拒绝帮忙请求难以启齿（下）
<p><span word="The">The</span> <span word="mere">mere</span> <span word="mention">mention</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="word">word</span> "<span word="favor">favor</span>" <span word="can">can</span> <span word="stun">stun</span> <span word="us">us</span> <span word="into">into</span> <span word="compliance">compliance</span>, <span word="which">which</span> <span word="answers">answers</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="question">question</span> <span word="staffers">staffers</span> <span word="often">often</span> <span word="ask">ask</span> <span word="themselves">themselves</span>: <span word="How">How</span> <span word="did">did</span> <span word="I">I</span> <span word="get">get</span> <span word="roped">roped</span> <span word="into">into</span> <span word="this">this</span>?</p><p>仅仅提到“帮忙”这个词就能吓得我们乖乖从命了，这也回答了很多人常常问自己的一个问题：我是怎么给套进去的？</p><p><span word="Stanford">Stanford</span>'<span word="s">s</span> <span word="Prof">Prof</span>. <span word="Flynn">Flynn</span> <span word="found">found</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="simply">simply</span> <span word="asking">asking</span> <span word="people">people</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="fill">fill</span> <span word="out">out</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="questionnaire">questionnaire</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="New">New</span> <span word="York">York</span>'<span word="s">s</span> <span word="Penn">Penn</span> <span word="Station">Station</span> <span word="resulted">resulted</span> <span word="in">in</span> 57% <span word="compliance">compliance</span>. <span word="But">But</span> <span word="prefacing">prefacing</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="question">question</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="phrase">phrase</span>, "<span word="Can">Can</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="do">do</span> <span word="me">me</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="favor">favor</span>?" <span word="followed">followed</span> <span word="by">by</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="pause">pause</span> <span word="pushed">pushed</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="level">level</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="compliance">compliance</span> <span word="to">to</span> 84%.</p>
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