男人间的友谊
<p>也许男人天生就是彼此孤立的，孤独是我们的自然状态。即使成了朋友，也是无声的友谊，这使得我们能彼此独立地活着。</p><p>而一旦男人间建立起友谊，友谊本身就已说明了一切。我们的沉默，就是来自于对这份情感的欣赏。</p><p><span word="The">The</span> <span word="silence">silence</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="men">men</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="general">general</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="overtalked">overtalked</span> <span word="about">about</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="overcriticized">overcriticized</span>. <span word="To">To</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="sure">sure</span>, <span word="men">men</span> <span word="never">never</span> <span word="open">open</span> <span word="up">up</span> <span word="as">as</span> <span word="much">much</span> <span word="as">as</span> <span word="women">women</span> <span word="want">want</span> <span word="them">them</span> <span word="to">to</span>, <span word="but">but</span> <span word="there">there</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="wordless">wordless</span> <span word="understanding">understanding</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="which">which</span> <span word="we">we</span> <span word="function">function</span> <span word="fairly">fairly</span> <span word="well">well</span> <span word="especially">especially</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="friendships">friendships</span>.</p><p><span word="I">I</span> <span word="believe">believe</span>, <span word="in">in</span> <span word="fact">fact</span>, <span word="that">that</span> <span word="most">most</span> <span word="women">women</span> <span word="would">would</span> <span word="prefer">prefer</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="man">man</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="gloomily">gloomily</span> <span word="uncommunicative">uncommunicative</span> <span word="than">than</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="spill">spill</span> <span word="his">his</span> <span word="guts">guts</span> <span word="at">at</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="drop">drop</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="hat">hat</span>.</p><p><span word="The">The</span> <span word="push">push</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="men">men</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="express">express</span> <span word="their">their</span> <span word="feelings">feelings</span> <span word="presumes">presumes</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="we">we</span> <span word="have">have</span> <span word="feelings">feelings</span>, <span word="and">and</span> <span word="we">we</span> <span word="do">do</span> <span word="have">have</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="few">few</span>, <span word="but">but</span> <span word="they">they</span> <span word="remain">remain</span> <span word="submerged">submerged</span>, <span word="and">and</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="airing">airing</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="them">them</span> <span word="often">often</span> <span word="violates">violates</span> <span word="their">their</span> <span word="authenticity">authenticity</span>.</p><p><span word="I">I</span> <span word="am">am</span> <span word="no">no</span> <span word="biologist">biologist</span>, <span word="but">but</span> <span word="my">my</span> <span word="guess">guess</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="male">male</span> <span word="human">human</span> <span word="animal">animal</span> <span word="was">was</span> <span word="programmed">programmed</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="silence">silence</span>. <span word="I">I</span> <span word="would">would</span> <span word="go">go</span> <span word="so">so</span> <span word="far">far</span> <span word="as">as</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="argue">argue</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="men">men</span> <span word="were">were</span> <span word="programmed">programmed</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="isolated">isolated</span> <span word="from">from</span> <span word="one">one</span> <span word="another">another</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="aloneness">aloneness</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="our">our</span> <span word="natural">natural</span> <span word="state">state</span>. <span word="Silence">Silence</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="male">male</span> <span word="friendships">friendships</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="our">our</span> <span word="way">way</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="being">being</span> <span word="alone">alone</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="each">each</span> <span word="other">other</span>.</p><p><span word="Once">Once</span> <span word="men">men</span> <span word="have">have</span> <span word="established">established</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="friendship">friendship</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="itself">itself</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="word">word</span>. <span word="The">The</span> <span word="affection">affection</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="obvious">obvious</span>, <span word="at">at</span> <span word="least">least</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="us">us</span>. <span word="A">A</span> <span word="main">main</span> <span word="component">component</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="our">our</span> <span word="silence">silence</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="an">an</span> <span word="appreciation">appreciation</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="affection">affection</span>.</p>
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