British Pub-goers Manner 英国酒客的举止
<p><span word="So">So</span> <span word="now">now</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="have">have</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="drink">drink</span>, <span word="but">but</span> <span word="what">what</span> <span word="about">about</span> <span word="meeting">meeting</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="locals">locals</span>？ <span word="Pub">Pub</span>-<span word="goers">goers</span> <span word="will">will</span> <span word="indicate">indicate</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="unspoken">unspoken</span> <span word="ways">ways</span> <span word="if">if</span> <span word="they">they</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="interested">interested</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="chatting">chatting</span>. <span word="Concentrate">Concentrate</span> <span word="on">on</span> <span word="those">those</span> <span word="who">who</span> <span word="have">have</span> <span word="bought">bought</span> <span word="drinks">drinks</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="still">still</span> <span word="loitering">loitering</span> <span word="at">at</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="bar">bar</span>. <span word="Those">Those</span> <span word="who">who</span> <span word="have">have</span> <span word="moved">moved</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="sit">sit</span> <span word="at">at</span> <span word="tables">tables</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="probably">probably</span> <span word="not">not</span> <span word="seeking">seeking</span> <span word="company">company</span>. <span word="Look">Look</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="people">people</span> <span word="with">with</span> "<span word="open">open</span>" <span word="body">body</span> <span word="language">language</span>, <span word="facing">facing</span> <span word="outwards">outwards</span> <span word="into">into</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="room">room</span>. <span word="Don">Don</span>' <span word="t">t</span> <span word="ever">ever</span> <span word="introduce">introduce</span> <span word="yourself">yourself</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="an">an</span> <span word="outstretched">outstretched</span> <span word="hand">hand</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="big">big</span> <span word="smile">smile</span>. <span word="Natives">Natives</span> <span word="will">will</span> <span word="cringe">cringe</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="squirm">squirm</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="embarrassment">embarrassment</span> <span word="at">at</span> <span word="such">such</span> <span word="brashness">brashness</span>. <span word="The">The</span> <span word="British">British</span>, <span word="quite">quite</span> <span word="frankly">frankly</span>, <span word="do">do</span> <span word="not">not</span> <span word="want">want</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="know">know</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="name">name</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="shake">shake</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="hand">hand</span>——<span word="or">or</span> <span word="at">at</span> <span word="least">least</span> <span word="not">not</span> <span word="until">until</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="proper">proper</span> <span word="degree">degree</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="mutual">mutual</span> <span word="interest">interest</span> <span word="has">has</span> <span word="been">been</span> <span word="well">well</span> <span word="established">established</span> （<span word="like">like</span> <span word="maybe">maybe</span> <span word="when">when</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="marry">marry</span> <span word="their">their</span> <span word="daughter">daughter</span>）。</p><p>好，你现在喝上酒了，那又怎么和当地人接触呢？上酒吧的人如果有兴趣交谈的话，会用非言语方式表现出来。注意那些已经买了酒可还在吧台前晃荡的人。那些已经离开吧台，找到椅子坐下的人可能只想独斟。找那些脸朝外，朝屋里人看，用形体语言表示“可接触”的人。千万不要伸出手来笑容满面地自我介绍。对于这种轻率鲁莽，当地人会因尴尬而战战兢兢。坐立不安。坦率地说，英国人不想知道你的姓名，也不想跟你握手——至少在相互间尚未形成某种共同利益（譬如当你娶他们的女儿为妻）之前不会。</p><p><span word="Talk">Talk</span> <span word="generally">generally</span> <span word="about">about</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="weather">weather</span>, <span word="the">the</span> <span word="beer">beer</span> <span word="or">or</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="pub">pub</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="at">at</span> <span word="an">an</span> <span word="appropriate">appropriate</span> <span word="moment">moment</span>, <span word="offer">offer</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="newfound">newfound</span> <span word="companion">companion</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="drink">drink</span>. <span word="This">This</span> <span word="exchange">exchange</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="key">key</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="feeling">feeling</span> <span word="part">part</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="pub">pub</span> <span word="crowd">crowd</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="thereby">thereby</span> <span word="getting">getting</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="know">know</span> <span word="more">more</span> <span word="about">about</span> <span word="Britain">Britain</span> <span word="than">than</span> <span word="its">its</span> <span word="tourists">tourists</span> <span word="spots">spots</span>. <span word="The">The</span> <span word="ritual">ritual</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="sharing">sharing</span>——<span word="buying">buying</span> <span word="rounds">rounds</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="drinks">drinks</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="turn">turn</span>——<span word="is">is</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="great">great</span> <span word="significance">significance</span>. <span word="This">This</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="because">because</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="British">British</span> <span word="male">male</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="frightened">frightened</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="intimacy">intimacy</span>, <span word="finds">finds</span> <span word="it">it</span> <span word="difficult">difficult</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="express">express</span> <span word="friendly">friendly</span> <span word="interest">interest</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="other">other</span> <span word="males">males</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="can">can</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="somewhat">somewhat</span> <span word="aggressive">aggressive</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="his">his</span> <span word="manner">manner</span>.</p>
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