too">too</span> <span word="much">much</span> <span word="like">like</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="predecessor">predecessor</span>. <span word="There">There</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="no">no</span> <span word="hard">hard</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="fast">fast</span> <span word="rules">rules</span>. <span word="And">And</span> <span word="it">it</span> <span word="may">may</span> <span word="have">have</span> <span word="little">little</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="do">do</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="real">real</span> <span word="you">you</span>. <span word="It">It</span> <span word="happens">happens</span>.</p>
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