上班第一天如何适应工作（2）
<p><span word="Starting">Starting</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="new">new</span> <span word="job">job</span> <span word="can">can</span> <span word="make">make</span> <span word="us">us</span> <span word="feel">feel</span> <span word="like">like</span> <span word="we">we</span>’<span word="ve">ve</span> <span word="gone">gone</span> <span word="back">back</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="time">time</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="our">our</span> <span word="first">first</span> <span word="day">day</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="junior">junior</span> <span word="high">high</span> <span word="school">school</span>. <span word="We">We</span> <span word="want">want</span> <span word="people">people</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="like">like</span> <span word="us">us</span>, <span word="but">but</span> <span word="we">we</span> <span word="don">don</span>’<span word="t">t</span> <span word="want">want</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="seem">seem</span> <span word="too">too</span> <span word="eager">eager</span>. <span word="We">We</span> <span word="hope">hope</span> <span word="we">we</span>’<span word="ve">ve</span> <span word="worn">worn</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="right">right</span> <span word="clothes">clothes</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="dressed">dressed</span> <span word="up">up</span> <span word="enough">enough</span>, <span word="but">but</span> <span word="not">not</span> <span word="too">too</span> <span word="much">much</span>. <span word="The">The</span> <span word="self">self</span>-<span word="confidence">confidence</span> <span word="we">we</span> <span word="had">had</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="interview">interview</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="landed">landed</span> <span word="us">us</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="job">job</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="slowly">slowly</span> <span word="taken">taken</span> <span word="over">over</span> <span word="by">by</span> <span word="nerves">nerves</span> <span word="as">as</span> <span word="our">our</span> <span word="first">first</span> <span word="day">day</span> <span word="approaches">approaches</span>, <span word="and">and</span> <span word="we">we</span> <span word="worry">worry</span> <span word="about">about</span> <span word="making">making</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="good">good</span> <span word="first">first</span> <span word="impression">impression</span>.</p><p>开始新工作会让我们感到仿佛又回到了初一开学第一天。我们希望人们会喜欢我们，但是又不希望自己看上去过于心切；我们希望穿着得当、得体，可又不想过份讲究。帮助我们赢得这份工作的面试中的自信随着工作第一天临近逐渐被紧张情绪代替，我们担心能否给同事留下好的第一印象。</p><p><span word="But">But</span> <span word="new">new</span> <span word="jobs">jobs</span> <span word="should">should</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="exciting">exciting</span>, <span word="not">not</span> <span word="stressful">stressful</span>. <span word="We">We</span>’<span word="re">re</span> <span word="taking">taking</span> <span word="on">on</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="new">new</span> <span word="role">role</span>, <span word="a">a</span> <span word="fresh">fresh</span> <span word="start">start</span>, <span word="one">one</span> <span word="filled">filled</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="opportunities">opportunities</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="future">future</span>—<span word="we">we</span>’<span word="re">re</span> <span word="not">not</span> <span word="going">going</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="dentist">dentist</span>. <span word="Use">Use</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="following">following</span> <span word="six">six</span> <span word="ways">ways</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="fit">fit</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="at">at</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="new">new</span> <span word="job">job</span>.</p><p>不过新工作给人们带来的应该是兴奋而不是压力。我们将扮演一个新角色，有一个全新的开始，一个富有机会和未来的起点。我们不是去看牙医（没必要太紧张）。下面六条建议可以帮你适应第一天的工作。</p><p>4. <span word="Initiate">Initiate</span> <span word="an">an</span> <span word="outing">outing</span>. 邀同事一起出去</p><p><span word="During">During</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="first">first</span> <span word="few">few</span> <span word="weeks">weeks</span> <span word="or">or</span> <span word="so">so</span>, <span word="send">send</span> <span word="around">around</span> <span word="an">an</span> <span word="email">email</span> <span word="asking">asking</span> <span word="if">if</span> <span word="anyone">anyone</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="interested">interested</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="familiarizing">familiarizing</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="surrounding">surrounding</span> <span word="coffee">coffee</span> <span word="shops">shops</span>, <span word="decent">decent</span> <span word="lunch">lunch</span> <span word="places">places</span>, <span word="or">or</span> <span word="fun">fun</span> <span word="happy">happy</span> <span word="hour">hour</span> <span word="bars">bars</span>. <span word="All">All</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="us">us</span> <span word="have">have</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="little">little</span> <span word="gem">gem</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="spot">spot</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="we">we</span> <span word="love">love</span> <span word="showing">showing</span> <span word="off">off</span>. <span word="However">However</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="sure">sure</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="double">double</span> <span word="check">check</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="supervisor">supervisor</span> <span word="on">on</span> <span word="who">who</span> <span word="should">should</span> <span word="receive">receive</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="invite">invite</span>; <span word="the">the</span> <span word="CEO">CEO</span> <span word="probably">probably</span> <span word="doesn">doesn</span>’<span word="t">t</span> <span word="have">have</span> <span word="time">time</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="share">share</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="martini">martini</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="you">you</span>. <span word="Keep">Keep</span> <span word="these">these</span> <span word="outings">outings</span> <span word="sporadic">sporadic</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="remember">remember</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="balance">balance</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="work">work</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="social">social</span> <span word="life">life</span>—<span word="they">they</span>’<span word="re">re</span> <span word="two">two</span> <span word="different">different</span> <span word="things">things</span>. <span word="Real">Real</span> <span word="friendships">friendships</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="coworkers">coworkers</span> <span word="will">will</span> <span word="form">form</span> <span word="naturally">naturally</span>, <span word="with">with</span> <span word="time">time</span>—<span word="not">not</span> <span word="likely">likely</span> <span word="on">on</span> <span word="day">day</span> <span word="one">one</span>. 在最初几周，给大家发邮件问问谁有兴趣陪你去熟悉一下周围地区的咖啡馆、优雅午餐地点、或休闲酒吧。人人心中其实都有表现的欲望。不过一定要问一问主管谁会接受你的邀请，<span word="CEO">CEO</span>大概就没时间和你一起喝马提尼酒。偶尔邀人一起出去，记住平衡工作和交际——它们是两回事。和同事间真正的友情会自然而然地形成，需要时间——不太可能第一天就会出现。</p>
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